Character experience, Liu Xiaoqing.

I read her story carefully, a legendary woman. Many people disdain or even scoff at her, but she is strong and optimistic in the face of various setbacks in life, which is worth learning from each of us. Women should be like this-how did Liu Xiaoqing stand up? Women should learn to be as tough as grass!

She is 48 years old and has been in prison. Now 60 years old, plump as 18 years old, and then married a rich man.

I read her story carefully, a legendary woman. Many people disdain or even scoff at her, but she is strong and optimistic in the face of various setbacks in life, which is worth learning from each of us. Women should be like this-how did Liu Xiaoqing stand up? Women should learn to be as tough as grass!

20 14 The most surprising news in the entertainment circle is that the famous movie star Liu Xiaoqing got married in the United States at the age of 58. The groom is Wang Xiaoyu, a Hong Kong businessman behind the door. It is said that the other party has been infatuated with her for many years.

When the news came out, the biggest reaction was women: Why can a woman in her 500 s still stay beautiful, live a happy and healthy life, and finally marry such a husband, which makes us women who work hard for our emotions, health and family always feel farther and farther away from happiness?

Some people even shouted: Sister Qing is mighty! What is the secret? Let's explore Liu Xiaoqing's life and find the answer. Fate is bumpy, and he chooses to be optimistic and strong. Liu Xiaoqing has repeatedly claimed to be "a grass on the Kunlun Mountain" in public, which means that he has a strong vitality and can survive no matter what adversity he is in, and live beautifully. This is also the case.

In Liu Xiaoqing's life, all kinds of setbacks, big and small, almost always accompany her. She has been at the forefront of public opinion, worshipped and spurned. So far, the biggest setback in her life should be the tax case that began in 2002. At that time, she was formally arrested on suspicion of tax evasion by many of her companies, and her closest sister and brother-in-law were also implicated in the case and arrested.

At that time, the case attracted much attention, and Liu Xiaoqing had a premonition that he had been run, and his face turned white overnight. But it only took her two days to adapt. She made a detailed list of books and asked her lawyer to hand them over to her friends and asked them to be delivered according to the list. "Anyway, I can't go out for a while, so I will use this time to read and write."

During her 422 days in Qincheng Prison, she ran more than 8,000 steps every day-because the cell was small, she could only count a few steps; Take a cold bath every day-even if it's snowing outside and the north wind is howling; Learn English every day ... until the day you come out. The first thing she did after she came out was a physical examination. After examination, she is healthier than before! She said: "I am ready to go to prison for more than ten years. I think, even if you go to jail, you have to have a good mood and good health! "

After he was released from prison, Liu Xiaoqing, with a net worth of $654.38 billion, was penniless and heavily in debt. At the worst time, he didn't even have money to buy food. Friends offered to help her one after another, and some even came to her with RMB, but she firmly refused: I am very grateful that you treated me as a friend when I was in trouble. As for financial difficulties, I have hands and feet, and I can earn it myself! She called the familiar director in the past: no matter the size of the role, as long as the money is paid in time!

The former A-list star, an excellent actor with many titles of winning actress, is famous for his pride. In those years, the newcomers kept filming, and some even had small roles with only a few lines, so she didn't care, and she was relieved: nothing, I am grateful to have the opportunity to support myself by filming and make money to pay off debts. Look on the bright side, I am optimistic.

On one occasion, Liu Xiaoqing and Chris Lee, who was very popular at that time, participated in an activity together. In the background, journalists and audiences are chasing Chris Lee crazily. In order to protect the "new king of popularity", the only VIP room can only be given to her, and Liu Xiaoqing and other actors can only sit in chairs in the aisle.

A reporter was sharp-eyed and found that the woman sitting in the noisy aisle turned out to be Liu Xiaoqing. She immediately handed the microphone to her mouth: "Sister Qing, do you feel the waves behind the Yangtze River push the waves before you sit here?" She smiled and calmly replied: "It is a good thing that new people come forth in large numbers. Besides, she is my alumnus. We all graduated from Sichuan Conservatory of Music. "

Let the reporter who had hoped to dig out some "big news" from Liu Xiaoqing, who is famous for his outspoken remarks, go home angrily. This kind of open-mindedness and calmness of falling from a height to the bottom of the valley is not easily possessed by ordinary people. On another occasion, Jiang Wen made the film Let the Bullets Fly. As a former lover and current friend, Jiang Wen wants to take this opportunity to help Liu Xiaoqing and invite her to play the role of "the wife of the county magistrate" in the play.

But after reading the script, Liu Xiaoqing decided that the role was not suitable for her, so she decisively rejected Jiang Wen. She said to Jiang Wen, "I know you want to help me, but a good director should put his works first when creating, and everything else has to be sidelined. This is what I once admired most about you. Don't lose this precious point!

"My little difficulty now is nothing compared with my work!" Jiang Wen was moved by her refusal. In private, she sighed to her friends: "Many people say that I am affectionate and honest. I tried my best to help her when she was in prison. In fact, I am not sentimental or upright. Such a woman deserves my help. "

It's easy to say where you fell and where you got up. As far as the parties are concerned, perhaps only they know the taste best. However, Liu Xiaoqing, who appears in public, is always so positive, sunny and full of energy. She said, "ups and downs in life are inevitable, and the good days are better, but those who can make the bad days happy are the real cattle people."

Cecilia Cheung, a Hong Kong actress who worked with her on the TV series Young Woman, once praised: "I always thought I could bear hardships, but Qingjie is the hardest-working actress I have ever seen!" When shooting Yangmen Woman, many scenes were shot in the desert, and the conditions were extremely difficult. However, Liu Xiaoqing can still have fun after filming, and teach everyone to speak Sichuan dialect, so that Cecilia Cheung can still use Sichuan dialect: so comfortable and secure! Cecilia Cheung said: "Although the play was filmed very hard, I am the happiest because of my sister Qing!" Few people know that, in fact, it was not until 20 10 that Liu Xiaoqing paid off all its debts on its own.

When paying off the last debt, Liu Xiaoqing sighed: "Next, I can finally play some roles I like!" This time, Liu Xiaoqing got her wedding photos in the Weibo, with bright skin and small waist, which made netizens sigh: This is simply an old demon growing backwards!

Some netizens posted many songs: When I was 14 years old, she was like this; When I was 24, she was like this; When I was 34, she was like this; When I was 44 years old, she was still like this ... this woman, she made us all old, only herself, and still so envious and jealous. ...

These words made Liu Xiaoqing laugh. There has always been speculation about her appearance and age, especially the legend about her plastic surgery, which has spread like a bird's eye view. In this regard, Liu Xiaoqing is very calm: "Absolutely original, never finished!" How is it maintained?

Everyone knows that Liu Xiaoqing likes playing badminton. Regardless of skill or diligence, she is a professional player of China Star Badminton Team. Her teammates nicknamed her "the devil wears Prada". Sticking to playing badminton is the main way for Liu Xiaoqing to keep his young face and slim figure.

Besides, her lifestyle is also very healthy. Many people in the entertainment circle are "night owls". Basically, it is reversed in the morning and evening, but she seldom stays up late. If she has nothing to do at night, she goes to bed after 10, never goes to bars, and likes to get up early in the morning. She said: "Sleeping is the most nourishing thing. I think many women stay up at night now, and then spend a lot of money on expensive cosmetics to make up for it.

Other than that, she has a good attitude. She once said: The most effective way to be beautiful is to be broad-minded. Everyone who works with her knows that Sister Qing has a big temper, but when she makes trouble, she forgets it soon afterwards and never sulks.

Believe in love, believe in men. After four marriages and three divorces, Liu Xiaoqing's love life is not bumpy, but she seldom complains about any man like a dissatisfied housewife, nor does she say that she will never believe in love again. The past emotional experience must have hurt and hurt, but it never destroyed her faith and yearning for love.

For example, she once loved Jiang Wen so much that she spared no expense to shoot Jiang Wen's first film Sunny Days. After they broke up, she didn't say no to Jiang Wen, which is why Jiang Wen helped her when she was detained for tax cases many years later. Jiang Wen said: "She stepped forward and I owe her."

She made a scene when she divorced her second husband, Chen Guojun. Chen Guojun even wrote a book to tell their grievances, including their resentment against Liu Xiaoqing, but they have been silently caring for each other for so many years. At a friend's party after Liu Xiaoqing was released from prison, when Chen Guojun saw Liu Xiaoqing, he stepped forward and gave her a big hug. The two of them are regarded as "enemies".

Liu Xiaoqing once said, "In a relationship, it is never possible to talk about who is right or wrong. I cherish every man who has accompanied me through a journey with his precious life. Even if I didn't make it to the end for various reasons, this process has already made me very grateful. I just want to remember those beautiful things. "

Perhaps it is because she believes that in her life, she can constantly meet sincere men with sincere love and sincerity. I met my husband Wang Xiaoyu 20 years ago. The two met at a friend's party. He appreciates Liu Xiaoqing's atmosphere and open mind. He once said to his friend, "She subverted all my knowledge of women's weaknesses, and in some ways, such as mind, such as strength, made me a man feel inferior."

Unfortunately, the fallen petal is heartless. At that time, Liu Xiaoqing had no special feelings for him. Since then, he has been a silent watchman, watching the woman he loves go through all kinds of ups and downs and all kinds of love. He has always appeared in her life as a friend and big brother, giving her help and comfort when she needs it.

Wang Xiaoyu had two marriages and had children. The children all disapproved of his father's association with Liu Xiaoqing, including Xiaoqing himself who advised him to give up, but he said, "At my age, I am very open to many things, but I will stick to my feelings." His children once asked him, "What kept you from giving up in Liu Xiaoqing?"

He said: "Xiaoqing has experienced so many hardships and setbacks in her life, but look at her." She is so cheerful from the inside out, without complaining or self-pity, and lives so actively and happily. This is not what ordinary people can do. She deserves my love and waiting. "

Perhaps happiness only stays for those who are sincere and persistent. 20 12 Liu Xiaoqing, who has experienced ups and downs for most of her life, finally wants a home, and Wang Xiaoyu, who has been guarding him, is the harbor she most wants to dock in.

The wedding was organized by Wang Xiaoyu, from the location of the church, the bride's dress, the hotel to the wedding photography team, and every detail was perfect. He said to Liu Xiaoqing, who was still filming in China, "Leave everything to me. When a person arrives, you don't need to bring anything, just fly over. "

On the eve of the wedding, he transferred his two luxury houses in the United States and Hong Kong to Liu Xiaoqing and said to her, "Since then, you have your own homes in the United States, Hong Kong and Beijing." The wedding was held in a church in a dense forest in the suburb of San Francisco, USA. Liu Xiaoqing, wearing a beautiful wedding dress and escorted by her brother-in-law Jing Jun, walked into the church with the organ playing "Wedding March".

Under the witness of the priest, the bride and groom exchanged rings and made love vows. Wang Xiaoyu said, "Xiaoqing, my dear Livia, after years of admiration and expectation, today I can finally hold your hand in the voice of blessing and walk into this sacred marriage hall with you. From now on, I will always respect, care and love you.

If there is a ninth reincarnation, then no matter how difficult and dangerous the road ahead is, I will still marry you unswervingly. If people will get eternal life in the kingdom of heaven, then my companion in the kingdom of heaven must be you-my dear Livia. "

Liu Xiaoqing replied, "William, you have always understood me, loved me, respected me, sympathized with me, cared for me, trusted me, and looked forward to it. I am willing to join hands with you and bravely walk the road of marriage. I will respect you, love you well and move towards our happiness. "

The sincere, warm and touching atmosphere made all the guests cry. Liu Xiaoqing responded indifferently and confidently to all kinds of comments and conjectures caused by her marriage news among domestic netizens: "If you want to get an excellent man, you must first make yourself an excellent woman."

"I will still live young and beautiful, and I still have the courage and determination to pursue happiness. If I can still get happiness and love at my age, so can you. "