I fell in love with two straight men at once, what should I do?

Yesterday, someone from the Men’s Club sent me a private message backstage: What should I do if I fall in love with two straight men at once?

One is not enough, two are not enough.

Original words: I discovered that I recently liked two straight men at the same time.

Am I too carefree? I have a very good relationship with both of them. I usually hang out with one of them or the other one. When we are playing, I feel sorry for the other one. Oh my god. It feels like I can choose between the two of them. Now there is a cold war situation...

I feel like I can make a TV idol drama.

Since I am a straight man, it is destined to be impossible to be with you. Of course, we can be together as friends instead of partners or other relationships.

You idiot, don’t put yourself too deeply into this. It’s not a Qiong Yao drama, you are not the female lead, you are not the female lead, you are not the female lead.

Of course, whether you like this kind of relationship is your own business, and you must bear the consequences.

The first situation: jealousy

This is not the kind of jealousy between lovers, but between friends. You have a very good relationship with him, but if you neglect the other person, you may become jealous. However, it is not that he loves you, but that he cherishes this friendship.

Second Scenario: You are left alone

Since you are a straight man, you have to bear the risk of him finding a girlfriend. In this case, he will definitely neglect you, don't It is said that friendship lasts forever. At this time, he hopes that you will not disturb his love affair, so he is extremely grateful.

Then you go to find another person, emmmmm. If it’s good, you may continue. If it’s not good, you will be alone, the autumn wind is bleak, or he already has a girlfriend, no need to say more.

The third situation: you are a drama queen

I feel that this situation is most likely to happen. Why? Hahaha, I feel like a G is super cool. Maybe they straight men don’t think so much about it, but you are just taking the situation into your own hands, leading to the illusion of love. Or you like to play a role in the relationship and enjoy the process. You can be said to be a good actor.

Of course, Li Zi, who fell in love with a straight man, left countless messages in the tree hole backstage. I still hope to remember one thing: the circles are different and you cannot force tolerance.

There is nothing wrong with liking someone, you can confess to them, that is your business.

But the consequences you have to bear are that the other party treats you as a friend, or breaks off the relationship, or makes some unpleasant remarks, but this time it is his business.

Being confessed and pursued by someone you don’t like: It’s like having a piece of shit stuck to your body that you can’t get rid of. It looks disgusting and smells unpleasant.

I hope you can leave a message and discuss it with the Men’s Club

I said: The method of the Men’s Club is very meaningful. You can express your worries or everything in the background. , let me be your tree hole, listen to your issues, and we can discuss it together