Chen Hong intervened, Chen Kaige abandoned, and after three marriages, what can Ni Ping rely on to be strong?

"You don't fall, others can't push, you don't want to stand up, and you can't afford it, so I stand strong."

This is what Ni Ping's grandmother often says to her.

For many years, whenever encountering overwhelming problems, Ni Ping used this sentence to motivate himself.

Ni Ping, 60, has returned to the audience's field of vision once again since her official comeback after losing weight.

Ni Ping vowed to experience the life of young people in the variety show "Wonderful New World".

Not only put on tide clothes and sunglasses, but also learn to shoot popular short videos.

Turn into a fashionable old lady in an instant.

But who knows, this goddess, who was very popular in those days, has a lot of bitterness in her heart that is not enough for humanity.

The goddess is still a goddess after all, and she seems to be trying to make up for the lost running years.

But the wisps of white hair and drooping canthus still reveal the past that is unbearable to look back on.

0 1 dazzling aura

1959, Ni Ping was born in Rongcheng City, Weihai City, Shandong Province, China.

When I was a child, my father's surname was Liu. When I was in primary school, my parents divorced and became single-parent families.

At the age of 20, she was admitted to Shandong Art College with excellent results. She changed her name by herself before going to school. Take the mother's surname Ni.

Perhaps because of the single-parent family, Ni Ping knew from an early age that you can only choose your own destiny by yourself.

So that no matter what she did later, she insisted on herself and dared to do it.

1982, assigned to work in Shandong Theatre after graduation. Three films were made before and after.

Especially in the movie Female Soldiers, Zhou and Ni Ping were fully praised.

In those days, actors were very precious, not to mention those who graduated from famous universities.

Ni Ping, with his own efforts, worked for only one year and was designated as a national second-class actor.

You know, this is a very weighty thing.

After that, she published two more works, playing Yao in Snowland and Feng Kui in Nawu.

Because of her excellent performance, she won the best supporting actress award with Xueyuan. Fame rose to fame.

1990, Ni Ping was transferred to CCTV and became a super variety show host.

Since then, Ni Ping's life has almost reached a small peak.

However, all this is not so easy. From actor to host, Ni Ping suffered too much pressure and pain.

From "Super Variety Show" to the stage of the Spring Festival Evening. Ni Ping has made several times more efforts than ordinary people.

There is gold shining everywhere. During her many years of hosting career, she won the audience's love with her beautiful and dignified image and kind and generous hosting style.

He won the "Star Award" for the best host award for many years in a row and became a veritable "first sister" of CCTV.

At that time, Ni Ping was quite versatile, dignified and generous, with oval face and big eyes, and was even rated as "a great beauty once in 4,000 years" by the audience.

Dong Qing said in the program that I, like everyone else, once carefully looked at Ni Ping in front of the TV and deeply touched me.

Ni Ping deserves all this because she works harder than others. Better than others.

At that time, she was the goddess in the hearts of all men. Zhao Benshan also revealed on the show that Ni Ping was his dream lover.

However, it is such a woman who is admired by many people. My career is smooth and my feelings are in a mess.

02 the feeling of sadness

Many people may not know that Ni Ping, who became a CCTV host in his thirties, was divorced once.

When she was at school in Shandong, she was very young at that time, because Ni Ping, who lacked her father's love since childhood, quickly fell into a relationship. Then I got married.

The husband is a princeling, and they have a daughter after marriage, but this marriage ended with her leaving Shandong for Beijing.

The feelings of outsiders for her still came from Guo Da's sketches. At that time, Ni Ping and Guo Da could be regarded as serious relationships between men and women.

But it didn't last long, because Guo Da's family was special, and his parents opposed him being with Ni Ping. Finally broke up.

Many people may not know it, but the real reason is Ni Ping's divorce.

In those days, divorced women were unpopular, especially for princeling families. The most taboo thing.

At that time, Ni Ping gave up love completely and devoted himself to his work.

As she said in the book: "I have a career that I can devote my life to." I work neither early nor late, trying to do that enviable job.

Everyone around me thinks I'm in front and I'm behind, and only I know what a mess my heart is after the' banquet' in front. "

Strong people have protective shells, outsiders can only see the floating light on the surface, and inner fluctuations will only appear when night falls.

In the final analysis, it is the lack of a caring person who knows the cold and the hot. What woman doesn't want someone to rely on?

After all, she met a man who thought she could trust her for life, and that was Chen Kaige.

By chance, Ni Ping met Chen Kaige.

At that time, Chen Kaige became famous only after filming Yellow Land. It is also a relatively standard director in China.

Although she is seven years older than Ni Ping, she is still impressed by Chen Kaige's brilliance and stability.

At that time, Ni Ping was the host of CCTV, and both resources and personal charm were appreciated by Chen Kaige.

At that time, Chen Kaige had been divorced twice, probably because both of them were divorced, and the communication between them was close.

Women in love are always silly. Ni Ping naively thought that Chen Kaige was the man of her life.

Regardless of gossip and family opposition, I didn't know Chen Kaige long before I moved in together.

In those years, Chen Kaige's excellent films such as Walking and Singing, Farewell My Concubine won awards at home and abroad and became well-known directors at home and abroad.

Ni Ping, the host industry of CCTV, is also mixed.

More importantly, at that time, in addition to work, Ni Ping only had Chen Kaige in his heart. As long as he did it himself, he flew to Chen Kaige nonstop.

Cook and wash clothes for them, and clean up all the housework. This is six years.

"I really didn't bring a little selfish thoughts to the man who loves me. I thought my opening up would make the world fair, and I thought my infatuation would be cherished by lovers. "

Later, many people urged Chen Kaige to marry Ni Ping.

Ni Ping said: "No hurry, it's just a matter of time."

Chen Kaige said: "The relationship between two people is not maintained by marriage."

So, Ni Ping can only wait patiently, waiting for the man to propose, but in fact, Ni Ping's lonely soul has nowhere to put.

A seemingly well-matched couple, who knows what is waiting is not happiness, but another kind of pain.

1996, Chen Kaige's father died of illness, and Chen Kaige, who was busy filming, was too busy to take care of his family. Ni Ping ran to the Chen family without thinking.

At that time, Ni Ping never explained the media hype, while Chen Jiaze tacitly said that Ni Ping was the future daughter-in-law.

As a result, Ni Ping was busy with everything. When he went to Chen Kaige, his first reaction was to break up.

Collapse is like being struck by lightning. Ask why.

Chen Kaige said that he was in love with someone else, and that person was Chen Hong.

Compared with Ni Ping, Chen Hong is not as famous as Ni Ping, but she is also a famous actress.

The story of Diusim in Romance of the Three Kingdoms, CiCi in Plum Blossom Water Cloud Sword, and Liu Yincui in Smoke Lock Heavy Buildings.

And a complete beauty. Most importantly, Chen Hong is nine years younger than Ni Ping.

It is said that men are visual animals, and no one can escape the clutches of beautiful women, let alone the kind of beautiful women who fall in love at first sight.

Chen Kaige is no exception, deeply infatuated with Chen Hong.

While Ni Ping and Chen Kaige were making a scene, Chen Hong also appeared. But when he opened his mouth, Ni Ping lost.

Chen Hong is pregnant with Chen Kaige's baby.

For Ni Ping, Chen Kaige just said sorry, and Ni Ping was forced to leave.

In the emotional world, there are always losers and winners, and the most tolerant people are often the first to go out.

Eight years' affection was wasted, and Ni Ping returned to the original point.

In the emotional world, that's it. The more you love, the more you get hurt. This time, Ni Ping was deeply hurt.

Chen Kaige once said that he was unmarried, and God knows he married Chen Hong as soon as he turned around.

It turned out that the so-called unmarried people actually didn't love enough and didn't find a way out for themselves.

03 the second marriage failed

To tell the truth, if you were an ordinary person, you would have been heartbroken.

But life goes on. Even if you are tortured, those "bad guys" still live happily.

Ni Ping, who has been exceptionally strong since childhood, is also very helpless when encountering such a thing. Like a lamp in the dark, she ran out of fuel and fell into fear again.

After breaking up with Chen Kaige, Wang Wenquan introduced his younger brother Wang Wenlan to Ni Ping.

Ni Ping, scarred, has long since disbelieved in love.

So, from 65438 to 0997, Ni Ping and photographer Wang Wenlan got married quickly.

Having an ordinary and warm family life may be the best choice for Ni Ping to forget the past.

Perhaps just like the TV series of dog blood, after breaking up, each has his own home, which is basically a happy ending.

But the story of Ni Ping continues.

Ni Ping gave birth to a son with nothing on 1999, but God played a joke on her again.

The 4-month-old son was diagnosed with congenital cataract: "If not treated in time, his condition will continue to deteriorate, and he may be blind and even life-threatening."

The doctor's words made her world seem to collapse instantly.

But she has no time to think and cry. In 2004, she smiled and said goodbye to the audience. Ni Ping, who hosted the 13 Spring Festival Gala in succession, officially announced her departure from CCTV.

It's been 10 years since I quit my job and took my children to the hospital.

It was during that time that Ni Ping turned white overnight.

More painfully, Wang Wenlan and Ni Ping divorced the next year.

Married for eight years, under the pressure of material and spirit, it didn't last.

Even though it was miserable, Ni Ping didn't fall.

After the glory of career and the betrayal of love, the failure of marriage has no influence on Ni Ping.

Only when I saw Ni Ping again, I found that she had become an old woman with a "bloated figure" and an "old face".

God is fair after all. The year after losing Wang Wenlan, Ni Ping met Yang Yazhou, an outstanding director.

Because of many cooperation, both of them know each other's past very well, don't forget the past, and get married in a low profile.

For Ni Ping, Yang Yazhou is not only as simple as the other half, but also a career bole.

After cooperating with Meijiao, Ni Ping's career became popular again and won the China Watch Award again.

The film Snow in the Wind won Ni Ping the Best Actress at the Montreal International Film Festival.

More importantly, after 10 years of treatment for her son, she finally achieved a staged victory and finally appeared a long-lost smile on her face.

In 20 14, Ni Ping returned to CCTV and stood on the stage of Waiting for Me at the age of 55.

It's just that compared with 20 years ago, her serious leg disease can only be presided over by sitting. But it doesn't affect her performance at all. Years of hosting experience made her still look good on the stage.

04 transparent life

Some people say that people who go through hardships will eventually live a transparent life. The more vivid and transparent it is, the more simple it must be.

Because you have tasted everything, lost everything and owned everything, you know what you want, what you can swallow and what you can regenerate.

Through the peak of his career, he was involved in Chen Hong's feelings and abandoned by Chen Kaige. After three marriages, I was tempered.

Ni Ping, what haven't you seen?

At the age of 60, she has no regrets, only lost years.

I hope to go again if I can.

San Mao said, "She lived all her life, more than ten years than you." This sentence, used in Ni Ping, seems to be very appropriate.

Looking back, Ni Ping is still the goddess among the goddesses.

From now on, may there be no turning back.