Truth and cover-up

When listening to people, don't just listen to the surface, but distinguish what the other person's real intention is from the words. This is what he wants to say. Just like a three-year-old child wants toys and candy, he won't say it directly, but will let you know euphemistically, and adults know how to hide their real purpose with words.

Of course, what a person tries to hide should be his weaknesses or shortcomings.

Today's society is the era of the Internet. Except for some unnecessary social activities in normal work and life, almost everyone lives in the world of the Internet. Brush Tik Tok, play games, brush friends to share your life, or create another self, live in a virtual world, etc., to pass the increasingly impetuous life.

I remember reading a fable once. A famous photographer went to a poor place to take pictures. He took many photos about the culture and unique scenery there. The local villagers are very enthusiastic and cooperate with the photographers.

Gradually, everyone became familiar with the photographer, and the villagers were not stiff. They became interested in curious photographic equipment, and the photographer took pains to teach the villagers how to use it.

When he left, he left his photographic equipment for the villagers to use. After a while, the photographer came back to get his own photographic equipment. He found that in the photos taken by local villagers, the characters in each photo had no feet. Later, he learned that they were barefoot not because of custom, but because of poverty. The reason why they don't take pictures of their feet is to cover up their poverty.

When people are invaded by the outside world, their instinctive reaction is to run away, hide, cover up and disguise as much as possible, mostly to avoid being attacked, just like a chameleon changing color. They are good at using their own advantages to hide themselves and avoid being hurt by the outside world.

The old proverb "A dog jumps over a wall, a rabbit bites" shows that when a person is attacked and no way back is attacked, he is bound to stand up and go all out without scruple.

I remember that there is such a metaphor in Woods' Art of War, "Today, dead thieves lie in the wilderness, and thousands of people chase them, so they look down on wolves." who is it? I avoided it and hurt myself. It is because one person lost his life that he is afraid of thousands of people. "

When a person is under attack, but he can't retreat, he will try his best to resist, and the fear in his heart has completely turned into a terrible force.

Hiding is something that human beings have been born with since they appeared on the earth, from which "human psychology" and "human trace science" were born. If you want to know the truth behind the hiding, you have to look for the reasons from the clues of human behavior.