What will happen if you sell your sister's "private photo" to your classmates without education of gender boundaries?

Now more and more parents are paying attention to the cultivation of their children, not only supporting them financially as much as possible, but also paying attention to their curriculum education, hoping that children can strive for a happy life for themselves through serious study. But what many parents don't realize is that while attaching importance to curriculum education, they ignore the sexual knowledge education for their children.

Ms. Guo's daughter argued that she didn't want to go to school anymore and wanted to drop out of school at home. What happened? Ms Guo has a daughter, a man and two children. Her daughter Xiao Xuan is her elder sister and her son Xiaoling is her younger brother.

Xiao Xuan found that her "private photo" appeared on the Internet and was widely forwarded. The publisher was a close classmate of her brother Xiaoling. Almost everyone in the class has seen this set of photos, which has brought Xiao Xuan a bad reputation, so the children are clamoring not to go back to school.

After understanding the situation, Ms. Guo suspected that it was caused by her son. After some questioning, Xiaoling finally told the truth. It turned out that Xiaoling accidentally said something about her sister's private photo while chatting with her classmates. As a result, the classmate suddenly offered to buy it with money, which made Xiaoling feel excited and finally traded her sister's private photo.

When asked why there were photos of her sister's private room in her mobile phone, Xiaoling said that they were all taken by herself. Because Ms. Guo and her husband usually lack the awareness of sex education for their children, now the two children still sleep in the same bed when they go to primary school.

Behind the behavior of crossing gender boundaries is the lack of sex education.

Because of Ms. Guo's negligence, the sexual knowledge education of the two children was almost blank, which led to this farce. My sister and brother didn't get up in time, which led to no clear boundary between men and women, so my sister agreed to let my brother take a "private photo" of herself.

Because of the lack of sex education, my brother didn't realize how serious the consequences would be for his sister if this photo was leaked. So he will brazenly sell photos to his classmates.

The lack of sexual knowledge education will not only blur children's cognition of gender boundaries, but also easily lead them to do harm to others and benefit themselves without correct cognition. Visible sex education is urgent. Then, as parents, how should we treat children's sexual knowledge education correctly and escort their growth?

Three main points of sexual knowledge education

Attach importance to educational attitude

Because sex education is more special than ordinary curriculum education, many parents feel that they don't know how to speak, so their attitude is often not serious enough.

This situation will have a bad influence on children's growth. If parents don't take a more serious attitude when talking about sexual knowledge, then children are likely to think that this knowledge is not important enough and will not pay more attention to it.

Avoid vague education

Some parents are often ashamed to talk about sex education, so even if they tell their children, they are understated and secretive about the content of education. This practice will easily lead to children's thirst for knowledge not being satisfied, and they will take some improper ways to acquire knowledge, which will further affect their healthy growth.

Emphasize self-protection.

When parents educate their children about sexual knowledge, they should also emphasize their self-protection awareness and cultivate their self-protection ability. After all, parents can't always provide protection for their children, so the necessary awareness and ability of self-protection is quite necessary for their children's growth.