As an only child, is it happiness or pressure?

Speaking of the only child, it instantly reminds me of the award-winning photo "Only Son": a ward full of instruments, a hunched son, holding his father with his right hand and his mother with his left hand, and the family is relatively speechless.

The only child is actually both happy and stressful. As a child, the only child can be loved by the whole family. My cousin is one of the only children. When I was a child, my favorite was my cousin.

Because he is the only child in the family, he is taken care of by his parents all day, and there is no quarrel between his brothers and sisters. Because menstruation is just a child, he has good economic conditions, and I envy him until he is very old.

However, in the last two years, my uncle's menstruation is getting bigger and worse. My cousin went to work in other places, which made me remember most clearly. My uncle went to the hospital during his period and got lost in the hospital, but he called my cousin and he couldn't come back. Finally, I went to the hospital to see the old couple.

Cousin once said after drinking? I feel like a machine. In the eyes of both parents, I must be a dutiful son because I am their only son. What I fear most is that my parents are sick, because I can only accompany my bed and can't go to work.

I must be a good father and husband in front of my wife and children. I feel that after a year of non-stop, I am not myself. I really want to have a brother and sister to share with.

I saw someone feeling like an only child in Zhihu:

When I was a child, I was spoiled by my parents and gave everything I wanted. When I grew up, I struggled and had many problems. When I was a child, it was really honey, but when I grew up, it became arsenic.

In fact, the only child is not so exaggerated. As long as you make a good plan, life is also beautiful. I especially envy the only child.

Buy an insurance for parents, which will become a life-saving money for a family at a critical moment;

Make a long-term plan, stop being self-centered and put parents' old age and children's future into life;

Save more money; Spend more time with your parents so that they can have a healthy body and mind and stay away from illness;