Why is it taboo to pat people on the shoulder?

Everyone knows that patting on the shoulder has many meanings, such as intimacy, concern and beating and cursing. The superior pats the lower level or the elder pats the younger generation on the shoulder to show concern, and the photographed person will feel encouraged and concerned. And lovers or two people who are ambiguous clap their shoulders to show intimacy and want to be close; Between peers and friends, patting on the shoulder is more often an expression of encouragement, friendship, slapstick or greeting. It seems that I have finished the positive significance of patting people on the shoulder. Is that all? Chen Peng's dream interpretation tells you that actually patting people on the shoulder is a big taboo! You don't take it lightly. Do you know what's going on?

1, it is forbidden for subordinates to take pictures of their superiors and for schoolmates to take pictures of their elders. This harvest is more of disgust and disgust. A pat on the shoulder is an intimate act. When he has a sense of distance from you, it is difficult for you to accomplish many things. A friend of Chen Peng's dream interpretation once said that a subordinate of a company, who was not very close to him at ordinary times, suddenly patted himself on the shoulder one day, and he had the impulse to knock him to the ground and criticize him. A friend said that this action of his subordinates made him feel disrespectful and * * *, and he was particularly angry.

2. Don't pat shoulders between people who are not familiar with each other. Some people are familiar with others and think that others are just like themselves. They met once or twice and became friends and acquaintances. This is also a story. When I was working in Shenzhen, I had a new colleague in Quanzhou, Fujian. Because he is from Fujian, he is particularly enthusiastic about all his colleagues in Fujian. For a colleague in Fuzhou, a pat on the shoulder finally broke out. He angered his new colleague, "Show me some respect! Don't always touch it with your hands. " Generally speaking, if you are not particularly familiar with it, putting your hand on the other person's shoulder is an invasion of private space and very uncomfortable. In this case, I believe that most people have experienced similar experiences, and anyone can name a few people who are not so accepted but like to pat themselves on the shoulder.

3, taboo when people do not pay attention to people's shoulders. According to folk numerology, people have three lights and two lights on their shoulders. If they pat each other on the shoulder in a frightening way, it is easy to put out the two lights. For the parties, the damage is not ordinary.

The light fortune is ruined, for example, when the parties are playing cards, mahjong, settling accounts, and talking about business, they are most afraid of being suddenly patted on the shoulder. Because the moment when a person is suddenly patted on the shoulder, people will be in a trance for that moment. Therefore, some thieves often steal other people's property by patting them on the shoulder. In many local customs, it is particularly taboo to be patted on the shoulder by others, especially businessmen.

In other words, he fell asleep for a few days, and his condition worsened and even died. What do you think will happen if you walk lightly behind a man who walks at night and suddenly pat him on the shoulder? If you sit behind the driver who is concentrating on driving and suddenly pat the driver on the shoulder, it is easy to cause a car accident. How miserable it is for you to pat others on the shoulder when they are doing dangerous things (such as cutting vegetables and turning on machine tools)! Some people especially like to pat others on the shoulder when they are sitting in chairs or high places, causing the parties to fall, climb over the railing, or fall directly.

In 2008, a waitress in Nanjing was slapped by a colleague and scared to death. On August 24th, 2008, Nanjing Morning Post reported that a man who was also a waiter in a restaurant suddenly patted the girl on the shoulder from behind. The girl turned pale with fear. After being patted on the shoulder, the girl looked trance, her face never improved, and her body always trembled. The other girls just let the girl have a rest. But just as they were helping the girl leave the hall, the girl suddenly fell to the ground. "The foreman said that when the girl was found unconscious, they immediately sent the girl to the Second Affiliated Hospital of Southern Medical University nearby for rescue." In the hospital, after the doctor's rescue, the girl woke up from a coma. The doctor said that the girl was in a coma because of shock. "We know that some people who are in poor health, especially those with bad hearts, are most afraid of sudden attacks from behind. Any sudden impact may have serious consequences.

At the end of the article, Chen Peng interprets dreams and shares with you two stories of horror after being patted on the shoulder.

Netizen Q: He works in KTV, and it is normal to work at night. Because I live near my work place, I often walk home alone after work at night. One night after work, there was no one in the street. He went home alone as usual. He wears headphones and listens to music on his mobile phone while walking. Suddenly, he felt a heavy pat on the shoulder. He looked back and there was no one. On an empty street, on an empty night, he was alone ... he was suddenly shocked.

Netizen Lin: Actually, her experience is similar to that of Ah Q, except that she was patted on the shoulder in her sleep. She woke up directly from her dream for three consecutive nights. Every time she felt a heavy slap on her shoulder, she couldn't remember what happened in the dream, but she remembered that she was slapped on her shoulder and then woke up. She slept alone and woke up stiff. After three days in a row, she told Chen Peng that she was afraid to go back to that room to sleep now.