What circles should people mix when they reach middle age, and how to establish a group that is both Buddhist and clean?

Our "top five"

This is a group of like-minded literary friends.

We met as teenagers,

But met in middle age.

Busy with children and career for half my life,

When I want to run for five minutes,

I think I need to have some fun.

We are engaged in different occupations,

Different personalities and experiences,

They all like traveling and photography.

Love reading, love Beijing,

I also like to join in the fun and make noise.

most important of all

We all love writing.

So we started from all directions in Beijing,

Come together,

Made up such a,

A pious and clean group-

Five champions

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Team members made a grand appearance.

This is Lao Zhang and his wife. I asked, is this a heavy blow? Lao Zhang said that he just wanted to relive the feeling that young people in Beijing used to "shoot women". The two often show affection regardless of others' feelings. They fell in love at the age of 19 and walked hand in hand for half their lives. Their daughter-in-law is gentle and beautiful, and Lao Zhang's daily life is drying his daughter-in-law. Lao Zhang lives next to ditan park, so his public name is Ditan and Me. The article is sincere and records the daily life of a Beijinger.

If you want to know more about Lao Zhang, please poke here and find a warm man who is not greasy. Is that so?

Doudou, a woman who travels around the world alone, is called "the old cat who dreams of backpacking", so she also has a name "the old cat". Because she likes cats, she adopted several stray cats at home. After quitting her job as a civil servant, she traveled all over the world by herself and 28 countries on five continents. Bean crossed the ocean in a small boat in the Pacific Ocean, walked in Mongolia, exposed the camp in the Sahara desert, and lived the life he wanted. Dou's articles in WeChat official account mainly focus on travel notes. Apart from anecdotes about travel notes, she also thinks about history and culture. She is a travel columnist for many newspapers and magazines.

If you want to know more about bean, please poke here: What wonderful things will happen when you find a woman with a heavy taste breaking into this world alone?

"Guarding the Mountain God" is a person who is calm in appearance and fanatical in heart. He is a typical "boring man", vegetarian, Buddhist, peaceful and kind. When the word Buddhism first became popular, I immediately thought of him. Great God loves Beijing and grasslands, so his public name is "Kyoto Grassland". In addition to photography and travel, he also has a unique hobby, that is, collecting all kinds of tickets, recording and recalling the past related to tickets. As soon as you listen, you will know that he is a very delicate and sensitive person.

I, Jing Faner, need not say more. If you want to know more, just follow me on the QR code below. Or look at me in the eyes of my friends: Xiaoxue.

We often play this game of shirking each other and imitate the poems and songs of ancient literati, not for powder, but for fun.

It was like this when we met.

Who can find the "top five" in childhood? This is really difficult. No, actually, there were only four people. Lao Zhang was later involved in our group because of family reasons. We all came from middle schools in the west of Beijing. After graduation, we went our separate ways. Although we have always maintained the friendship of classmates, it was only a friendship between gentlemen as light as water until the writing company reunited me. Lao Zhang wrote the story of our meeting: the five champions.

Friends circle after 40 years old

Modern social interaction pays attention to mixed circles. What kind of circle should people mix after 40 years old? What kind of friends should I make? This is a question worth thinking about.

I remember a sentence from Mr. Zhou, the former owner of Park Road Cabin, which I always remember. He said-

"Let go of your great career of earning one million yuan a day for a while and share with you what interesting things you have read, what good books you have read and what new movies you have seen. Here, but talk about romantic warmth, Mo Wen hat pocket. Half a volume of poetry books, a cup of tea, two ancient trees, three or five old friends. "

This is the circle I want.

After the age of 40, you can know at a glance whether you are a fellow traveler or not, and you can know whether you can communicate in a few words. I have always believed in the word "heart to heart". Before the age of 40, appearance is determined by genes, and after the age of 40, it is more about mentality. Just like the friends of the five champions, everyone has a calm face, pure eyes and is a fellow traveler.

What does an interesting group play?

A cohesive group must conduct some interesting group activities. If sisters claim to be literate, they must organize some cultural activities, such as visiting bookstores.

We can also go to cafes. The cafe in Tiananmen Square in Xi 'an 190 1 is our favorite place to go, and Wudaoying area is also good.

Of course, all kinds of eating, drinking and having fun are indispensable. I always believe that people who can eat together can also play together.

Go to Fayuan Temple to enjoy lilacs in spring.

Go to Ditan to see yellow leaves in autumn.

It's also good to go around the Ming city wall in winter. These are all Lao Zhang's photographs. His stunt is that he can shoot large movies with his mobile phone, which he has practiced for 20 years, taking pictures of his daughter-in-law.

We all like the Forbidden City and the watchtower, so if we have nothing to do, we will take a walk here. On New Year's Day, we met to visit the Forbidden City and the watchtower before sunrise, and Lao Zhang's daughter-in-law took a group photo with me.

We also met the famous online celebrity joke of the Forbidden City, Dan Jixiang, the president of the Forbidden City. It pays to get up early.

It is also a very happy thing to learn hand-drawing in a studio opened by a friend, watching the great god laugh.

We can also travel to other places together. Great God and Lao Zhang are traveling together in Xiahao Old Street in Chongqing. We all like the atmosphere in that place. Bean and I will go next time.

A good group needs to give gifts to each other.

It is said that such vulgar things as giving gifts cannot be put on the table, but our "top five" is really a group that likes giving gifts. Look what we gave each other.

What I sent was Feng Tang's banned little yellow book "Bu Er", which was bought by a friend in Hong Kong. After reading it, Lao Zhang carefully wrote two comments. You can poke here if you want to see it: No.2.

Lao Zhang once gave me a notebook signed by Li. He knows that I am a fan of Mr. Li. Later, it was also a fate to have the opportunity to walk into Mr. Li's home to interview him. That year, 300 million people in China were waiting for his voice to ring by the radio, and they could not forget The Last Romance, which was "a serial novel".

Lao Zhang also gave me a signature of Wang Jin, a network celebrity of the Forbidden City, "I am repairing clocks in the Forbidden City". He knows that I like the Forbidden City, and the couple wait in line for Mr. Wang's signature. The Great God gave each of us a copy of Jiang Xun's Beauty of Angkor, and we all liked it very much.

Bean brings us more beautiful gifts. Every time she comes back from a trip, she will bring us some small things, such as a small bag of Sahara red sand, a specimen made of fallen leaves from the ancient city of Pompeii, and postcards of the cities she passed by. If you want to read Bean's travel notes, you can poke here: Bean's 20 17: Visiting the Last Reindeer Tribe.

Intimate friends are hard to find and cherish.

Not long ago, we specially invited a photographer friend to take a group photo for the "five champions" with our favorite hutongs and white towers as the background.

When people reach middle age, it is not easy to make friends, and meeting a bosom friend is a rare fate in life. In this flustered middle age, how lucky I am to be with words and meet fellow travelers.

Five champions, come on! ! !

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