20 17 has passed more than half.

Unconsciously, the year of 20 17 has passed halfway.

In the days to come, you should get used to anyone's hot and cold, and look down on anyone's drifting away. May you get everything you want and let go of everything you can't get.

Two dog sent a circle of friends: Everyone can have a good time in their own way, but I always seem unhappy. Probably because I want too much and rely too much. Halfway through 20 17, I still haven't made any progress, and even I hate myself.

Time will not wait for you, did this sentence hit you? After reading this passage, I paused for at least 5 seconds. I suddenly feel that I have not met my expectations in the past six months, and I don't know why. Half a year has passed, and I wonder how many people feel the same way.

Joyce, who is far away from Hong Kong, asked me if I felt better recently and whether I would continue to write at Panda College. I told her that in the past six months, she wrote very little, and spent most of her time drawing, reading, or working overtime, and the official number was not updated.

Joyce immediately became worried: huh? ! Your WeChat official account is great! Why don't you work? Even if you can't do one article a day, you can do it once a week. Don't break! Although I devote myself to my work, I don't have to completely close another door!

Looking at the text she sent me, I also began to reflect. I feel that this half year has wasted a lot of time. Only when you feel that your time is valuable will you feel that your time is wasted. God is fair to everyone, 24 hours a day, free to control, really valuable time will be less than you think.

I always have the habit of keeping track of time. I open the time record APP, and the investment time is1October 1.5%, February 1.5%, March 1. 1%, April 6.2%, May 4.3% and June 5.7. It also proves that I am entering a downward period on the growth curve of growth.

The society is changing rapidly, and it is terrible to stagnate. If you don't improve your self-worth from 8: 00 to 10 after work, it will be difficult for you to stand out among the increasingly obvious classes in society.

If you want to become more valuable, you should devote your time to yourself, make yourself better, and clearly distinguish between what is worth chasing and what must be given up.

Because time never waits for you.

Open my annual goal Jiugongge, and use each item in Jiugongge to check my goals and progress in work, life, health, financial management, interpersonal communication, learning and growth, experiencing breakthroughs and relaxation.

Some are in progress, some are obviously backward, sailing against the current, and if you don't advance, you will retreat. I really started to fall behind in this invisible race with myself. But don't worry when you see such backwardness. Let's analyze why first.

1- too many unreasonable goals: a person can control his time in the workplace is very limited. If you set too many goals and allocate the limited time to multiple goals, the effectiveness of each goal will be very low.

Solution: Give up the goal, shelve or give up the unnecessary or conflicting goals with the current work, study and growth, such as cooking (vegetable learning plan, food photography plan), second child plan and so on.

2- Pseudo-working state: Pseudo-working, as the name implies, is not real work, but "busy" without thinking. I found that I was very busy with my work in the past six months, and this state is very problematic. I found myself anxious. There is a long list of to-do items every day, and then it seems to be a sense of accomplishment after completion.

In fact, this is all an illusion. Many jobs may not be so urgent and meaningful. They indulge in urgent and unimportant things, but feel at ease that they are working and have no illusions of wasting. Actually, that's another kind of meaningless work.

Solution: Make clear the important things, separate yourself from the routine work, pay attention to people, pay attention to management itself, and help subordinates grow.

3- Environmental emotional interference: If you compare emotions to a pool of clear water, there will always be some waves in life and workplace, and changes in the internal environment and external temptations will interfere with people's emotions. And these disturbances will make you more or less confused, hesitant and shaken. So this kind of internal friction will make your energy consumption very high.

Solution: Clear up interpersonal relationships, as Brother Hui said, don't worry about right and wrong, don't worry about success or failure, the key is whether you have learned anything new.

Come to think of it, how much have you accomplished in your 20 17 plan? Don't always leave your dreams in the future and what you want to do in the future. The only thing you waste is not time.

But yourself.

It's been half a year, how can I stop hating my grades in the second half of the year?

Work recovery: Ask yourself if the work you are spending time doing at the moment is what you want to do, and how much potential have you exerted in your work? Are you secretly confronting and contradicting yourself? What's your favorite job?

Relationship restoration: What is the status of your marriage now? What kind of friends are worth making friends with? How is your relationship with your family? What is your relationship with your children?

Health recovery: How was your health in the past six months? How did you sleep? How's the diet?

Financial management: What is your current financial situation? How much is passive income? What is the continuous cash flow? How much investment is spent on learning and growth?

Learning and growth: where did you get it recently and have a strong curiosity? Have you learned any new knowledge and ideas? How do they affect your behavior and cognition?

These questions are worth asking yourself, exploring and understanding its laws, improving self-awareness, making a new round of evaluation on yourself and starting a new round of evolution.

I remember a saying in the book Poor Charlie, try to gain knowledge from your own experience, and try not to learn extensively from the success or failure of others, whether ancient or modern.

Not to gain experience from others' success or failure, but to sum up experience from one's own failure. Only such knowledge has real value.

Sometimes, failure is a very lucky thing. It tells you how to overcome your own problems and ultimately generate more long-term benefits in your life. Therefore, every failure will make you stronger, temper your mind, emotions and resilience in disasters, setbacks and blows, and make yourself the best beneficiary of the failure experience.

Starting today, make plans and fill the gaps in the second half of the year with actions. Give yourself a reasonable goal, a suitable plan, a reason to persist, and an opportunity to change. Work harder, only for better yourself!

To express your thoughts freely, write; For better health, go to the gym; To please yourself and help others, share; To satisfy your curiosity, learn something new. As long as you keep investing time, energy and money. I believe that time must be visible.

Finally, send me a joke from Joyce: It doesn't matter after half a year. "If you don't do well in the first half of the year, don't be discouraged. Because: the founding of the party on July 1, the founding of the army on August 1 and the founding of the country on November 11 were all completed in the second half of this year. In the first half of the year, it was either March 8th or Qingming Festival, or May 4th or June 1st, which was still immature.

Unconsciously, the year of 20 17 has passed halfway. In the days to come, you should get used to anyone's hot and cold, and look down on anyone's drifting away. May you get everything you want and let go of everything you can't get.

Come on! ~

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I'm Zhou. Working mothers,

Be an elite in the workplace during the day and take care of the children at night.

Get up early to write and read.

Love photography and painting, and insist on writing down the words that leave your mind.

After reading my article, I gained something. Welcome to reward, pay attention and like it!