Is a forty-year-old woman really old? what do you think?

Forty years old, with two apartments and loans, one or two friends, almost no social interaction, divorced from a girl, freshman.

My parents, who started working in junior high school, came to Beijing-Tianjin-Hebei region from their hometown of Chongqing for more than 20 years and took root here alone. Trump? There is no such thing. Now occasionally strangers in the northeast ask me where my hometown is from in the northeast. Laugh.

After marriage, I did a lot of bottom-level work, worked as a tallyman, shampoo salesman, mobile phone salesman and liquor salesman in the county supermarket, and later worked as a liquor wholesale agent and opened a trading company. Aries knows that stupidity doesn't feel tired every day like fighting.

After the divorce, he ran a hot pot restaurant in the county town 100 km away from home. When I invested more than two million yuan, I hired 30 people and paid millions of IQ taxes. The business environment is not good, start from a small restaurant. How much pressure does a person have to bear? His hair is gone, his house is sold and his car is bankrupt. I lived a few years.

Now I'm in the store almost 24 hours a day. I used to be a woman like the wind, doing business, traveling and running around like an iron man.

I watched the documentary "Life Gate", "The Story of Emergency Room" and "Life on Earth" this year. Now is the way for Buddhists to make money. Don't worry. Don't envy others, you know everyone is fighting a war you don't know.

I started to get tired this year and began to take care of my body. Lost weight in 80 days 13 kg. Now pay attention to drinking boiled water, eating fruit and drinking milk every day. I have had short hair for more than ten years, and I started to wear it this year. I also want to make a change, that is, start from scratch. I don't want to run away. I prefer to keep a diary, watch movies and documentaries and read e-books every day. My heart is very calm. Cherish fate but don't pursue it deliberately. No more vanity, no more material. No more noise.

When we encounter difficulties, we will think of former South Korean President park geun-hye, and we will be free no matter what.

The pain crushed by life is branded deep in my heart and slowly becomes armor. The books I have read, the scenery I have seen and the hurdles I have crossed have all become what I am at this time.

I set myself a goal: to be rich and live long. Vernacular is to earn more money and pay attention to your health.

It will take another 20 years to retire at 60.

Now work is life, be a sweeping monk silently. I have also thought about how to live if there is only one year left in my life. I feel it's a pity to go to Buenos Aires except for not going to the five major fishing villages in Italy. Try to follow your heart.

The older you get,

The smaller the ideal.

I want to make a documentary and write a book in my spare time. Although I haven't graduated from high school, I like reading since I was a child.

I can't go to Wuyun Village and try to build one myself. I bought a house in my hometown in Chongqing. This year, the foundation has been laid. It belongs to the central zone of the national wetland park, with green mountains and green waters on both sides, a clear river and a forest oxygen bar. The air is super good, and the government is actively making it a tourist attraction. I plan to organize a group for the elderly in the future, which is very good!

Now pursue

It's faster to take your time, but you're quiet and quiet.

Always look forward to tomorrow and always believe that tomorrow will be better.

Forever young, forever in tears.

A person should be as strong as a team!

Fear of life.

* * * Encourage.

Whether a 40-year-old woman is old or not depends on her lifestyle and mentality.

Li Jie is a female classmate of mine. At school, she wore heavy makeup for a long time, with thick powder on her face, panda-like eyes and bright red lips. Let's just say that I've never seen Li Jie after taking off her makeup.

Li Jie fell in love at that time. Her love history is very rich, and she is in contact with social people. I don't know who she married after graduation. All I know is that she divorced and took a daughter.

She worked in a state-owned enterprise for several years, and then went into business. Her career path is smoother than her love path. Although there are always twists and turns, she can save the day every time.

In a word, Li Jie is a restless man. I feel that she has experienced more things in this decade than in my life.

I met her at a class reunion ten years ago. That was the first time I saw Li Jie without makeup. There is an expression of excitement and burnout on her face. Although her skin is very white, she is very relaxed, especially her two bags under her eyes are very obvious, which is completely unlike a 39-year-old person.

At that party, I also met another female classmate, Xiao Ning. Compared with school, she is only a little plump, but she is still tall and beautiful, with bright eyes looking around. Xiao Ning's skin is delicate and firm, and there is no trace of her forty years old.

Xiao Ning's life track is completely different from that of Li Jie. She never wears makeup at school. It's not that she doesn't want to, it's that her family's conditions are poor and her clothes are old. Where did she get the money to buy cosmetics?

After graduation, Xiao Ning has changed two units, but she has been in the system. She is an easy-to-satisfy woman, as long as she earns enough money to spend. Her biggest hobbies are traveling and photography, and looking for fun among mountains and rivers.

Li Jie and Xiao Ning are both my classmates. They are all in the same youth, but by the age of forty, there is a huge difference. I think this is the difference between living a complicated life and living a simple life.

A woman with forty-one flowers is elegant. How can you say she is old?

At the age of forty, she said she was old. Is an 80-year-old woman a fairy?

Don't be confused at forty, don't compare a girl at twenty with her own length, don't compare a woman at thirty with her own skin, and don't complain in front of a woman at fifty or sixty.

No matter how old a woman is, there is a little girl in her heart. Although the physiological age is increasing, most women feel young at heart, at least much younger than their peers.

What breaks a woman's heart the most is that when she is walking in the street wearing the new clothes she just bought, a young man suddenly stops you: Auntie, how can I get to * *? At that time, I suddenly wanted to swear, and I went home and felt sad in the mirror for a long time. I don't know when I became an aunt. If someone calls grandma, will she jump off a building?

A 40-year-old woman is very enviable: her career is relatively stable, her children have grown up, and she has no financial burden. If the old man is still healthy, isn't it time to enjoy a beautiful old age?

Although at the age of forty, she may face many difficulties and difficulties, but a woman at the age of forty is no longer impatient and extreme, doing things more smoothly and dealing with problems more smoothly than when she was young.

Although, when I was forty years old, I used to feel that the years were ruthlessly urging me to get old. I turned around and still faced everything with a smile, but I died at forty and was buried at eighty. I hope that when I am eighty, I will be as happy as when I was forty.

Just last week, 42-year-old Xiao Liu of our unit became a mother. These days, not only her family is happy for her, but everyone in our unit is proud of her. Because she is a very commendable mother. She has been married for more than ten years, and the couple have never had children. In order to have children, the couple have gone through a lot of twists and turns, and they have suffered mentally and physically over the years. Finally, IVF succeeded in Beijing. Gave birth to a big fat boy of 6.5 kg. Everyone is happy for this elderly woman.

Why? Because she is a very strong, optimistic and young person. Although he is over 40 years old, he has never given up his dream. Never change your original intention. In our unit, I have never seen this 40-year-old sister fold in the face of difficulties. She is always positive and optimistic, and she is also a good challenge person. Although he entered middle age, he never lost to life. Last year, she was admitted to accounting, got a driver's license and fell in love with traveling. Anyway, she has a good temperament and a young mind. In him is the mental state of people in their twenties and thirties, and there is no 40-year-old person at all. So I said. As a woman, you should have such a mentality and temperament.

As a woman, as long as you have a dream, you must persist, and as long as you have a goal, you must work hard. A woman with dreams and pursuits is the most beautiful woman. This kind of woman will never sleep and will always be young. Because they are always confident, self-reliant and self-reliant. Because they are always young and beautiful, so I said, as a woman, we should have a high and lively color and have our own way of life. The same face is rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, but different mentality is often different life. Only living a state and being wonderful in live high is the embodiment of a woman's best years. Only in this way can you see the youth characteristics of different middle-aged women.

I think if we push the time forward ten or twenty years, then a 40-year-old woman may really look older; But now, looking around at women of forty, I feel that they are far from feeling "old".

Let's start with a 40-year-old woman in marriage.

Pingping is in his early forties this year, and his son is studying at a university in other places. After the initial "empty nest" discomfort, she and her husband slowly found the feeling of being alone.

There are only husband and wife at home, so the focus of life is not on eating; When my son was in high school, dinner was a hearty meal, and now it is often a meat, a vegetable and a soup. Sometimes two people are not happy to cook dinner, so they just eat some noodles or order some dishes in the restaurant next door to fill their stomachs.

In the spare time, they take a walk together after dinner and go out for an outing together on weekends; Before long, Pingping looked much better than before, and he looked a few years younger. When asked why, Pingping smiled and said that there was no psychological burden, so it would be natural.

Lili is a single mother. After the divorce ten years ago, she raised the children alone. Now that the child is in high school, she is in her forties.

Although after the divorce, the ex-husband did not pay a penny of maintenance; But Lili has a good job and raised her daughter with her indomitable temper.

And Lili's mentality has always been very good, even in such a difficult environment, she did not complain too much; On the contrary, I face life with a cheerful attitude.

In the ten years of being single, many men have also pursued Lili; But for some reason, she has never been tempted, so until now, she is still single.

Because of her good attitude, Lili in her forties looks younger than her actual age; Moreover, the hardships of life left no trace on her, and she felt as warm as the bright sunshine.

Ru Ru is a single woman in her late fifties. She was injured once when she was young, and then she closed her heart and never got married.

Single, she has a certain position, several girlfriends and several hobbies; Besides going to work, I will chat with my girlfriends, go shopping, listen to music and practice calligraphy, and live a full life every day.

Although from the outside, Ru Ru is not young; But her whole mental state is upward, so her mentality is very young. Who will think she is old?

Therefore, I think for women, age is really not a problem; As long as you have a good attitude, you can prolong your youthful state.

Are you right?

A woman of forty is old. I felt old when I was a teenager. Now that I am 28, I don't think a 40-year-old woman is old. So this "old" is comparative, not superlative. For example, at the age of 28, I am also an old aunt in the eyes of 00; And in front of 50-year-old people, I am still in my prime.

A forty-year-old woman is a little embarrassed. With the arrival of the second child policy, many women in their forties gave birth to a second child and became the mothers of newborns. Some early-married women in their forties are going to be grandmothers.

So my 2-year-old son is a little at a loss when he meets a 40-year-old woman, and he doesn't know whether to call grandma or aunt.

Play with me. Women should be confused sometimes. Like my mother, I forgot my age. At forty, she always thought she was thirty-two; at fifty, she always thought she was forty-five. Therefore, she has always been young in appearance, young in heart and young in spirit, facing the years calmly and without anxiety.

Everyone will get old, and no one will not get old.

In other words, mentality.

I really have a 40-year-old woman around me, but she lives very clearly and knows what she has and doesn't need.

You are 40 years old. You should read more books and enrich your experience. You can go for a walk.

I woke up one day and saw fine lines in the corner of my eyes. To tell the truth, at that moment, I was really afraid of getting old.

Think about it, your face grows old with the years, and your friends around you become more and more mature and steady, losing the impulse of youth. Even talking is "when I was young" and "when I was young", and I feel scared when I think about it. A person's life is actually quite short.

There are also cases where a 60-year-old woman goes to learn the piano and learns it well. As long as she has a curious learning heart, she will always be young and full of tears.

When you walk in the twilight of your life, looking back on your life, with traces of the years, your voice is full of vicissitudes and your eyes are full of stories. Such a life should be worth living!

Is a 40-year-old woman really old?

I will be over 40 this year. I don't think I'm old, but I have a deep sense of urgency.

I have children to support and I want to be a big media player. I want to see where I want to go. In order to live the life I want in the future, I want to make money hard.

I feel good now. I'm not too old. At this age, I have seen much, seen much, understood everything and lived completely.

I feel that my age is just right. I will be old in two years, and I will be a few years younger. Insufficient experience and insufficient capital accumulation. Everything is just right.

However, there are still many things I want to do, so I have a deep sense of urgency. I am afraid that I don't have enough time, that I spend too little time with my children, and that it is too difficult to walk on the road to success.

Stop it, stop it, I will seize every minute to work hard!

A 40-year-old woman, if well maintained, will find it attractive at first sight, but once she is honest, it will make people feel more or less sorry. After all, her 40-year-old physical function is much better than that of her 20 s and 30 s, so she won't admit it!

When a girl is in her twenties, it should be the best time. At that time, they were not only full of vitality, but also their skin was smooth and elastic, and the state of each part reached its peak.

After the age of 30, although I feel more mature and charming from the outside, I have already begun to languish. Even if I increase my maintenance efforts, I will definitely not catch up with the previous charm.

This is like a flower, it always has a process from prosperity to decline. Girls in their twenties, just like when the flowers are just blooming, the attractive breath and the gorgeous from the inside out are sometimes irresistible.

But once you are over 30, you will gradually shrink and wither. At this time, no matter how you maintain it, you can't stop the process of decline at all. You can only barely support it for a while to seek psychological comfort.

By the time I really reached the age of forty, the flowers had turned into fruits, and the once delicate beauty was gone. Even so, fruit is the food we need most. Although it is less delicate and romantic, it can make us realize what we really need, isn't it?

A 40-year-old woman can't just judge by her appearance. At this time, most of her has become a good wife and mother, and this responsibility and responsibility is the most valuable.

I think everyone is familiar with the saying "Rhapsody in July is a flower".

A forty-year-old woman is also a blooming rose.

A forty-year-old woman is not old!

Men and women have different ways of thinking because of their different physiological and psychological structures. July rhapsody still feels handsome and attractive at the age of 40, while women feel old and faded at the age of 40.

Give a well-known example. A few days ago, Lin Chi-ling posted that she was married.

This is Lin Chi-ling's first marriage in more than 40 years. Do you think she is old? Do you think she is the kind of woman who is old and faded?

Women value maintenance. Support doesn't mean that they won't do housework without children. They just do aerobic exercise in their spare time or at a fixed time every day. Running can promote blood circulation and accelerate metabolism. This is why some people insist on running every day, and people in their forties and fifties are still as tough as those in their thirties.

You should also apply a mask regularly and eat foods rich in vitamin C, such as tomatoes and kiwis.

Go to bed early and get up early every day, and keep a good attitude.