Human map? Perceptual inner authority: In this world where efficiency is paramount, you are actually more suitable for elegant and slow life.

Open your human map. If your inner authority is the "emotional center", then you are a person with a clear emotional center. In the world population, about 53% people define the emotional center, which is one of the centers of perception and one of the energy centers that are still developing. It is like a wave, full of enthusiasm when it is high, and unpredictable when it is low. However, no matter whether the mood swings are high or low, there is no difference between good and bad, as long as they are released naturally, they can stay healthy.

You are like a patient photographer.

There is a very clear explanation about the emotional center in human images: the science of distinction. It describes a person with emotional authority as a "patient photographer". If you want to take a flower, one photo is definitely not enough, but it will take a whole day to take a series of photos. When flowers are spent in the early morning, under the scorching sun at noon and under the sunset in the evening, they all have different appearances and different light; Photographers with clear emotions will also change their angles, even cameras, and shoot flowers in different poses. Whether it is the fragrance of flowers, the touch of petals or the swaying posture in the wind, if the photographer allows himself to be patient and willing to wait and let the emotional waves operate at different heights, he can see the flower more completely and clearly, and this experience will be deeper and more hierarchical.

That's why we always advise people with internal authority in emotional type not to make decisions at the moment, because impulsive decisions are like looking at things from the high or low point of an emotional wave. When the waves are rough, you may see a colorful flower and think it is your dream, but you are too close, so you only see some petals. When the tide of feelings reaches a low point, or rises and falls again, you will find that the remaining petals have already withered, so this is not the flower you want.

Impulsive decisions often bring feelings that people who define emotions cannot regret. You may find out afterwards that you promised a difficult task, promised a relationship that you were not ready for, or impulsively bought something you didn't want, or even pushed away people and things that were beneficial to you and regretted it.

People who don't respect your inner authority cannot be right.

Please wait for the ups and downs of your mood, and then make a major decision after this period of fluctuation. Whether the mood ebbs and flows or it is calm, you should feel it. Will there be different opinions when you look at the same thing? After going through the emotional cycle and making a decision, you will know your feelings better and more clearly. This is the right decision for you.

Therefore, you don't need to force yourself to make a hasty decision, and don't be forced by others easily. If you can't respect your inner authority, then that person, that opportunity may not really suit you, and you don't need to feel sorry or pity. In this efficiency-oriented world, in fact, you are more suitable to live slowly and gracefully, so that your experience and soul level will be deeper and you will learn valuable life wisdom.