Like is a choice. Love is something you can't write.

Jian Zheng said in Rip in April: "I am lucky to be your biggest sharer for so many years. Every time we meet, you don't hesitate to pour your abundant interest into my cup. "

The most precious state of feelings is to talk about everything. I think the kind of soul mate who fully supports and affirms each other and has no scruples is rare.

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When he met the desert, he was still a magazine artist, working from nine to five every day, and his salary was negligible. Later, the magazine was going to lay off staff because of poor management. Unfortunately, the desert is the first batch of laid-off employees.

I looked for a job in the desert for a long time, but I was not admitted to my favorite unit, so he told his girlfriend that I didn't want to continue looking for a job. I want to be a freelance photographer, okay?

You know, no matter how you shoot, it's a problem for a photographer who just started out, at least to make money to eat. At that time, her girlfriend was working as a copywriter in an advertising company. She didn't say much about overtime, but she said without hesitation, "Do whatever you want, don't worry, we won't starve to death with me here."

"With me here, we will never starve to death" or "I support you" is usually from the mouth of boys, which often makes girls cry, just like Stephen Chow's plot in king of comedy, but it has to be said that this sentence rarely comes from the mouth of weak girls.

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From that day on, the desert began to study photography. In order to earn more money, my girlfriend often stays up late to make some leather crafts to subsidize her family. During this period, many people advised the desert to give up this idea and look for a job.

The desert once felt inferior and wanted to give up, but the girl said, "Even if the whole world doesn't believe in you, you should remember that I will always believe in you. Is my support not enough? "

In this way, the desert began to go further and further on the road of photography. Every friend around him is his model, and his skills are becoming more and more outstanding. Slowly, he began to publish some appointment information in Weibo, Douban and Renren. From the first photo shoot in 50 yuan to the photo shoot in 200 yuan, until the last group spent 3,000 yuan, the days gradually got better.

Three years later, the desert opened its own photography studio. On the night of the opening ceremony, he drank a lot, then drunk and pulled his girlfriend in front of us and said, do you know who this is? She is my leader, my teacher, and a lover that I can't repay all my life.

Yes, a good partner is not just a lover with a heart in mind. More often, especially when you are lonely, the other person will become your spiritual pillar, and your growing mentor will always be an indispensable part of your life. This kind of power usually makes each other walk better and longer.

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Last July, the desert quietly asked me out to meet and told me that I wanted to propose to her. I think it's time to help me plan a proposal.

I asked jokingly, have you really decided? After all, the models who are looking for you to shoot now are getting more and more beautiful. Are you sure you can resist the temptation to dislike others in the future?

He lit a cigarette and said, "You know, everyone may be interested in some new people and things at a certain time. This feeling is called like, but I know I love her, because love is "what she needs".

It was the fifth anniversary celebration of his work and his first solo photo exhibition. Many friends came to the scene, including painters, presenters, photographers and singers with bands. Everyone stopped to watch under a photo in the center of the exhibition hall, which was covered with a red flannel.

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In the middle of the night, he walked up to this photo and said happily with a microphone: "This photo has never been shown to anyone, but it is the most precious one in my life.

The band's friends suddenly played the guitar, and a bunch of chasing lights quietly hit the girls in the crowd. The desert came to the girl and said, "Without you, there would be no me now, let alone today's film festival. In fact, I have already planned today, waiting to marry you as my bride. Now I'm ready. What about you? As he spoke, he lifted the red cloth from the photo.

At the celebration dinner that night, the girl laughed and cried, but her left hand kept touching the diamond ring on her ring finger.

The main character in that photo is his wife. His wife has a tomato in one hand and his shirt in the other. Under the sunshine outside the window, it seems that the whole person is covered with a layer of brilliance. The name of that photo is "It's not you."