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May 13 holiday, I want to invite Brother Long out for dinner to catch up. After all, we had a good relationship at the beginning, but now we haven't contacted each other for a long time.

I don't want Brother Long to reject me directly and say, "Next time, I'm too busy these days."

I said doubtfully, "I remember you were not very busy last time?"

"Well, there is no bill. I haven't had much rest since I came back from the New Year. " Brother Long, call me back.

I am speechless. I don't know whether to admire longge's work attitude or how to react. Anyway, I can't compare with Brother Long. If I don't rest for months, I'm afraid I'll go crazy.

Finally, Brother Long said that if you don't work hard, you can't live in Shenzhen, and you need money everywhere. I have no savings, so naturally I dare not rest.

"China Speed" is famous overseas, and how many young people have been sacrificed under this reputation. Everyone is running forward, for fear of being "abandoned" by their peers if they are slow.

02

I remember reading an enlightenment story when I was very young.

One night, physicist Rutherford walked into the laboratory and saw a graduate student still working hard in front of the experimental table. He asked with concern, "What are you doing here so late?"

The graduate student replied, "I'm working."

Rutherford asked again, "What do you do during the day?"

The graduate student replied, "I also work during the day."

Rutherford asked again, "So you work all day?"

The graduate student said, "Yes, my tutor."

Rutherford earnestly asked, "You have been working all day, so when will you think?"

Yes, we try to run forward every day for fear of wasting a little time. How many people have stopped to think about whether what they do every day is really in line with their wishes and whether it is really meaningful.

How many people want to cultivate their sentiments and read some books, and also want to ask the Great God for a bunch of books online. After asking for trouble, the desire to read is almost exhausted, and the book is likely to be impossible to read.

Seeing the coming of the era of national writing, I was excited to sign up for a bunch of courses. I haven't figured out how to write a story here, but I'm learning to write a novel there. I was confused when I was screwing around. If I am not satisfied with one or two articles, my writing will disappear.

Painting should be reported to 15-day crash course, weight loss should be reported to 30-day effect class, and photography should be introduced to 7 days. ......

It seems that if we want to learn something new, we must set a short time limit for it. Be sure to take the shortest straight line and learn the most in the shortest time, otherwise it is a waste of time.

This is also the reason why some people are anxious. When they saw the people around them developing in a certain field, they plunged into it without thinking. If you blindly follow the trend and don't think about it, you will question yourself if you don't get a return, and you will naturally be anxious.

03

What is anxiety? It's just a series of negative emotions such as depression, irritability, anger and urgency. So everyone will be anxious.

I was particularly anxious some time ago. I didn't succeed in changing departments at work. I didn't read the article and many familiar colleagues left.

I really feel particularly annoyed every day. I used to get up early in the morning to study and was not in the mood to read. I was particularly dissatisfied with the writing of the article, but I regressed after writing it.

So I didn't do anything that week. Every day after work, I am not in a hurry to go home, so I order a cup of milk tea at the milk tea shop downstairs.

I'm really in a daze, my mind is empty and I don't think about anything. I wasted 30 minutes every day for several weeks, and my anxiety was much better.

I don't know if you have seen the latest variety "cabin in the Woods" by Korean producer Luo PD.

In the play, two guests need to stay in an isolated cabin in the forest. They need to complete the task is:

Listen to the sound of water flowing in the valley.

Label the plants you meet on the road with famous brands.

Looking for natural sounds.

Looking at the guests sitting on the stone doing nothing and letting the stream flow, you will find that the sound of the stream is so beautiful. After listening to the sound of the stream for more than ten minutes, you won't feel bored and your heart will naturally calm down.

In this impetuous society, what we lack most is time. But if you are willing to calm down, give yourself 30 minutes to waste. I think maybe you can get a different life from it.

04

There is no need to rush to let life give you all the answers. Sometimes, you need to stop and be patient. Even if you shout at the empty valley, it will take a while to hear a long reply.

People always say that time waits for no one. In fact, life is so long It's nice to stop, pick a roadside flower and smell the flowers.

Don't always ask those successful people about their successful experiences. You always want to take shortcuts in everything, and the experience of others may not be effective for you.

Besides, how can you guarantee that they will sincerely want to help you?

Maybe they climbed the successful ladder and hid it secretly. Then shout above your head, I just flew, come on, you can do it too.

Go your own way, walk slowly, we are still young, what's the hurry.