If the other person is sick, will you still choose to get married?

It depends on what disease it is. If it is an incurable disease such as cancer, I will not choose to get married, but I will spend my last time with him. If it is a chronic disease for a long time, but it doesn't have much impact on life, I will choose to get married.

I think when two people get along and get married, there will definitely be an emotional foundation. If I let him go because he is ill, of course I can't, but different diseases have different choices. For example, cancer is incurable. I won't leave like this, but I won't choose to get married, because I already know that the final result is that two people can't be together. I will spend this time with him silently, even if I spend all my savings. If you get married and he dies, and meet the right person in the future, people will ask you why you got married at that time and explain to each other what happened between you. Maybe he doesn't mind, but I don't want to say it. I just want to keep this memory in my heart.

If it is a chronic disease, such as lupus erythematosus, the disease can be suppressed by drugs, as long as you see a doctor on time, it will not have a great impact on your daily life. I will choose to marry each other for such a disease. As long as two people plan their future lives together, they can still live happily and get what they want.

I still remember reading a very touching news last year, the love story of Shandong guy Yu Haining and Henan girl Fan. They have been in love for five years. At the time of marriage, the girl had advanced metastatic adenocarcinoma of the chest, but the boy chose to marry the other party instead of letting go, so they got married in the ward. This love has also touched many people. After a year of marriage, the girl still left, and the boy has not remarried so far.

Perhaps few people can be as brave and responsible as this boy. Let's think about it from another angle. If I were the boy, I wouldn't do his job. Their experience is very touching, but in this process, many things are unimaginable that we have not experienced. Many people can't stand the pressure and mentality. Maybe some people have confidence in themselves at first, but they give up after half a year, three months or even a month or two.

No matter what choice the other person makes, you should not kidnap others morally. Only when you have experienced this dilemma yourself can you understand the decision you have made in your heart.