What's wrong with getting married and leaving?

By his own admission, he is a little maverick, which makes him successful in his career and makes him a little unable to integrate into the group. The only person he can be friends with is his staff, and it is imperative to communicate with them, and so am I. If you don't listen, he won't hit you and scold you, but will only be cold and violent to you. He won't start criticizing you until you speak, telling you what you did wrong with sufficient arguments, and you must correct it next time. Our relationship ended after a year, because I really can't understand why I can't have another opinion. When the contradiction began to rise, he began to play cold violence. I asked his ex-wife if she couldn't stand you, and he didn't deny it. He told me that if you can't accept it, I won't stop you, and the relationship is over. Today we haven't divorced, but we haven't said a word for half a year, which has nothing to do with divorce.

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Brother Shrimp said:

Marriage and love are really different; Love is simple, I have feelings for you, and you have feelings for me, so we can be together, but marriage is different. Simply put, love means that we spend time together, and marriage means that we are together every day. Do you feel different?

Emotion also has its time attribute; The feelings in the first three months are a fresh period of feelings. Emotional concentration will be higher at this stage. Generally speaking, each other can't see the shortcomings of the other, and even the shortcomings have become the characteristics of the other. This leads to one thing, you can't see each other's true appearance. Give a disgusting example. You still think it's Jinshan from a distance, right?

Shrimp does not mean that flash marriage must be bad; But you have to have a certain eye. In such a short time, you can tell whether the other person is your real dragon son of heaven (the right girl) or the real worm son of heaven (gold-worshipping green tea). Unfortunately, most people are overwhelmed by the high concentration of emotional sweetness in the fresh period, and basically lose this ability. You thought this sweetness would last a lifetime, which is absolutely impossible.

The emotional concentration will start to decline from the end of the second month, but at this time you may have chosen to get married. When you see clearly that you are leaving, that is the dilemma of divorce, which is the essence of all flash marriages.