How important are hobbies! Why not cultivate?

Dear 8090, have you been filling out various forms since you were a child, and always have a column for hobbies and specialties? And then it’s difficult to do this because you don’t have any hobbies or specialties?

Next, listen to Yi Xinguliang talk about how important it is to have your own interests and hobbies.

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There is a schoolmate L who was born in the 1980s. She was a top graduate of English major from a 985 university. She married into a third-tier city because of love. English majors cannot be found in such small cities. Most people would think that a good job is just that, and they would occasionally complain or regret that they gave up the opportunity to go to Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou and Shenzhen to find their own stage. However, the senior sister lived a lively life, and suddenly she remembered purchasing specialties from her hometown in the Northeast. Many people doing WeChat business would spend all day on WeChat Moments. She also often posted on Moments, but most people would not block her, but would be happy and serious. I want to read what she shares because most of what she shares is about her life, the dinner she made by herself, the recipes and secrets of a certain dish she purchased, the packaging she drew and designed by herself, the outdoor activities she participated in, and the performances at the party. Dance... everything comes from love. The true feelings are revealed in the pictures and words, filled with love for family and love for life. Although she does not work from 9 to 5, because of these interests and hobbies, she has cultivated her sentiments and made many friends. Her life is colorful and she always gives people full of positive energy. In addition, she treats people with sincerity and sincerity. Customers not only make repeated purchases, but also continuously introduce new customers to her, making money and living well.

It is important to have your own interests and hobbies. It allows you to have a group of like-minded friends and adds a lot of excitement to your life.

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Senior sister P, graduated from the Department of Art, plays the guzheng. In addition to her professional expertise, her other hobby is English. She insists on watching American TV series and listening to VOA. She has a lot of fun after graduation. Her classmates were all worried about finding a job. Because of her excellent English skills, she went to New Oriental to teach English. She could share some common things about learning English and guzheng with students in class, and she became a very powerful teacher in the eyes of students and was deeply loved by them. welcome.

It is important to have your own interests and hobbies, which will give you different opportunities.

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I watched a TV series some time ago, the scene between the prince and Cinderella. The male protagonist’s family is rich, the female protagonist’s family is poor, and the male protagonist’s mother dislikes the female protagonist. Make things difficult for her and ask her to retreat when the difficulties arise, send away the nannies and servants at home, let the hostess cook a meal, and wait to see her jokes. Unexpectedly, the food cooked by the heroine shocked her mother-in-law, who has a tricky taste. You can probably guess the following plot.

It is important to have your own interests and hobbies, not to show off, but to maintain your dignity in unexpected moments.

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My aunt is a housewife. In addition to doing housework, she also has a hobby of painting. She said that she liked painting since she was a child, but her family was poor and she had never attended interest classes like children nowadays. She had a desire to freeze beautiful things with a brush and express what was in her heart, so she started to paint after she got married. She began to study by herself, and started to learn through online videos every day when her home arrangements were made. She kept painting, and found guidance from people around her who were good at painting. Her paintings got better and better, and she later held an art exhibition. Because of her hobbies, she will actively seek out, learn and master new knowledge, and contact like-minded people. Although she is a housewife, when she has free time, she does not chat with ordinary housewives about her parents' affairs, but devotes herself to her hobbies, loving life even more, and she becomes more and more youthful and temperamental. She told me: "You must develop some hobbies of your own, so that your future life will not be boring."

It is important to have your own hobbies, so that you will not be drowned in mediocrity so quickly. And in the trivial family life, there is also poetry and painting in the life in front of you.

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In our eyes, Little A is a girl who combines beauty and talent. She has many suitors but she has never been interested in a boyfriend. Her friends are all curious about what kind of boy she deserves. Fuck her, what kind of boyfriend will she find in the future. Her answer: "Interesting!" My friend said that there are many interesting people. Whoever is around you is so good at telling jokes and so humorous... She shook her head and said, "What I mean by interesting is that besides work, he has What you like, you can find happiness in that world without being bored..." In the end, A's boyfriend showed up. They met while watching the sunrise on the top of a mountain. She felt that he was taking photos of the sunrise seriously with a professional camera. His appearance is very dazzling, and I am attracted by such a boy. That was a boy who took his work seriously and was very dedicated to his hobbies - photography and mountain climbing. Later, we often saw her posting beautiful photos taken by her husband of watching the sunrise and admiring the beautiful scenery on a certain mountain. We were all surprised how she could do this. So beautifully photographed.

It is important to have your own interests and hobbies, which can give you your own aura and may help you attract your significant other.

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The more people live, the more important they feel it is to have hobbies. CCTV's latest literary and artistic program "The Reader" has been a hit since its launch. The one who impressed me the most was the 96-year-old Mr. Xu Yuanchong. This leading figure in the field of translation talked about his translation with great interest, saying that he The greatest pleasure in life, he said: "For the same sentence, if I translate it better than others, or better than myself, this is pleasure. This pleasure cannot be taken away by others.

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He got rectal cancer in 2007. The doctor said he would only have 7 years to live at most. But in the year when the doctor said he was at the end of his life, he not only lived well, but also won the world’s highest translation award “Arctic” "Light" Award for Outstanding Literary Translation. At his age now, he still steals some time at night, works until two or three o'clock every day, and keeps translating. If he can live to be a hundred years old, he plans to finish translating Shakespeare. Mr. Xu He has a simple and persistent passion for translation, and he quietly cultivates his own field and enjoys it regardless of the troubles in the world.

Some people will say, what should I do if I don’t have a hobby? ! Interest is the best teacher. For interest to become a sustainable hobby, it is not enough to rely on temporary impulse to try to understand something. The joy and sense of accomplishment brought by the first try will be Let us be curious and confident about this matter, continue to spend time exploring it, and gradually become a hobby.

Some people would say, what kind of hobbies should I develop? Smoking, drinking, playing cards and playing mahjong are my hobbies. ! These can only be said to be caused by human laziness and a manifestation of greed for pleasure. It is recommended to cultivate some healthy hobbies that will make you spiritually grow, and stick to them. There are too many hobbies that can be cultivated, such as flower arrangement, etc. Baking, tea art, photography, sports, dance...

I saw a sentence and gave it to everyone:

When you complain that the adult world is mediocre and boring, try to change it Take a moment, discover a hobby, and practice it with concentration, so that you can polish it into a person who can be used by others.

Finally, I wish you, dear, to cultivate your own hobbies well and look back. At that time, I found that I had got rid of mediocrity, became the envy of everyone, and met a sparkling and confident self.