Which is more important, a child’s performance or growth?

Growing up is not an easy topic, but the process of children's growth can be easy and happy. Their childhood should be happy and unforgettable, because the subtle and invisible education method is the most important thing for children. Be receptive.

Yu Kaiping, a member of the Beijing Young Pioneers, is a well-known "entomologist" among his classmates. He can name many rare insects; and the specimens of mantises, butterflies and other insects that he collected and made by himself are very professional and authentic, making many people admire him.

In fact, Yu Kaiping has been fond of small animals since he was very young. His biggest hobby is catching, raising and observing bugs. Therefore, during holidays, his parents often took him to the suburbs of Beijing to look for bugs and taught him how to collect, search, and collect relevant information. As he accumulated day after day, his interest became stronger and he vowed to become a real entomologist when he grew up. With this dream in mind, Yu Kaiping studied easily, happily, proactively and persistently.

In the minds of children, "growth" is more than just scores. "Growth" is more important than grades. Because "growth" requires the "nourishment" of dreams, friendships, interests, happiness, self-confidence, tenacity, courage and determination.

Miao Xiaoxiao is the Chinese class representative in the class. She likes literature. Seeing that many students in the class do not fall in love with Chinese class, she finds some extracurricular reading materials related to the text and shares them with her classmates. reading, thus stimulating students’ interest in learning. Miao Xiaoxiao loves photography, and she has also applied this hobby to Chinese language learning. During weekends and after-school time, she took a lot of photos related to the text, such as the dense poplar forest and the children's silhouettes that look more and more beautiful. Tall, majestic poplar trees. She visualized the visual descriptions in the text, allowing students to feel the joy of Chinese language learning. In fact, children’s learning potential is unlimited, and the methods are flexible and diverse. If parents and teachers can be good at discovering children’s strengths and interests, create conditions, actively guide, and encourage children to persevere on the path of hope, their Learning should be happy, and childhood will be happy too.

Children’s growth takes time, and their various abilities are developed slowly. The famous American educator Dewey advocated the educational concept of allowing children to slowly develop abilities and shape personality through activities and discovery learning, which led to a huge change in the school education methods in the United States after World War II. Italian educator Malaguzzi also believes that we must pay great attention to and respect children's time. In order to leave time for their growth, education must slow down. This means that educators-parents and teachers should not rely on children's future abilities. Educators should not rush to impose their urgent educational ideals on immature children.

Today’s parents cannot wait for their children to master all the knowledge that parents think is useful; they do not know how to teach their children to think, but hope that their children will remember ready-made and reliable answers to all questions; they do not want their children to try to walk Follow your own path, but beware of your children’s “cheating” at all times.

There is a parent who wants his daughter to be able to play the piano at the age of five. After that, she will take dance classes and foreign language classes, publish articles in the first grade, and write a martial arts novel with tens of thousands of words in the fourth grade, all in one night in the first grade of junior high school. Is this kind of education normal for a 7,000-word romance novel? Is this the education they should receive at their age? This kind of education that prematurely develops children's potential is a very fashionable educational trend in society nowadays. In fact, it often does negative work. For example, let your children learn to draw. Parents send their children to the classes of professional teachers at an early age to receive guidance on standardized techniques. As a result, they can draw whatever they want at an early age, but this causes the children to lose their imagination. and creativity. Why not allow children to graffiti freely and experience the joy of free imagination and unfetteredness?

At present, many parents devote most of their energy, material and financial resources to their children.

However, many parents’ hard work may not get the expected rewards in the end. Sometimes, their children become their parents’ worries. If parents ignore objective factors and insist on high demands and high investment, the result may be higher expectations and greater disappointment. As a result, parents will lose a lot of common sense and patience, and become more harsh and blaming. Children's self-confidence and abilities often deteriorate under such pressure and are unsatisfactory. When it comes to children's growth, parents should not put too much pressure on their children. They should not blindly raise their demands or increase the burden on their children. They should learn to wait for their children's growth. Parents should actively guide their children as they grow, so that their children can enjoy their growth and grow up healthily and happily under the care and care of their parents.