Childhood parent-child reading composition 1500 word composition

My father and mother were born in the late 1940s, and their generation generally endured the hardships of growing up in New China. My father is a native cowherd in the countryside, and several generations in my family are very poor. Up to now, his hometown in the countryside is still stuck in the mountains and has unimaginable poverty. My father graduated from primary school and is a rare high flyers in the village. Of course, the highest institution of learning in the village at that time was that shabby primary school. According to my father's own statement, he did well at school. In his senior year, he taught junior students for the teacher, but senior students and junior students studied in the same classroom. In this respect, my father used it to inspire us when we were studying, although my brother and I didn't take his history seriously. I have a vague impression of my father's later experience. It seems that when I was young, I participated in road construction by migrant workers, and I was lucky enough to be recruited by the local highway department to become a carpenter in the city. My father worked as a carpenter on a lathe for several years, and began to repair vehicles with his self-taught mechanical skills. Then he used this skill to pull our big family, and he still uses wrenches and vises to support his family.

Father and mother seldom talk about their family or their experiences in front of their children, but in comparison, I have a clearer understanding of my father's experience, which may be because after every quarrel, my mother has to make a profound disclosure of my father's family and personal character. Father's language organization ability and emotional agitation ability are far inferior to mother's, so in most cases, we can only get to know father directly in this way. Only when mother shows her disgust and regret for her choice can we get to know her. Therefore, my mother was the first weak image in my heart that needed protection since she was a child, and my understanding of my mother was gradually formed with her tears.

It is unusual for my mother to give birth to twins, not to mention the three years when the material conditions are the most difficult. Therefore, mothers should be different among sisters. The compatriot with his mother is a boy. According to his mother's memory of the older generation, the boy is also very smart, and he can run around in seven or eight months. Although I have no ability to recognize this common sense of parenting, I was surprised to see an eight-month-old "little ass" running all over the train not long ago. Grandpa's family moved from the town to the countryside, and it is very difficult to maintain the expenses of 10 and 20 people by hard work. So the mother and brother were raised separately, but unfortunately the boy died before he was one year old, and the mother was lucky to survive. However, due to congenital malnutrition, she became the youngest of all brothers and sisters, which became a permanent defect in her mother's heart. Mom said that when she was a child, she was most loved by adults because she was smart, but I think this also prompted her to be competitive everywhere since she was a child. Mother's memories of her growth are always inseparable from the words "poor" and "hungry". At that time, adults were hungry, children were hungry, and they were hungry for study and work. Stomach trouble is the biggest shadow of her childhood. Mother said that her family used to be quite prestigious, but after decentralization, life was not as good as before, so her mother especially hated impermanence and indifference. Later, my mother was sent to a very remote rural area as an intellectual and worked as a farmer for ten years.

Grandfather's family is not a generation of scholars, dignitaries or rich people, but there have been several promising people, some of whom have become senior officials of the Kuomintang, some have menstruated, are beautiful and virtuous, and have studied in universities. So my mother still has some intellectuals' arrogant personality. But after ten years in the countryside, my mother had to put down all her airs and play herself as a real farmer. During these ten years, she buried all her beautiful youth hopes with a hoe.

Mother seldom mentioned the history of that decade, perhaps because it was too bitter for her to mention it again. 19 to 29 years old, the best decade for girls! I can't fully imagine her pain, loneliness and despair. In order to get a chance to go back to the city, my mother is afraid to fall in love in the countryside. She didn't return to the city until she was 29. At this time, she can finally consider her lifelong events.

How did father and mother meet and combine? I've only heard my mother's version. After returning to the city, my mother worked as a worker in a collective enterprise that made paints. Maybe she was frightened by the past. My mother thinks it is best to be a worker, and she has deep roots and can stand the political movement. At that time, the understanding of men and women mainly depended on everyone's introduction. My mother has been introduced to several people, but her mother seems dissatisfied. We asked her how she knew her father more than once, but strangely, my mother always said in a contemptuous and indifferent tone that my father stole fried dough sticks every day and made a wooden footbath for my grandfather's relatives, which made my grandmother impressed him. I guess it was later that my grandfather thought that my mother was old (my mother was three years older than my father, which was a fact that I needed courage to accept at that time), and it was time to find a home. My mother chose my father from several candidates on the grounds that his father is a mountain man, with good health, honesty and good composition.

When did mom and dad get married? What anniversary? My parents never mentioned it. Mother seems to have regretted it from the moment she got married. She was angry because we played a joke on her and her father. As long as my brother and I can remember, we haven't seen the days when they lived in harmony. Fighting and fighting have become our most direct impression of our parents' marriage. However, they all love our brother and sister.

Therefore, when we were young, we didn't owe anything, thinking that parents all over the world lived like this, but we just didn't know what it meant that other people's parents never blushed.

Parents seem to be enemies, and anything can lead to war. Between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, between relatives in rural areas and cities, the operation of family economy, the way children are educated, and so on. It can be said that it proves the philosophical truth that contradictions are everywhere. As long as there is verbal communication between parents, there will be quarrels and even scuffles. I really don't understand why there is such a deep rift between parents. My mother said that after she got married, she found out that her father cheated her in many places, and my father seemed to feel a little cheated. He is just tired of my mother's strong and wordy attitude, and she often turns violent when she disagrees with me (for this reason, I have always hated men who beat their wives). War at home burns more brightly than a stove.

It is said that my daughter is my mother's close-fitting cotton-padded jacket, and I can also say that she is my mother's close-fitting thermal underwear. In the war, my mother is always weak, so I began to act as my mother's protector at an early age and unconditionally supported my mother in all disputes. My younger brother is too young to be a neutral country to participate.

Accustomed to my mother's tears and family instability, I am really disappointed in my parents' marriage. In fact, their personalities and family backgrounds are far apart, so it may be a big mistake to combine them. Although parents are very kind to us, their personality defects also lead to unstable marriage, which naturally affects the quality and growth of children's education. On this issue, the father's mistakes are mostly, but what causes the father to be not an ideal husband or the father of the child? This question is as difficult as "egg gives birth to chicken" or "chicken gives birth to egg". I think parents have a deep influence on each other in their long life. When I was a child, my absolute judgment of right and wrong was not standard and completely scientific.

At this point, I will return to the question mentioned at the beginning of the article. Why am I keen to portray my parents as teachers and doctors respectively?

When I was a child, in my imaginary family, parents should be harmonious and gentle, and they should be full of love for their children. Whenever I read Bing Xin's articles, I always feel that there are such affectionate children because of such loving parents. But in reality, I can't get such a family. Every day's quarrel makes me feel nervous all the time, and at the same time, I have developed a bad temper.

Before entering school, of course, I was a child who played with monkeys and didn't care about the birth of my parents. But since primary school, I have encountered this puzzling problem every year when I register for the new semester. It seems that my class belongs to Gao Qian's class, and most of my classmates' parents are very powerful. The school strongly denies this statement, and in order to show innocence, it also emphasizes that a group of students are children of ordinary families. Of course, this requires a small number of children born in my family to prove the school's point of view. I was only five years old then. Naturally, I can't understand such a profound truth. I go to school every day with great love for my school, my teachers and my classmates. Once, the head teacher made a family survey and asked each student to report his parents' occupation (I don't know what the teacher means until now). I don't remember how my classmates reported it, but I proudly said, "My father repairs cars and my mother paints." After I got home, I proudly taught this view to my younger brother who is three years younger than me. Mother was angry and annoyed when she learned that, and blamed us for saying childish things. From her uncomfortable self-deprecating tone, I realized that this made my parents lose face and felt inferior to their parents' career for the first time in my life. Later, when I was asked this question, I was very sensitive.

So I like to describe my parents' virtual career and personality according to my ideal state in the article. Although I don't know what a mother who is a teacher and a father who is a doctor or an engineer are like, I pay great attention to the descriptions in other people's articles, and I am willing to directly use other people's compositions to complete my description of my parents. I get used to it if I write too much, as if my parents were like this.

Actually, I love my parents. Although I was selfish when I was a child and thought that their failed marriage had affected our development, with the growth of my age and the deepening of my understanding of life, I feel that my parents' love for me is not impure, and I have no right to question their life itself, because no matter who is right or wrong, no matter what their parents' occupation is, they have no aversion to their children. The burden of life and the pressure of competition have made them suffer, but they are not irresponsible to their children. They have done their best to support me, and I have no right to criticize their marriage, occupation, personality, etc.

After understanding this truth, I regret my childhood thoughts and feel guilty about my parents.

I want to write down this understanding, one is to reflect on myself, and the other is to express my understanding and gratitude to my parents in words.

When I come home from work occasionally, my parents will quarrel, but I think everything is normal. In fact, family is like this. Although everyone will hurt a little when they are together, but they love each other, why argue about right and wrong, don't you think?