On Mother's Photography Literacy

A mother's accomplishment determines a child's moral character. An Austrian girl care association has a very famous question: If a family has two children, but there is only one education fund, who do you vote for? Their answer is: vote for a girl.

Because you educate a boy, you only educate an individual, while you educate a girl, you educate a family, a nation and a country. This is not empty talk. In a family, the mother's upbringing determines the child's character.

0 1 In the process of a child's growth, the mother plays a very important role and is the closest person to the child.

In the family, the mother is usually the person who spends the longest time with her children. Their love can give children a sense of security in their inner world, and their words and deeds set an example for children.

A netizen in Zhihu told the story of her growing up, especially about the great influence of her mother.

Her mother has only a junior high school education and sells pork at the farmer's market for a living. And she is also a child who grew up in the meat market, chasing flies on pork in summer and playing with stuffed sausages in winter.

There are many women selling vegetables in the farmers' market. It seems that their mother is no different from these women in appearance. They dress simply and talk carelessly, and like to chat briefly at home.

But there is one difference. My mother always believes in the power of knowledge and thinks reading is very important. She is often educated to study hard and be a person who will make a contribution to society in the future.

The mothers of other children always get together to play mahjong after the stall closes, and the children also play on the mahjong table. And her mother always goes straight home to accompany her after setting up a stall and never plays mahjong. Read newspapers every day and learn good ways to raise children.

Although I come into contact with people with relatively low education level in the market every day, my mother often takes the initiative to chat with educated customers and learn good educational ideas from them.

Once, my mother heard a customer say that the environment in the library was very good, so she immediately got a library card to encourage her to read more. Sometimes, when my mother sees some good qualities in a customer or hears a good story, she will tell her.

Now her bachelor's degree and master's degree rank second in the national universities, while her cousins have only secondary school education. She thinks a big factor is that her mother's vision is higher than many people in the farmer's market.

Although the environment is not ideal, the mother firmly believes in the power of knowledge, actively strives for change, sets an example, constantly learns from outstanding people around her, and cultivates and educates her children with heart, so that their lives will have a broader future.

Some time ago, Wang Xinyi, a poor girl from Hebei Province, was admitted to the Chinese Department of Peking University with a high score of 707 in the college entrance examination, which caused a heated discussion on the Internet, even a fierce debate about poverty.

In fact, on Wang Xinyi's road to success, there is always someone to accompany and guide her, and that person is her mother. It can be said that Wang Xinyi's mother's vision determines the height of her life.

Wang Xinyi's mother has always respected knowledge and firmly believed that knowledge can change fate. She was taught to recite poems and count when she was very young, and she could recite many Tang poems when she was one year old. Mother thinks that acquiring knowledge is a road to a wider world, and can get rid of poverty, ignorance and ignorance.

Mother let her know with actions that persistence is the most precious quality in life. She and her brother have a hard way to go to school. There is still a lot of water when it rains, but her sickly mother comes and goes in the rain and insists on picking it up every day. Mother told her by action that to do one thing, no matter how big or small, it is necessary to insist on doing the best.

Mother told her to stick to her heart, to be herself is the most important, and not to care about other people's comments.

In grade one, Wang Xinyi wore a long-sleeved old cotton-padded jacket and was laughed at by a boy in the class. When Wang Xinyi cried and told her mother about it, her mother only said one sentence: "Ignore him and seek truth from facts." This sentence made her understand that the road of life is not for others to see.

Mother told her not to be afraid of difficulties and never bow her head. Wang Xinyi said that when she first went to sow seeds, she felt that if the soil was trampled so firmly, it would be difficult for the seedlings to grow. But her mother told her that seedlings can only grow stronger when they meet solid soil. Mother's words are telling her to break ground bravely and grow sturdily when encountering obstacles and difficulties.

On the road of Wang Xinyi's growth, we can see that her mother's vision and wisdom have always guided her. She can always find the motivation and strength to move forward from her mother's words and deeds.

In the second season of CCTV's Reader program, Yu, the founder of New Oriental Education Group, mentioned a past event when talking about his schooling experience, which made people cry.

Yu said that he was born in an ordinary rural family in Jiangsu, and it has always been his wish to go to college. However, he failed in the college entrance examination twice. When he said he would take the exam for the third time, his mother said he could. He said he wanted to go to cram school in the county, but his mother still said he could.

In order to realize his wish, his mother went to the city for three days and found a teacher for the cram school for the college entrance examination. It happened that it rained heavily when my mother came home that night. My mother fell in the mud four or five times. As soon as she entered the house, she was covered in mud and completely became a "clay figurine".

At that moment, I knew he had no choice. It was his mother's persistent spirit of seeking knowledge that encouraged and supported him to study hard, and finally he was admitted to Peking University. Yu said that he learned perseverance from his mother, who made him.

British playwright Bernard Shaw once said, "People always blame their difficulties on the environment. I don't believe in the environment. Everyone in this world is looking for the environment they want. If they can't find it, they should create it. "

Neither material wealth nor poverty is the decisive factor for a child to become a success. Whether it is a rich family or a poor family, if the mother doesn't like to study, never studies, and plays mahjong and games every day, how can she train her children to be adults?

A mother should not only give her children warm maternal love, but also give them a vision of the world, inspire their children to grow up with her wisdom and unyielding spirit, and let them see farther and fly higher on the road of life.

As a mother, if she wants to cultivate excellent children, she must constantly cultivate herself, so that she can have a broader vision and a larger pattern, and grow up with her children on the road of life. Only in this way can she be a good guide for her children, and finally let her children have the ability to face the world alone and take their own future road bravely and firmly.

Yin Jianli once said: A good mother does not mean a perfect mother, but a mother who is good at learning and reflecting. The process of raising children is the process of mother's self-growth and self-healing. May every mother be the best companion and guide for her children.

The children of sober mothers are the best. Because she has a clear understanding of herself and her children's personalities and knows the most suitable education method for children, she can guide children at the most critical time and help them embark on the right path.

1. Meet the real needs of children. No mother does not love her children. But some maternal love is too heavy and suffocating. Sober mothers regard children's needs as the yardstick of maternal love, while confused mothers regard self-satisfaction as a means of education.

What do children like? What are children good at? What are the shortcomings of children? In giving love, we should ask ourselves the following questions. Maternal love needs sacrifice, but it should be sacrificed at a critical time.

He Jiang was the first mainland China student to give a speech at the Harvard graduation ceremony. He comes from a poor and backward mountain village. With the rise of the tide of working, more and more people choose to work in cities and let the elderly look after their children left at home. He Jiang's parents have a firm choice-they cannot let their children become "left-behind children".

Therefore, despite living in poverty, I can still stay with my child, accompany him to urge him, and convince him that knowledge can change his destiny.

So, He Jiang passed the provincial key high school with excellent results, and then passed the Chinese University of Science and Technology, and walked out of the mountain village step by step and out of the national border.

In contrast, the news of September 2008+2065438: Parents went out to work when their children were six months old and bought toys for their children for thousands of dollars to make up for it. However, children are unfamiliar and alienated during their parents' brief reunion. What children need is not toys, but the company of their parents.

2. Find out the child's personality and temper. Fukuhara Ai is a famous table tennis player. Without her mother's guidance, she couldn't have achieved what she is today. Practicing table tennis is a very boring thing. Fukuhara Ai's mother Chihiro Fukuhara Ai knows that her daughter is an indomitable person. So he urged Fukuhara Ai to keep in touch.

In Chiyo Fukuhara Ai's notebook, her daughter's personality is clearly recorded: she likes table tennis very much, is competitive and never gives up, never gives up her keen study, is highly focused and eager to win.

In "I Send Three Children to Harvard", Li Fang wrote about how she handled her son's obsession with games: he was upset because he couldn't participate in social games and asked to play games. Although Li Fang was in a hurry, he agreed on the basis of the agreed terms. Li Fang found his son very talented in writing. Therefore, children are encouraged to create literature.

Therefore, Li Fang goes to work in the company at 5 o'clock every morning so that he can go home at 3 o'clock in the afternoon to supervise his son's writing. Later, my son not only gave up video games, but also published several books.

A clear-headed mother has a deep understanding of her child's strengths and weaknesses and personality, so she can prescribe the right medicine.

Clean up your home and take advantage of all the advantages to receive a parent in the office recently. Her children's grades have dropped badly recently. When it comes to family education, she is very upset: she is strict with her children, but her husband and her educational philosophy are very different, so she often refutes her in front of the children, so her authority in front of them is getting smaller and smaller, and the children will stand in their own favorable camp and evade their responsibilities.

Sometimes, she can't help arguing with her husband in front of the children, while the children are eating fruit leisurely. Another parent divorced her husband and took care of the children alone. Sometimes she gets angry when she looks at her children who don't study. She can't help complaining about her ex-husband and her life, while the children cry with their mothers. She also regretted it afterwards, but her children became emotional and could not control their temper.

A clear-headed woman would never let her family fly around like dogs. Even if the marriage is unfortunate, she can try her best to create conditions for her children so that they can have a healthy and warm environment and thrive.

Because the essence of a clear head is to know yourself, each other and children.

I have parents. When her child was a freshman, she began to prepare materials for her child's independent enrollment. Because she learned that a considerable number of places in the top universities in the future will be for competition and independent enrollment.

Therefore, she has been letting her children learn musical instrument exams and taking advantage of the language to participate in many provincial and national English speech contests. We have to say that it is very important for mothers to have a broad vision and the ability to collect information, because these can help children see the future development situation clearly and make correct decisions at key nodes.

Never give up self-growth and talk to children on an equal footing. Now is not the time to show parental authority. People who have no ability and don't want to continue to grow, no matter what their status, will be gradually eliminated.

Liang Qichao's second wife, Wang Guiquan, trained excellent children for Liang Qichao. When Liang Jia was in Japan together, she was the first person in the family to learn Japanese and be able to talk in Japanese.

In front of children, mothers' strong planning ability, emotional control ability and self-growth ability will have a far-reaching impact on children.

Mothers are clear-headed, and they can realize that only self-growth can accompany their children to grow up. If you are strong, you can lead by example and make your children strong.

Qi Bangyuan said in Liu Ju River that she became a middle school English teacher after giving birth. She often holds the baby in one hand and reviews with the handout in the other. Later, I applied to study abroad, constantly enriching my knowledge and spiritual world.

There is a hot question in Zhihu: How terrible is a woman's rationality?

In fact, a woman's rationality does not mean that she has no feelings. On the contrary, a clear mind will let the overflowing emotions flow to the right place and have a warm and relaxed feeling. A woman's sober mind is not only her own luck, but also the luck of the other half and the children.

Know yourself, know the society, know your children, have a clear goal, prescribe the right medicine, and then deal with everything efficiently.

Being clear-headed is a gift and can be exercised the day after tomorrow. In dealing with the education of children, mothers should constantly understand their children with deep love.

Love is an instinct and a long-term plan. The more thoughts you spend, the greater your correct efforts and the better your results. I hope we can all dispel the fog ahead and work hand in hand with our children.