The baby accidentally fell out of bed in the early morning, and the mother's reaction was commendable. How do parents prevent their baby from falling out of bed?

In Maoming, Guangdong, a baby accidentally fell off the bed when he turned over in the early morning. The mother who slept on the side was suddenly awakened, jumped up like a conditioned reflex, and quickly got out of bed and picked up the baby to give comfort.

Mom's reaction is commendable, which triggered a hot discussion among netizens:

"The call of love!"

"Mother and child are connected!"

"Listening is clear, and being a mother is justice!"

"The martial arts in the world are only fast and unbreakable!"

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Netizens are so cute! Unexpectedly, the baby just fell off the bed, which attracted the praise of so many netizens and once again felt our profound China writing culture.

Maybe some people don't understand. Isn't it normal and common for a mother to react like this when the baby falls out of bed? How did it rise to the height of maternal love?

I think only the mother can understand the sadness behind the baby falling out of bed.

The reason why the baby will fall off the bed reflects two problems: First, the baby will definitely not "behave" when sleeping; Second, a baby who doesn't "behave" when sleeping must have a mother who doesn't "behave" and can't sleep well.

I believe that this mother's reaction is also the reaction of thousands of mothers in Qian Qian.

Women don't know what it's like to stay up all night after giving birth to a baby and becoming a mother. One night, I either woke up frequently to cover my baby with a quilt, or worried that the baby would fall out of bed. In short, it is all kinds of worries, and I can't sleep well.

A treasure mother said that such "staying up late" is more painful than staying up late to review the college entrance examination, because staying up late for the college entrance examination can be interrupted at least at any time, but once the staying up late with the baby starts, it is not up to mothers to decide. In the long run, the result is that it is difficult to fall asleep when disturbed, especially when the sleeping time is suddenly vacant, which makes people feel sleepy.

Mother takes her baby for three meals irregularly during the day, and at night she is either worried about kicking the quilt or falling out of bed, and she can't sleep well at all, which is simply exercising her ability to stay up late.

As we all know, staying up late is very harmful to the health, so the hair of treasure moms falls off a lot because of staying up late, and people are haggard. I guess that's how the yellow-faced woman came out.

Basically, every baby has fallen out of bed more or less. Parents are always particularly worried that the baby will be too nervous when he falls out of bed. They will not hesitate to pick up the baby from the ground.

This instinctive approach is made from the perspective of parents, so it is not difficult to understand. However, if you don't know how to deal with the baby's injury, destroying the on-site information too anxiously may cause the baby's secondary injury.

Because the baby falling out of bed may cause different degrees of injury, ranging from skin abrasions or soft tissue injuries; Severe cases can lead to fractures and facial injuries. In severe cases, it may even lead to craniocerebral injury.

It can be said that it is inappropriate for the mother to pick up the baby immediately after the baby falls out of bed. If the baby is not injured but frightened after falling out of bed, the mother can really comfort the baby. On the other hand, if the baby is injured, the mother will immediately pick it up, causing secondary harm to the baby.

So, what should parents do when the baby falls out of bed?

First of all, don't pick up the baby right away. Be sure to wait 10 seconds. Observe whether there are any injured parts on the baby. If there is bleeding, immediately press to stop bleeding and take the baby to the hospital for timely treatment.

Secondly, if it is found that the baby is not injured, encourage the baby to move by himself and observe whether there is dyskinesia. If you find such a situation, you must pay attention to protection so as not to aggravate the injury when cuddling your baby.

After observation, make sure that the baby is not injured or has dyskinesia, and then you can hug and coax until the baby stops crying. But also observe whether the baby has other abnormalities, such as drowsiness, screaming, spitting milk, abnormal movements and so on.

If it appears or is suspected, it should be sent to the hospital for examination. If you are conscious and have normal behavior, you still have no abnormal performance after 24 hours, and basically rule out injuries.

Mom and dad certainly don't want similar tragedies to happen to the baby, but some accidents are hard to prevent. If mom and dad don't pay attention, the baby will have an accident within two or three seconds. Or at the moment of turning around, the baby will fall to the ground with a bang behind him.

So mom and dad will try their best not to let the baby fall out of bed. However, some mothers said that in order to prevent the baby from falling off the bed at night, she and Bao Dad held one side of the bed and surrounded the baby in the middle of the bed, but after they fell asleep, the baby would "crawl" from the gap between the legs and feet to the end of the bed and fall to the ground.

If there is such an active baby at home, it really gives mom and dad a headache, especially after the baby can roll over and climb, which increases the risk of falling out of bed, so adults have to keep an eye on it all the time. It seems that in order to prevent the baby from falling out of bed, mom and dad can only do preventive work more carefully!

I have two children. Dabao was clever since childhood and slept quietly at night. The first time I fell out of bed, I didn't know how to turn over and cried loudly. The first time I met such a situation, I was at a loss and cried with Dabao.

I cried and checked, and there was nothing unusual about the child. For safety reasons, I took my child to see a doctor. The doctor said that the stone hanging in my heart was nothing. I was glad I bought a low-legged bed when I bought a bed for the first time.

After Bauer was born and rolled over, I took protective measures to prevent him from falling out of bed. I was also very calm when I heard Bauer fall from the bed to the protective mat on the floor with a bang. I really take Dabao out of experience, so I'm not so picky about taking Bauer.

I brought up both children by myself. In the past ten years, I have really interpreted "the big treasure is raised by books, and the second treasure is raised by pigs" vividly. I dare not say that I have rich parenting experience, at least better than novice parents.

The following four protective measures to prevent children from falling out of bed, after my personal verification, have a good effect. I will share them with novice parents in need.

(1) Install the fence. When the baby grows up, he doesn't want to play in a small space. Generally, he is more in his parents' bed or living room. Therefore, it is necessary to install a fence on the adult's bed to prevent the baby from falling off the bed at night.

However, when using the fence, parents can't be 100% assured, because the baby may get stuck in the gap and cause suffocation. Therefore, parents should never leave a gap when installing the fence, and then fill it with soft objects, so that the baby will pull it out and leave hidden dangers.

This is why many parents are reluctant to install fences. Not to mention the high price, there are still security risks.

(2) Install anti-falling mosquito nets. This mosquito net works well. When the baby sleeps in it, the mother will feel at ease, not only to prevent the baby from being bitten by mosquitoes, but also to prevent the baby from falling out of bed and being injured, because the baby will fall into the mosquito net and will not directly fall to the ground and be injured.

When Dabao was young, I installed mosquito nets to prevent him from falling out of bed. I remember waking up in the middle of the night and finding Dabao "gone". Later, I found that Dabao fell out of bed again and fell into the mosquito net and slept soundly, which made me very happy in the middle of the night.

If mom and dad don't want to install fences, they can consider installing mosquito nets. I think this is really 100% safe and not expensive.

(3) floor mats. Whether or not protective fences and bed nets are installed, it does not affect the laying of a mat on the floor, which can play a double protection role. With the cushion, it won't hurt if the baby accidentally falls, and it can also minimize the damage caused to the baby.

My Bauer is particularly upset when he sleeps at night. There are no mosquitoes in winter, so he didn't install mosquito nets to prevent him from falling out of bed. But I put a cushion around the bed. Once, he turned over and fell directly from the bed, slamming on the mat, but he didn't cry or make trouble, got up and went to bed again. Actually, I woke up when Bauer rolled over, but I didn't have time to catch him.

(4) Change the position of the bed. This should also be the practice of most families, that is, one side of the bed is against the wall, adults sleep on the other side of the bed, and the end of the bed is blocked with a quilt, which can also play a protective role.

However, if you encounter an active baby, there is still a risk of falling out of bed. You can install mosquito nets or spread thick mats on the ground and take triple protective measures to protect the safety of children.

In short, no matter which protective measures are chosen, parents should not let their children out of their sight for too long to avoid accidents.

Whose child didn't fall into bed several times when he was a child? The older generation may think that our young parents are too melodramatic and take care of a child like a porcelain doll. Nobody raised three or four children before. If they are so meticulous, their parents will never want to do anything again.

Today is different from the past. Although it is common for children to fall off the bed, it is still a great threat to children's health, especially if children accidentally fall off the bed and fall on their heads, which is likely to cause intracranial damage to children and affect their normal brain development.

Therefore, it is never the word "easy" to take preventive measures in advance and nip in the bud.

Topic discussion: What protective measures does your family take to prevent the baby from falling out of bed?