Living is a drag on my mother. What's the unknown story?

The child should have a serious mental illness, and always feel that living is a drag on his mother and others! The suicide note also expressed endless apologies to the mother, which really made people feel inexplicably sad. Such a tragedy really needs to arouse the deep thoughts of parents and friends!

In September 1 1, netizens broke the news: a junior one girl from Hainan Middle School in Haimen committed suicide by jumping into the river. When she was salvaged, she had no corresponding vital signs. The girl wrote a suicide note before committing suicide. The point of the problem is directed at it. I'm so useless! ?

The girl wrote it in her suicide note? Mom, I don't know what happened to me. I don't want to do anything. I'm too tired to control my emotions. I tried many ways to commit suicide these days, thinking that living will only drag others down. I repeatedly apologized to my mother between the lines. She wants her mother to live happily, which is her only last wish.

Finally, the girl went to the point of no return! What a pity, silly boy! How can your mother and family be happy when you leave so suddenly? Your leaving is equivalent to ending their happy life for the rest of their lives?

At present, relevant departments have begun to intervene in this incident, and the specific events and results are yet to be announced.

The essence of the event As an educator, I should have a deep understanding of the pressure that students are under now and know it very clearly! I also talked to my friends before, saying that children now have no childhood, and children of several years old will wander between various remedial classes and training classes as long as they have a holiday. Unlike when I was a child, I just wandered around in the fields, and my friends of the same age were in front and behind. This kind of fun is beyond children's understanding, and it is more like being out of tune with the current lifestyle.

From the child's manners, it is revealed that he has a serious mental illness. It's really hard to watch this news. Children with depression and pain should be treated as soon as possible. But how can your mother be happy when the child is gone? Parents should understand that a person's ability is different, and not everyone can catch up with other people's children. The pressure can only be moderate Let the child know that you are her relative and hope that she is a good relative. The child is all her relatives.

The child should suffer from depression. If the child has a strange situation, parents and friends must pay attention! We can't let it develop at will. In more cases, it should be noted that students, pregnant women and the elderly are the most prone to depression. When they are silent, we should enlighten them in time, channel their emotions in time and prevent them from doing stupid things!

Reflection on the incident My children go to the eighth grade, get home at night 10, get up at five in the morning, and have only one day off on Saturday to do all kinds of homework. The weekly exam and the monthly exam never stopped, and my hair fell off one by one. I once told my children that I was too tired and I felt so stressed. I don't want you to be brilliant, as long as I know how to be grateful, kind and safe all my life, that's enough! ?

On the contrary, if children work harder and encounter difficulties in their study and life, they will also inform us in time, and the family will work together to solve the problem and help the children grow sturdily. I think this is the right way to deal with the problem. In fact, it is not good for children to be too sensible! It is often that some children are too sensible, and he will consider the feelings of adults. Maybe he thinks he will never meet the expectations of adults, and he has worked hard, so he feels useless and is a burden to adults. It's best for the child to be thick-skinned and at least scold him. At least he won't talk back at most, at least he won't do anything hard.

Educating people is a question for universities. Before giving birth to children, every parent should really learn how to educate their children and make corresponding psychological preparations. People have been doing this for decades. Parents should not expect too much from their children. . Children as long as they don't learn bad? Don't force the child? Study, don't compare with other excellent children? , my Lord? Don't force children to get married? Be a good person and live a happy and safe life!