Is it normal to write (really) being eaten tofu?

It is normal. It is normal for an unprofessional cameraman to make excuses when taking pictures.

You'd better ask your girlfriend to change houses. Really can't. You go with her. If the photographer's hands and feet are not clean, you can shout "that place seems out of your reach." You're welcome at all, but I still suggest you find a professional photographer, because even if you go to him, what can you do? You said he touched it, but he said he didn't. If you refuse to admit your ability, bring more people to scare him next time, and then take a photo in another company. It doesn't matter if you spend more money, but it's best to destroy the digital negatives in that person's hand so as not to infringe on his portrait rights.