Ultra-detailed process and contract list

According to different regions and customs, the detailed contact process and list may be different. The following provides a general reference:

Process:

1. Parents of both parties meet to discuss the engagement date, bride price amount, engagement custom, etc.

2. Draw up the guest list of the engagement party: The number of people does not need to be too large, parents of both sides can meet, and close relatives can also meet.

3. Determine the engagement place: it is best to book a larger box, which is more atmospheric (book a hotel according to the number of guests).

4. Buy engagement rings, engagement clothes and items needed on engagement day: such as engagement rings, engagement clothes, flowers, cakes, tea sets, wedding candy, etc.

5. Both men and women prepare their own bride price and return gifts: according to the results of the meeting and discussion at that time, they prepare their own bride price and return gifts.

6. Determine the process and personnel on the engagement day: For example, on the engagement day, both men and women will discuss the arrangement process and whether a host and photographer are needed.

7. Inform the guests of the date and place of the engagement party in advance: 1-2 weeks in advance.

8. Remind parents to prepare speeches. Newcomers prepare speeches: Is there a speech? According to local customs, an engagement party is not a pure marriage, so it doesn't need to be grand. Parents of both sides briefly talk about the feelings of their children's engagement, and newcomers simply talk about the process of understanding and the feelings of engagement.

List:

1. Cake: It means sweet love.

2. Wedding candy: distributed to all the guests attending the engagement party to express their gratitude.

3. Red envelopes: For the relatives and friends of the woman, the specific number is decided by the woman through consultation.

4. Bride's gifts: gifts brought by the man to the woman, such as jewelry, furniture, betrothal money, etc.

5. Return gifts: gifts given to the man by the woman's family, such as towels, cigarettes, wine, etc.

6. Flowers: A bunch of beautiful roses indicates the purity and beauty of love.

7. Tea set: used to offer tea to the woman's parents.