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When people reach middle age and can't control the world, they begin to toss about useless things.

How many years ago, when I was a student with scarce resources, it was not an alarm clock that woke me up, but a dream. It was not life but an ideal that forced me to struggle constantly.

At that time, there was no rich material security, and the monthly living expenses were only enough to maintain a normal life, and there was no luxury consumption. But very happy.

At that time, time was never so tense as it is now. I walked back and forth on my way to the dormitory and classroom with confidence. It's neither too tight nor too slow.

Everything is like the scenery of the campus, calm and real enough to comfort the soul.

Later, I left the campus and started working.

Work hard and try to start a new life journey.

Get married, start a business, and work hard for life.

Suddenly, I reached middle age.

I was very busy at first and often stayed up to eat. I began to lose the habit of reading quietly, and I couldn't inspire words when I started writing. ...

My concentration is getting worse and worse, so it is difficult to sit quietly at my desk reading and writing for an hour or two. Become impetuous.

Many times, I am not interested in external things, and it is difficult to learn professional knowledge calmly. My heart is getting more and more empty.

I began to pay a lot of attention to cars, began to buy some useless digital products, and began to enter a stage of tossing various objects.

It was not until a friend once said: As soon as men entered middle age, they gradually found that they could not control women and the world, so they began to toss about all kinds of objects that they could "control", such as collecting, fishing, photographing and changing cars frequently.

It's really suitable for you!

Without the passion of teenagers and the enthusiasm of young people, there are more troubles in middle age than accidents in old age.

Live better than teenagers, be more energetic than old people, have the ideal of conquering the world, and have no courage to conquer the world.

Not interested in the opposite sex, impatient with children, satisfied with the status quo, and have little hope for the future. Make do with colleagues and only know a few friends.

The words of chicken soup for the soul no longer stir up inner waves, and my heart is unwilling to write on paper as it was when I was a teenager.

It seems that the only thing that can interest people is these expensive and impractical items, and they are enjoying themselves.

Is this a kind of decadence? Not necessarily. Never crushed by life, the waist is still straight.

Is this a catharsis? Not exactly. There have been no complaints like teenagers, and family work must be taken into account.

Then why get emotional about things? That is to escape from reality for the time being, and to stay away from the noise of the world for the time being; It is another expectation of life, which greatly enriches the material security around us through our own efforts. I will continue to work hard in the future and give myself a reason to continue to struggle; It is a profound experience of the real world. The goal of life is very important, and the process of experience is full of joy. It is a constraint on emotion. No matter how tempting the opposite sex is, don't touch it casually. It's better to focus on things and control yourself.

So, if you have such middle-aged men around you, please understand them with sympathy and care ~