What kind of man can be called love rat!

Characteristics of love rat at 6 o'clock

1, people don't love you, or choose to be with you. Maybe it is to solve his physiological needs or want your warmth; In the process of getting along, I still remain ambiguous with other women, often "chop and change", "get carried away", and even often can't forget my ex-girlfriend.

2, people are not there, treat you as a "spare tire." I don't like you, but I always want you around and treat you as a "spare tire". When he is hurt or sad, he will come to you, commonly known as "blue confidante" In fact, he understands your feelings for him, but he uses your deep affection to "squander".

3, the breakup personality is poor. As the saying goes, breaking up depends on character. "love rat" will vilify you after you break up, and even use some despicable means. For example, there are many "ex-boyfriends" who threaten women's personal privacy. If you don't obey me, he threatens to send your private photos to your parents or classmates and expose them online.

4. I don't respect you in the process of getting along, and I lack responsibility and responsibility. In the process of getting along, I lack a sense of responsibility. Take "contraception" as an example. Love rat often refuses contraception on the grounds of "discomfort", which naturally increases the risk of pregnancy for girls.

College students' unplanned pregnancy and pregnancy abortion will not only do physical harm to women, but also do psychological harm to women. I remember before, when I went to the Seventh People's Hospital to study with a doctor, I saw a female college student. After pregnancy and abortion, she often hears auditory hallucinations of "the child is crying" in her ear. When she sees someone holding a child in the street, she will cry and wait. She can't sleep at night. Feeling guilty and helpless made her have to go to the seventh hospital for hospitalization.

Even some boys broke up immediately after learning that their girlfriends were pregnant, and they "escaped" and left the pot irresponsibly.

5, spend girls' money to eat soft rice. Because college students' living expenses often come from their parents' support, it is understandable to buy some small gifts for their boyfriends to express their feelings, but changing the law to let you pay for gifts by credit card is, in my opinion, a "bad line" in love rat, and it is totally unnecessary for your parents to raise such a parasite that exploits their daughters. Some boys with poor family conditions let girls pay the bill in the name of falling in love, but they don't really love her.

6. Have violent tendencies and behaviors. Violence can be divided into mental indifference and physical violence. It goes without saying that love rat is definitely the only one who hits people. Students should remember that when you meet someone who is violent, you must turn around and leave immediately. If it is serious, you should call the police to protect yourself.

Domestic violence men are not born with violent tendencies, but get it from their parents. Maybe one or both of his parents often use force to solve problems. Maybe he is also a victim of domestic violence, but in real life, he will also become the perpetrator of domestic violence. In addition to physical violence, there is also cold violence that ignores you. Cold violence will definitely bring great harm to your spirit.