I am from Lianshui, Jiangsu, and the general gift is 200.

First of all, I am from Gaogou. 1. The issue of betrothal gift: it is a custom in surrounding areas. Normally, girls in rural areas will have it when they get married. The worse the conditions at home, the more the girl’s parents hope that the boy can give more. There is some comparison mentality, but it has gradually been downplayed. As long as you can be happy, both parents will not care too much about gifts. It also depends on your personal ability. 2. Rules: The requirements for men are common in all regions, there is nothing special about them. 3. Marriage at the age of 19: There are many girls who do not study and will get married early. The most important thing is boys who do not study. That is, the man hopes to let the girl marry him (marriage in the traditional sense) and start a family as soon as possible. When you have a wedding, you are married, and then you have to register it when you reach the age. But you have to be careful when you have a child. Many people are under the legal age. They cannot register for household registration after giving birth. My father often encounters this problem when he works in the government. I came here to ask for help to solve the household registration problem. \r\n\r\nBesides, if you don’t respond to late marriage and late childbearing, it is best to wait until the legal age before getting married. The two parties can discuss it and gradually change this traditional bad habit. I also hope that you will make your due contribution to Lianshui’s marriage career. Contribution, I wish you happiness.