It only costs nine dollars to get married (&; #34; It only costs 9 yuan to get married)

Adi recently appeared in the variety show My Daughter. Her performance in this program is very touching. Because of the epidemic, she stayed at home, ate junk food all day, and watched herself getting fatter and fatter. Like ordinary people, she had no motivation to lose weight.

Sisters came to see her and chatted with their girlfriends, and naturally they talked about love and marriage. She talked about the fact that some staff members in the team left because of marriage, which touched her even more. "She has seen the world and wants to feel at home."

Adi is filled with emotion. This is the life I want, but I can't live.

Many viewers couldn't help feeling sorry for her when they saw this scene. I still remember when Ji was asked in front of the national audience when he planned to marry Adi, but he just drank and kept silent.

The atmosphere was so embarrassing that Adi finally came out and said, "He's not ready yet. He thinks he needs a car and a house." .

Ji himself said, wait, at least buy a house in Shanghai. He also revealed that he would not consider getting married until Weibo has 65,438+million fans. Tamia Liu's sentence, a girl can't make her wait. If you don't propose, she may really not want to marry you.

Sure enough, wait and wait, the news of their breakup came. One said: My youth was fed to the dog.

I thought a rich and beautiful female star like Adi would definitely have a new puppy boyfriend soon. Unexpectedly, on the 605th day after breaking up with Ji, Adi still couldn't get out. She said: I may have experienced many failures, but I dare not. I am afraid I will get hurt.

Adi is frank in the program: Even after 30 years old, he can live happily, but occasionally there is a loneliness that others can't understand.

What Artie still can't understand is why in that past relationship, he always said that he had no money to get married. However, obviously they are not short of money, and besides, she doesn't care about money at all! "I care about each other have a house and a car? I don't care at all. "

Isn't companionship the most important thing in marriage? She even asked indignantly, "Isn't the marriage certificate only nine yuan? Why must there be a garage, those messy additions? "

The man said I must have a house and a car, and I won't get married until I can afford you. But women think you don't want to marry me because you don't love me. I didn't ask you to have a car and a house. I have my own job, and I don't need your support at all! Besides, we are all so young and have many bright futures. Is it not good to work together? I just want you to love me and give me a promise.

Do you have to have money to get married? Do you have to prepare a big house and a luxury car before you get married?

Do you have to have a successful career and climb to the top of your life before you can get married? Of course, money is an indispensable condition in marriage. A netizen in Shenzhen calculated the cost of getting married.

Wedding: A wedding averages nearly 250,000. Among them, the wedding banquet cost 654.38 million yuan, the wedding ceremony cost 50,000 yuan, the honeymoon tour cost 25,000 yuan, the jewelry cost 25,000 yuan, the wedding dress cost 20,000 yuan, the wedding supplies cost 20,000 yuan and the wedding photography cost 8,000 yuan.

Buying a house: buy a 5 million wedding room (enough to live), only need a down payment of 6.5438+0.5 million; Decoration: the renovation of the new house is 6.5438+0.5 million yuan; Add home appliances and furniture, 50,000 yuan; Car, according to the standard of scooter, 65438+ ten thousand yuan.

So, at least 2 million. However, money is not the only criterion to measure marriage. Sometimes it's interesting to think about it. Men refuse to get married, always like to say that it is because women want cars and houses for too high a bride price, forcing men to have no money to get married.

However, when a woman really tells him, I want nothing, as long as you love me. It's just that he began to hesitate again, saying that he didn't have the capital to get married, and he didn't consider getting married until he had a successful career and bought a garage, which could give you happiness. After all, I don't want to marry you. Artie said that a man who refuses to marry you just doesn't love you. Although it sounds a bit extreme, it also makes sense.

Even in the entertainment circle, which is famous for its high income, not all men buy a house and a car first. Li Dan, who lives in the world with interesting souls and unworthy circles, once blew himself up and said that he had lived in Shanghai for many years and never bought a house. And he and his girlfriend Black Tail Sauce have long been said to be married. In the same variety show, Zhang Xinyi also revealed that he has been renting a house since he married Justin. Because she thinks buying a house is too expensive and renting a house is more cost-effective.

In the entertainment circle, there are five-year-old siblings like Adi and Ji: and Huo Siyan.

At that time, Du Jiang had just graduated, and Huo Siyan was already a famous little Hua Dan. Their date was filmed. The headline of the media is "Huo Siyan and her boyfriend go shopping", and Du Jiang doesn't even deserve his last name.

In order to propose to Huo Siyan, Du Jiang sold his only house and bought her a diamond ring. Du Jiang said, "I sold my house and got married because I had no money at that time and wanted to propose to Siyan, but I didn't have the money to buy a ring. Fortunately, I have a house, which is still the kind of loan, so I sold the house and had to come up with some decent rings. " After they got married, Du Jiang moved directly to Huo Siyan's house. He was not ashamed, so he was embarrassed. Do men and women who really love each other care about these details? All they care about is their love for each other.

At that time, everyone said, Du Jiang, an unknown poor boy, why did he marry Huo Siyan? But Huo Siyan said, do you know when I am happiest? I'm pregnant. Mm-hmm. Du Jiang carefully smears pregnant oil on my heels every day.

At that time, little transparent Du Jiang, whom everyone disliked, was not favored by everyone when she married Huo Siyan. He doesn't care that he is not as rich as she is. He believes that his love for her is enough to give her happiness, which is incomparable to a house. After marriage, Du Jiang gave up his thriving career in order to take care of Huo Siyan who was pregnant and gave birth. He didn't take the show for two years, because he didn't want to miss the growth of his children and felt that family was more important.

But today's Du Jiang, on the contrary, has gradually emerged in the entertainment circle, starring in a series of big productions, which have won unanimous praise both at the box office and in word of mouth. Instead, people began to envy Du Siyan. Did she save the galaxy before marrying Du Jiang? She is young, well developed, well behaved, clean, handsome and careful! Even Huo Siyan herself said that the existence of Du Jiang kept her a child.

Did getting married and having children delay his career development? No, it's just that he understood very early that at what stage of life, what is the most important. On the contrary, early marriage made the young man understand the responsibilities of marriage and family very early, and he was more willing to work hard for his family and career.

Think about international director Ang Lee. He was poor when he married his wife. He has been a home cook for six years and has been supporting his family with his wife's salary at work. He didn't drag his girlfriend away from marriage because he didn't have money or even a real job. Today, Ang Lee has long been an internationally renowned director, but he still maintains love and respect for his family and wife. I always say that my greatest happiness is that my wife can smile at herself.

"You can't wait for a boy to grow up." Adi was disappointed, not because Ji had no money to marry her, but because he was not ready to get married and had not made up his mind to take on the responsibility of a family. Adi said that the essence of marriage has nothing to do with money. A man who still refuses to marry you when he clearly knows that you don't care about money or whether he is successful can only show that he doesn't want to marry you at all.

Although I often encourage people to earn more money, I often tell them that women who have no money are really miserable. But I never think that the poor are not qualified to get married, and they must have a car and a house to get married. People say, but not as poor as those who know it, but they also say that people are full of love and water. What's more, how many young people nowadays have the ability to buy a car and house right after graduation? There are not so many rich second generation, and their parents laid the groundwork for their future early. Isn't the life of ordinary people originally accumulated by their own efforts?

The road to struggle is so hard. If the person who loves you is willing to go with you, why not? It is not entirely money that completes a love, and it is not only material that supports a family. Two people love each other and are willing to be the one who supports each other. This is the meaning of love. Liao Yimei said that everyone is lonely. In our life, it is not uncommon to meet love and sex. What is rare is understanding. Many girls nowadays, like Adi, are more and more aware of what they want. I have both bread and Hermes. All I want to marry is love. These days, a girl like her who wants to marry you is really rare, even if you are not rich enough.

As Yang Lan said: Marriage needs another bond besides love. The strongest thing is not children, not money, but the common growth of spirit and partnership. In the most helpless and weak time, in the most depressed and down-and-out time, he (she) lifts your chin, straightens your back, and orders you to be strong and share your destiny with you. At that time, apart from love, there were also sincere loyalty, tacit understanding and unforgettable kindness between you. Rely on each other, support each other and move towards the future together. This is the best appearance of love and marriage.