Life never repeats itself, and every time it is retrieved, it is a gift.

It's been three months since I left Dali, and I haven't described it seriously. Life is always fickle, and I lost an important friend overnight. This is destined to be a sleepless night. Maybe I'll leave alone again. It's time to write something.

I went to Dali for the second time three months ago. Like the first time, a person; Similarly, empty. Different from the first time, this time I chose to arrive in Kunming first and then arrive in Dali by bus.

Empty, is the purpose of my trip, "slow" has become a way of walking. Along the way, the blue sky and terraces as bright as a palette lit up my heart and made me forget the pain of losing.

Dali seems to be a natural healing ground.

Yes, during that time in Dali, I almost forgot all my troubles and heaviness and returned to the self-deprecating and hedonistic me. Of course, I am also tired of loneliness and silence along the way. A person who travels quietly and thoroughly can only hear the sound of the wind. Later, I creatively thought of recording the sound of the wind with my mobile phone.

Because I know I will go to more places alone in the future. If you record the wind in every city, it is a good way to listen to its grandeur, tranquility, gentleness and wildness one day.

2.

Dali is too clear.

It's so clear that I dare not remember those heavy and bleak memories, because it doesn't match the beauty of Dali, so I naturally choose to unload it and return to zero.

When the innkeeper cc came to pick me up, he asked me where I came from, and I said Shanghai. After a brief greeting, I told him my next travel plan. Cc smiled and shook his head while listening. I feel that my statement has been "hit" and ask what cc is laughing at. He said:

"This is Dali. Romance is here, and all kinds of lifestyles are shown to you. What else are you planning? Don't be like Shanghai here. Don't plan everything, slow down and empty. Have a cup of tea and stare blankly at the puppy. They are all life. "

I sat in the car, blowing the wind, looking at the scenery outside the window and thinking about cc's words.

3.

Before that, I was obsessed with all the answers, always one or the other. So that I get crazy joy all the time, but I can't bear any loss, like a puppet controlled by emotional thread lifting.

Such extreme emotions make me live a heavy and tired life.

And Dali showed me a new life scene and gave me a new way of thinking. For the first time, I stopped to seriously think about the meaning of "gain" and "loss" and seriously studied the philosophy of letting go and letting go.

Letting go and running away are different. Before, I always liked to escape, but this time, I finally faced myself honestly. Say goodbye to the past and shake hands with "loss".

For the next few days, I wandered around the town. I have appeared from crowded people to empty seaside, from bustling ancient towns to nameless fields. I am so simple and happy.

Although I am now back in a materialistic city, Dali's influence on me is profound and lasting. I still keep this "slow down" heart, and I really feel the roaring human feelings, gains and losses.

Don't be cautious, don't pretend, don't insist and don't give up on the lost people and things. It's me now.

4.

A tour guide and photographer I met in Dali is now my good friend. I read my novel a few days ago and expressed my desire to make a micro-movie based on it and give it to a couple as a wedding gift. But I hope to modify the ending, from far apart to happy.

It's a pair of lovers who have been in love for five years and got it back. Boys are ghosts and girls are safe. We met in Dali and broke up in Dali. This time, they gathered in Dali to take wedding photos.

I don't know what they experienced on the road, but please tell me that this is a touching love story. The girl is my reader and likes a novel I wrote very much, which is very similar to their love story.

I know that such a restored story can always move us in the secular world. People always give love the greatest tolerance and blessing, even if it is saved. Because it's good to be together.

Later, Brother Ghost and Enron asked me to send them a card. Actually, I have a lot to say to them. But in the end, I only wrote this sentence:

"If you get it back, please be extra precious."

5.

I am very happy that my life experience can be assembled into words and then made into a micro-movie, and I am also very lucky to bring blessings to the newcomers with the carrier of happiness.

I think the ending of the novel can be modified at will. Life can't. Therefore, we should cherish the people and things we have recovered. Life really doesn't have so many repetitions, and every redemption is a great gift.

I have written so many stories, both sad and happy. You should also write your own story without regret.

I know that there will be regrets in life, and I know that many stories cannot be repeated. Life is like this, it is often impermanent, and a fork in the road determines life.

Life never repeats itself, and every time it is retrieved, it is a gift. So, I want to cherish everything in front of me, everything.