A woman who doesn’t work hard will only have endless street stall goods to wear and endless vegetable markets to visit.

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A woman who doesn’t work hard will only have endless street stall goods to wear and endless vegetable markets to visit

Author: Zhuang Zhenyan

—1—

I have really considered dropping out of school.

At that time, I was a freshman, majoring in roads and bridges.

It is difficult for girls in this major to find a job. After graduation, my job content will most likely have nothing to do with my major, but in order to get a diploma, I must not miss a single lesson.

The water in my head when I was choosing my major became the tears in my eyes during the final exam.

If you choose a good major, the end of each year will be like the college entrance examination.

I hate advanced mathematics, and I hate C language even more.

I’m afraid of failing the class, and I’m even more worried about the hundreds of dollars in retake fees for a course.

I want to run away, drop out of school, travel and work at the same time, and go find the writer Li Juan to see the quiet and simple Altay she sketched in her book.

The reason I gave myself was: learning is useless. Exams in college are all about memorizing question types and answering silently. Long live 60 points. 61 points are a waste. You are fooling both the teacher and yourself.

I don’t want to be fooled.

I told some friends about my plan. They were full of enthusiasm and told me that you are really awesome. I support your bravery.

I told my biological father about my plan, and he said, no.

My father is an extremely open-minded person.

In my sophomore year of high school, there was a total solar eclipse in Nanjing. I wanted to climb a mountain to see it with the boy I liked.

My dad not only agreed, but also got up early in the morning to make breakfast for me. When I got up, I saw his entire body shrouded in the warm yellow light of the kitchen.

He let me make my own decisions on many things, but before suspending my studies, he told me, I don’t care what method you use to live your life, anyway, you must get your diploma and degree certificate.

Just like adults not allowing children to eat sweets, they are tough and helpless.

My crying and shouting at the top of my lungs could not stop him, and I harbored resentment in my heart.

There is no way to escape, so you can only continue to review hard. I had successfully passed the exams in advanced mathematics and C language that I originally thought were difficult to master.

? —2—

Yesterday, I saw Teacher Mimeng’s article, saying that she supports her intern’s suspension of studies.

Her intern worked part-time as a tutor, photographer, and model. She kept exploring her hobbies and found that she still liked writing.

I think it’s really ridiculous. Why don’t you let her work as a waiter, hand out flyers, and deliver food, and then see if she needs to go to school?

I’ll deliver food. It was the summer vacation of my senior year of high school. From 11:30 to 1:30 every day, the sun is scorching, rain or shine, there are no rest days for two months, and the salary is 600 yuan a month.

On a sunny day, I was so exposed to the sun that I was dripping with sweat. After the summer vacation, military training started at the university. After the military training, my friends said that I was actually whiter than the moment I just finished delivering the takeout.

But this is not very hard. The most annoying time is rainy days.

When it rains, everyone is reluctant to go out, and the ringtones of takeaway phone calls can reach the sky one after another.

You need to ride a bike to go to some distant places. The raincoats in the store are made of separate clothes and pants. They are made of thick plastic and can be worn from bottom to top. It is humid and sultry.

As I rode, the muddy water up to my calves was dripping, and I couldn’t move even as I stepped on it. The accumulation of water on the road was scary, and I didn’t dare to stop. I finally rode to a shallow place, and then I found a plastic bag wrapped around the flywheel of the bicycle along with the water flow. As I pedaled, it became tightly wrapped, and the buckle was all buckled. Not coming down.

I parked the car and delivered the takeout to someone else’s store. I was holding five portions in one hand. When I handed it over, my fingertips slipped and the first portion fell to the ground. The plastic foam box , looking at a desperate big hole.

My heart trembled, for fear that someone would ask me to go back and get a new one, and I would have to go through the muddy water again and be scolded by the boss.

Fortunately, a girl bent down, gathered the box and the food together with her hands, held it up, and said very thoughtfully: This is mine.

In that moment of gratitude, I couldn’t tell whether the tears on my face were tears or the remaining rain.

After I walked out the door, I wiped my face with my bare hands and pushed away the hair stuck to my face. There was still the deep murky water in front of me, and there was a bicycle that couldn’t be ridden at hand. I was afraid, but I couldn’t. Not going back.

Returning to the facade of the small restaurant, I saw the boss was busy coming in and out, handing out meals in front of the window, arranging the address and tasks for delivering the meals. The rain was pouring along the front of the window. The curtain dripped onto his face, and he didn't have the hand that could hold the umbrella free. He didn't even bother to wipe his face, but he still took the time to say loudly to me who was waiting to pick up the meal before setting off: "Look! Do this!" Farming industry! How hard it is! So you must study hard in the future!

Based on his words and his thoughts about me, even though my salary is meager, I have to wait until nearly two o'clock every day to eat. Having lunch and often delivering a takeaway after dinner, I am still grateful to him.

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One summer later, I worked as an operator. Initially, I found an educational institution selling courses, 20 kilometers away from home, eight hours a day, 50 yuan.

I ride to work every day, one hour each way, and make four to five hundred phone calls a day. I get hung up on and scolded, and even have my boss point at me and say, "Before you leave, give me your phone number." Clean the table. ""If you don't do this properly, you'll be charged."

It's not that you don't clean the table, or that you don't want to take good notes. It's because you're annoyed by his bossy and condescending attitude. .

What can I do? I am just a small part-time worker.

Eight days later, I changed jobs. After being introduced by a friend, I went to a place 12 kilometers away from my home and paid 80 yuan for eight hours a day. I continued to work as an operator.

In a huge computer room, each person has a computer and wears headphones. After hanging up the phone, the next number is automatically broadcast to sell cars. There are task quotas every day. If you fail to complete them, you will be deducted five yuan.

Every day I still have to talk to people, get hung up on, and get scolded. I make anywhere from 300 to 600 phone calls a day, and I always meet some bad-tempered, unqualified third-rate moms who don’t care what is right or wrong. They just curse and hang up the phone.

The phone calls are all recorded. We can’t quarrel with customers, we can only listen silently, as if it’s a pastime.

Only once, we could all hear it with headphones on. The boy next to us tried hard to keep his temper, but he couldn't control the decibels and yelled: If you scold me, scold me! Why do you have to scold my mother? !

The next day, the boy resigned.

The work content has not changed much, but I am much happier than the previous few days, because the rules are clear and the leaders will not come over and point fingers at will. I have no complaints and can always exceed my quota.

There are some in the computer room who work part-time in the summer like me, and there are also some girls who work here full-time. The job content is the same, but the salary is different.

It’s hard for me to imagine that they have been doing this kind of work for many years.

During lunch, I heard them chatting. The content was usually about the yellow skirt they bought at a discount in the store downstairs, how happy my boyfriend was when he gave me two hundred yuan as pocket money on his birthday, and, you This five-yuan clip is expensive. I saw it in Sanfu yesterday for only three yuan.

They will also talk about me, saying that the friend who introduced me here told them that my compositions are very good.

Before I could feel shy, a girl said again: I have passed CET-4.

All of a sudden, everyone was filled with envy, like worship.

I suddenly thought of a saying, if a woman doesn’t work hard, she will only have endless street stall goods to wear and endless vegetable markets to visit.

I have no intention of disparaging them. In fact, they are very good people and take good care of me. They told me which noodle shop nearby is cheap and delicious. They washed the grapes in the afternoon and brought them a full basin. Always telling me to get more.

I just think that if they had higher education, they would have more choices. Moyo would not insist on living like this, wearing headphones and getting scolded and making hundreds of phone calls every day. My mouth was dry, and my whole head was buzzing with life as if a swarm of bees had been released as soon as I got off work.

I would not envy an ordinary English Level 4 certificate. After all, this is just a necessary process for everyone who graduates from university.

　 —4—

Teacher Mi Meng’s interns have more advanced part-time jobs than ordinary people. I really want to ask her why she is so good at being a model. How to maintain it? Where did the equipment and lenses for her early photography studies come from? This girl’s family conditions are almost so good that she can live her whole life waiting to die without going to school. She is not afraid of dropping out of school, she is not afraid of being ruined, and she can afford to gamble and be willful.

If possible, I would also like to do a part-time job that is technical, interesting and profitable. But I had no connections or background, and my family conditions were not good, so I was not able to develop any special skills from a young age. I just focused on studying, and finally went to university. I spent one holiday after another, handing out flyers, selling shoes, and selling bread. Delivering food, being a waiter in a teahouse, selling instant noodles at the entrance of a scenic spot, suffering a lot of hardships and earning very little money.

There is a saying circulating in Zhihu: The poor can bear the hardships of life but cannot bear the hardships of struggle, while the rich can bear the hardships of struggle but cannot bear the hardships of life.

What is the pain of struggle?

It is always maintaining a keenness to opportunities, never stopping the pace of learning, a high degree of self-discipline and self-improvement ability, and the ability to face challenges. The courage to face difficulties without escaping is the idea of ??discovering and solving problems and the mentality of finding breakthroughs and making up for shortcomings in problem solving.

You said you want to drop out of school, ask yourself, can you really bear the hardship of struggle? Then why do you want to escape if you can't learn a class well, and comfort yourself that this is learning itself? Useless? You said you could pass the exam by memorizing the test paper, but I didn’t see you memorize it and get a perfect score and get a scholarship. You despise your classmates who are all taking selfies of Honor of Kings on Taobao. Why are you doing the same thing again? < /p>

Learning is a kind of ability and habit, and it does not necessarily have to be achieved by taking a break from school and going to work. For those who want to learn, where can there be a better environment than school? There is no pressure to survive, no confident boss who always asks you to get takeout, and no colleagues who want to compete for performance. If you have questions, you can always find a teacher. Consult with seniors.

Teacher Mi Meng said that those who have goals and something to do can resign. She did not say that between wanting and getting, there is also achieving.

The goal is just to want, but to achieve it is a long and hard journey.

No matter how much you like your job, there will always be unpleasant elements mixed with it.

No matter how progressive the environment is, it is inevitable to make some useless preparations.

No matter how thorough the plan is, people will take some unnecessary detours.

You can’t overcome these things and can’t bear them in school. If you drop out of school and go to work, will you be able to happily have everything go as you want?

—5—

After graduation, I accidentally saw Li Juan’s Weibo. There was this sentence written generously under her name:

Thank you for liking my writing, but please don’t Come to me, okay?

I was stunned for a long time at this sentence.

If I had rashly dropped out of school, gone to Li Juan rashly, and then received such a rejection through her Weibo, I really don’t know what I would have done in the future.

Achieving your ideals requires more than determination, it also means taking on many difficulties that you have never imagined.

We often do this, because we are trapped in confusion and trouble that we cannot escape, and we turn to longing for another world.

So some people play games, some go traveling, some read books or travel across mountains and rivers to talk to the author. After doing these things, they relax physically and mentally, which helps to work and study better.

However, those who choose to drop out of school choose a path from which they can never turn back.

In order to make things convenient and fast, the world itself has many realistic rules and regulations. In many companies, even undergraduates and college students have different starting salaries, different internship periods, and different promotion opportunities. Not to mention college dropouts.

Understanding a person’s abilities requires cumulative consideration over time. Opportunities are fleeting and everyone is missing each other non-stop. It is impossible to waste manpower and carry out large-scale projects for the sake of a few low-educated and high-ability possibilities. of screening and lengthy consideration.

So don’t say academic qualifications are just superficial skills, ability is important.

Education determines how high you can climb, and ability determines how far you can go.

The world is like a wave. Skilled people move along the wave like a fish in the water. People who always want to change the rules to prove themselves are easily photographed on the beach.

Instead of muttering about the unfairness of looking only at academic qualifications without looking at ability, it is better to learn first how to stabilize your mind when faced with useless things that you have to do, and how to face difficulties that you have to overcome. Things, how to master skills.

The books I have read and the education I have received are like light rain, moistening everything and quietly seeping into my thoughts, character, words and deeds. I cannot name exactly which teacher. Which period of education and which book had a definite influence on my skills? But I have truly experienced that a person like me who has no access, no backing, no resources, and whose family conditions are not good enough since childhood and have not cultivated any skills, once refuses After graduating from higher education, I was not qualified to choose photography, modeling or writing like Mr. Mi Meng’s intern. Instead, I could only choose one of the part-time jobs I had done and become the one I had to go through in my life. road.