What does love mean?

(1) 【 in love; Be in love; Be in love; The passion of love is difficult to be divided into stages.

The second chapter of Yang Mo's Song of Youth: "Lovers in love ..." Colleagues went out contentedly, and they still talked about the problem seriously.

Zhou Fu's Morning on the Beach Part II: "This song was learned from Guang Chen who was madly in love with Marilyn."

(2) [deep love]: deep attachment

Xiao Jun's Sheep in the Army II: "He loves to see the bugle on the wall. The ribbon of' Horn' has faded. "

The feeling of love

What's it like to be in love? Explain it in poetry.

Now I'm your gum,

You won't feel tired and cold after tossing and turning.

Now that you are my factory,

You never feel depressed and confused about your hardships.

Ross, it's outside the moon,

Love is like wine, always filled with that fragrance.

The feeling of being in love is really cool,

My eyes are still glowing after turning off the lights.

The feeling of being in love is really busy,

I changed more than a dozen sets of clothes in three days.

Now I'm your casino,

Make your eyes smile and your face is full of happiness.

Now that you are my glow stick,

Swing with you and sing with your heart.

A love birds, it brought the sun,

True love is like gold, you can't hide that desire.

The feeling of being in love is so cool,

The troubles of the past have turned into chicken soup you stewed.

The feeling of being in love is really horrible.

I haven't seen you for a night, and it feels longer than a hundred years.

If you find the right person,

Don't hesitate,

Light him (her) with the flame of life!

The taboo of love.

first

Don't ask women about the past. After all, it's over, and I can't stand the details. Simply put, you have been asking questions in your heart.

Second point

Similarly, don't tell her too much about the past, especially how deeply you love another woman and how self-esteem you have.

the third point

Don't have a virgin complex. Although there are not many people who have a virgin complex in this society, they are men after all, and they will mind more or less. Remember to correct their mentality.

Fourth point

Don't be too macho. Women in the new era are no longer the obedient little women. Too much male chauvinism can be unbearable.

Fifth point

Don't be too formal when making out. Formalization will make people feel that you have no mood and know nothing. This will scare your little girlfriend and make her suspect that you have had n relationships before.

The sixth point

Don't praise the beauty of other women to their faces. Women always think they are the most beautiful. You can praise other women in other ways, such as her inner beauty, so that she can feel her own shortcomings and know how to correct herself.

Point seven

Don't compare your ex-girlfriend with her. It's unfair to say how good her ex-girlfriend is. How do different people compare?

The eighth point

Don't hold her hand or hug her in front of friends, because she will be very sad and feel that you don't care about her, which will also make her lose face. Show love in front of others properly (especially don't yell at her in front of friends).

Point nine

Don't stare at a woman all the time in the street, or hold a woman's hand and look at a woman passing by. That's the biggest humiliation for her. You can have a look while she is away.

Point 10

Don't confess your infidelity, whether before or now, don't let her know that a woman's death will never accept a man's physical infidelity.

eleven

I don't know how to say sweet words. Sweet words are the lubricant of love, but if you say too much, it will be false.

The twelfth point

Don't doubt the other half easily. Excessive distrust makes people think that you are not confident and narrow-minded.

The thirteenth point

Don't try to bind a woman, but firmly believe that your warm arms are the support of her life, and too many actions will scare her away.

Point 14

Don't ignore your other half. Sending a text message and calling to comfort you when you are tired is more considerate than buying any gift.

Point 15

Don't pretend you don't understand. Women nowadays are not idiots. It's easy to see through your shallowness at a glance. What's the big deal if you don't understand?

Point 16

Don't run after your girlfriend, or even send text messages. It's easy for women to lose heart.

Point 17

Don't be too realistic when you are in love, it will scare her into coming in with you.

The auditorium of marriage (it takes impulse to get married, wisdom to run a marriage and courage to divorce).

The eighteenth point

Don't talk about sex when you first start dating, it will make people think that you are only dating her with your lower body.

Point 19

Don't bring her to work. You can talk to her, but don't lose your temper with her because of work problems.

The twentieth point

Don't call other people's names when sleeping next to her, remember to remember.

Women in Love

According to New Scientist Maraziti, Malac, an Italian female scientist, found that the gender difference in love is not so obvious, because during the period of love, the levels of male hormones in men and women tend to be the same. In other words, men are more like women, and women are more like men. Men will become more tender and affectionate, and women will become more affectionate.

In addition, some social and psychological factors also affect this change of men and women in love.

First of all, this is the different requirements of social traditional culture for men and women. In our cultural tradition, men are always required to be generous, generous, calm and tolerant, and don't haggle over every ounce. For women, society can accept their changeable personality.

Secondly, when there is a dispute in love, men and women have different endurance, and women are more vulnerable and angry.

Thirdly, there are some differences in self-confidence between men and women. With the development of sexual psychology, adolescent girls pay more and more attention to their gender roles and physical characteristics. Whether they are slim or beautiful is something that worries and annoys her. Women in love are anxious about more things, which is why they love to be angry.

Finally, men and women have different roles in love. When a man exerts his initiative, the more eager he is to pursue, the more nervous he is, and the more gentle he is than usual. In love, women will intentionally or unintentionally set some obstacles for their boyfriends to see if they can tolerate themselves, or simply test them by playing with their temper.

Psychologist Jung once pointed out that men have some feminine psychological characteristics, and women also have masculine psychological characteristics. In the special situation of love, these characteristics have been fully displayed.

The "expectation effect" in love.

Goethe, a German poet, said: which man doesn't love, which girl doesn't love spring. Young men and women beautify and attract each other, and both feel pleasing to the eye and comfortable, so "beauty is in the eye of the beholder". At this time, it is easy to produce the "expectation effect", that is, to give the other person the characteristics he wants to appear. The so-called "the moon moves and the clouds move, and it is suspected that it is a jade person." The natural scenery and the surrounding environment are branded with love. The "expectation effect" of men and women in love is reflected in the following aspects:

Words are implicit and poetic, behaviors are implicit and virtuous, and words, manners, eyes, expressions and behaviors all embody the word "love"; Some show the psychological characteristics of people who pursue wholeheartedly and are loyal to the right. No third party is allowed to intervene, so it is easy to be jealous. You know, love is exclusive, but friendship is inclusive We should respect each other's personality and allow each other to maintain normal interpersonal communication.

Some people's mood changes greatly, the heat can reach white heat and the cold can drop to freezing point. When you are happy, you dance and smile, and when you are upset, you are depressed and listless. This ups and downs of emotional changes sometimes have a negative impact on physical and mental health. Therefore, we should strengthen our self-cultivation and constantly improve ourselves to reduce emotional fluctuations.

When in love, people's cognitive activities tend to be narrow, their rational analysis ability is restrained, and their habitual behavior is destroyed. Many things that happen at this time may be completely different from usual. At the same time, due to the weakening of the ability to control oneself, it is often impossible to restrain one's behavior and correctly evaluate the significance and consequences of one's behavior, which may lead to premarital sex.

Young men and women in love should respect each other, respect themselves and love themselves, and keep their love pure and chaste. If one party loses his mind and makes unreasonable demands, the other party should dare to speak out, remind him in time, consciously lead his passion to broad fields such as ideal, study and future, or use other activities that are beneficial to physical and mental health to cultivate his sentiment and sublimate his sexual impulse.

Five kinds of dreams during love.

Every time I make up my mind, I must always achieve the goal of losing weight this time, but I still failed in the end. I believe many people have had this feeling.

From the behavior of another partner and other opposite sex in your dream, you can see the problems you encounter in your daily life. But if you are in love, you don't have to explain this dream, because you think about it day and night.

The following dreams are for readers' reference:

Dreaming that the other half quarreled with other opposite sex.

It means that you may lose money recently, or have a money dispute.

Dream that the other half is playing with other opposite sex.

Explain that you are actually very dissatisfied with some behaviors of the other party, which may be his/her living habits or his/her attitude towards spending money.

Dream that the other half is having dinner with other opposite sex.

It means that there is something wrong with your interpersonal relationship recently.

Dream that the other half gambles with other opposite sex.

This means that you feel stressed because you made a mistake in using money or working.

Dreaming that the other half has sex with other opposite sex.

It means that you will make a fortune or have a successful career.

Feature film of the same name

Title: Love in love

Director: Lu Xiaoya

Photography: Li Baoqi

Art: Gan Shaocheng

Composer: Lei Lei

Played by Xiong Dahua, Lv Xiaohe and Li Kechun.

Feature film. Produced by Emei Film Studio 1989.

The beautiful young Wen Jiefei is high flyers from a normal university. After graduation, she came to Hainan with a beautiful vision. Boyfriend cutie hopes that she can teach in his middle school, but Wen Jiefei has no intention of becoming an old teacher again and is determined to find a new way of life. In order to solve the accommodation problem, she met Fan Jiyuan, a farmer's construction contractor. Fan Jiyuan, who is very rich, has a low level of education, but respects intellectuals very much and readily solves the housing for Wen Jiefei. In order to find a satisfactory job, Wen Jie had to apply for a job in various companies, and even went to factories and dance halls, but none of them were satisfactory. To her surprise, many college students and teachers who can't find jobs have to sell newspapers and open small restaurants in the street to make a living. The nurse who came with her on the boat turned into a prostitute. Forced by life and cutie's enthusiasm for education, Wen Jiefei became a middle school teacher. However, in the tide of commodity economy, the high income of some people is in sharp contrast with the low salary of teachers, which always stimulates her restless heart. At the same time, Fan Jiyuan, a million-dollar household, kept pursuing her, and Wen Jiefei finally fell in love with Fan Jiyuan. Under the double blow of being lovelorn and neglecting education, cutie was disillusioned and left Hainan. After Wen Jiefei and Fan Jiyuan got married, cultural differences caused psychological imbalance. The distance between thoughts and feelings is irreparable in rich material life, and she feels confused and confused.