Is it a mistake for Wang Geng to marry Lu Xiaoman?

As a matter of fact, Wang Geng is a poor man, and his fault is only to find a wife who is out of character. His lifestyle will never keep up with his wife's footsteps and can't meet her standards. How many times did he want to complain about his hard work and give his wife more happiness, so he worked day and night and almost turned himself into a work machine. When they got married, Xiaoman's parents took a fancy to him among many people and betrothed their only eye to him. His family is not so rich, not as prominent as Xiaoman's. He knows that only by working harder can he give Xiaoman happiness and make Lujia sit up and take notice of him. He is a good man, and his mistake is to meet a woman who is not suitable for him.

His life is not as brilliant as expected. The love affair between Xiaoman and Zhimo is a great blow to Wang Geng. Since knowing them, Wang Geng has been living in pain. After three years of marriage with Xiaoman, I failed to get a son and a half. Wang Geng never married another woman again, and finally lived abroad all her life alone. It's a pity that this is his fate. Gorgeous appearance, leaving behind is so dim.

There are no ifs in life, but we can fantasize about 1 10,000 possibilities. If Wang Geng didn't marry Lu Xiaoman, a wayward and coquettish woman, but married a virtuous and virtuous woman and had children, she would live a happy life without any worldly harm and ridicule. Will his life be brighter? Or maybe Xiaoman didn't meet a poet like Zhimo, and he and Xiaoman kept going. What would it be like?

Time is like a cold machine. It has no feelings and never sympathizes with anyone. It keeps a close eye on everything in the world and never gives anyone a chance to choose again. Everyone comes to this world with a one-way ticket in his hand and walks at the crossroads of life. There is only one chance to choose. As long as you choose, you will never have a chance to turn back. You can only go straight ahead until the end of your life.

The love between Lu Xiaoman and Xu Zhimo is earth-shattering, because their love is based on the blood and tears of countless people. They can give everything for love and hurt everything just because they can love each other forever. In the face of love, their blood is boiling and they don't care about the people around them. Thousands of years of feudal ethics will not collapse in an instant, and any change will gradually change in a subtle way. They have dealt a blow to the world, and not everyone can accept it calmly. Parents must endure the supercilious look and satire of others, which will inevitably affect their parents' reputation. As a sensible and worldly child, how can you tolerate the ugliness of your parents' faces? Their hearts must be full of contradictions, but the flame of love has burned all other scruples.

They are selfish, thinking only about their own happiness, but not about the suffering of others. After all, everyone lives in this world, besides love, there are responsibilities, relatives and families. They abandon everything just to find their own life.

They are very brave. Not all of them have the courage to lay down all their honors and status. Faced with a new life and all the unknowns, no one is not afraid. Only a truly brave person can go to the end, become an alien in the eyes of the world and be criticized by the world.

The standards for women in this society are always stricter than those for men. Lu Xiaoman's character of daring to love and hate made him brilliant in the first half and miserable in the second half. What is left to future generations is the notoriety of prostitutes.

The witness is Liang Qichao. Liang Qichao is extremely reluctant to be a witness of Xu Zhimo and Lu Xiaoman, because Wang Geng is also his protege. Isn't it a blow to Wang Geng and support for Chi Mo? He can do such an unkind and unfair thing. Importantly, he has always opposed the divorce between Xu Zhimo and Zhang Youyi, and has a problem with Xu Zhimo's love life. The more important reason is that he is biased against Lu Xiaoman, and doesn't like this social butterfly style that only knows how to eat, drink and show off. He likes girls to pursue their careers, have a certain sense of responsibility to society and abide by social etiquette. All his daughters are like this, and so is Lin, the daughter-in-law she chose. Therefore, he opposed Zhimo's marrying a celebrity. Not to mention stealing someone's wife. This man is none other than his disciple. He can say that he is extremely disgusted with this matter. Ask him to be a witness, how can he not be emotional? But he still came, first because of Hu Shi's repeated requests, and second because of his care for disciple Zhimo. But when he comes, he can't be a peacemaker. He wants to clarify his point of view and play a role in teaching his disciples. So he said the following unique motto: Xu Zhimo, you are impetuous, so you have no achievements in your studies. You are a person who doesn't know much about feelings, so that you divorce and remarry. You must repent and turn over a new leaf ... Xu Zhimo, Lu Xiaoman, listen! You're all divorced and remarried. You've all been through it. This is all because you are not expert in your own mood, and you will regret it later. I hope you don't become an experienced person again. As Mr. Xu Zhimo, if you still recognize me as Mr., you are a witness to today's wedding. I send you a word, I hope this is your last marriage! Hearing this, Xu Zhimo couldn't listen any longer, so he went to Liang Qichao and whispered, Sir, please stop talking and take care of the disciple's face.

Feeling:

As the saying goes, women are afraid of marrying the wrong person, and men are afraid of entering the wrong line. In fact, men are also afraid of marrying the wrong bride. If two people can't live in harmony and have similar outlook on life and values, it will be difficult to live in harmony and happiness after marriage. Lu Xiaoman and Xu Zhimo walked together regardless of the world's opposition, which hurt their parents and relatives.

Among them, Lu Xiaoman's husband Wang Geng, a particularly outstanding and talented person, was the most seriously affected. The other is Xu Zhimo's wife Zhang Youyi, a gentle and virtuous woman. Faced with the betrayal of their spouses, their hearts are the most painful. I think drowning yourself in pain or choosing suicide is the worst policy. The biggest revenge for each other is to let yourself have a wonderful life.

A person's life needs both sensibility and rationality. If you live in sensibility, you will lose your cool. If you are too rational, life will lack a romantic atmosphere. Sensibility and rationality are like hot water and ice water. We need to adjust the temperature suitable for life.