What educational methods does Gu Ailing's mother have that are worth learning by ordinary families?

February 8, 2022. /kloc-Gu Ailing, 0/8 years old, won the gold medal in the women's platform platform final of freestyle skiing in this Winter Olympics, and once again painted a "strong color" on her performance list.

In fact, Gu Ailing has long been known to everyone, and this is not only because of her high face value, but also because of her outstanding talent. Gu Ailing likes archery, football, horseback riding, rock climbing, running and many other sports, and her level is much higher than that of ordinary people.

In addition to loving sports, Gu Ailing is an expert in sports and a versatile schoolmaster. She is good at ballet and piano, and was admitted to Stanford University with excellent results. (She got 1600 in the exam 1580)

As the saying goes, "most excellent children will have quality family education behind them." Indeed, the reason why Gu Ailing is so outstanding is inseparable from the family environment and family education.

0 1, parents' words and deeds

Gu Ailing's mother graduated from Peking University with a master's degree from Stanford University and her father graduated from Harvard University. Gu Ailing's grandparents are also highly educated and have a strong learning atmosphere at home.

Gu Ailing's mother said: "It is better to teach by example than by example, so this atmosphere is created. Children are willing to join, unwilling and unnecessary. " The whole family has great interest in learning. Gu Ailing has been in contact since she was a child. She naturally likes learning and will not take reading as a burden.

Emerson once said: "What kind of person a child will eventually become depends mainly on the quality of love, companionship and example he gets from the first educator." Parents set a good example for their children, then children will "follow the path" to learn, naturally not bad.

02. Exercise the child's strong will and try to lift the child.

Gu Ailing's parents will not criticize and accuse her excessively because of her child's failure. They always know the situation at the first time when they encounter something, and then give Gu Ailing enough help. In daily life, they won't haggle over every ounce because of Gu Ailing's performance, and even won't show that they are swayed by considerations of gain and loss. Gu Ailing's parents told their children that they must have an optimistic attitude and a broad mind.

In terms of study, Gu Ailing's parents don't always ask their children to study. They know the "art" of parenting. Let Gu Ailing learn to relax one by one, keep moderate pressure, do her best when studying and play freely.

Children's growth is inseparable from good family education, so parents should try their best to set a good example for their children and provide a good environment as much as possible.