To build yourself, please tear off the negative label you put on yourself first.

Real self-awareness begins with never labeling yourself.

Coca-Cola once made an intriguing advertisement. The photography team invited six strangers to communicate in a dark environment, so that they couldn't see each other and could only know each other's identity and appearance through each other's language.

But this does not affect their relaxed and happy conversation, discussing each other's hobbies and guessing everyone's looks and clothes until the lights are on.

It was found that the tattooed boy was actually a ted speaker, while a newcomer was a heavy metal lover. The extreme athlete who believed that "actions speak louder than words" was actually in a wheelchair.

If you didn't meet in such an environment, would you believe the life they told you?

The last thing I should lock in my life is myself, let alone labeling myself.

What kind of life do you want to live, what kind of life do you want to have, what kind of lover do you want to find, and even what kind of road do you want to take, you don't have to set limits for yourself, let alone use the labels "I dare not", "I don't know", "He doesn't love me" and "I'm afraid of loneliness" as reasons to stop.

Life is never a conclusion of "yes" or "no", nor a label of "good" or "bad", but a course waiting for you to learn and understand.

When people find that someone is different from their own behavior standards or mate selection standards, they start asking around, because they always treat things they don't know differently by "labeling".

Everyone hates being labeled, but in fact we often label others.

For example, Sichuanese love spicy food, Shanghai men are petty, Northeast people are grumpy, and Virgos are picky. These stereotypes are actually "labeled" and biased.

However, more often, labels have begun to develop into a judgment method with the lowest thinking cost.

For example, send photos of travel and fitness in a circle of friends. Sometimes there will always be some unfriendly words in the comments, "Go on a trip" and "Is it necessary to make a circle of friends to be healthy?" Show off your wealth? "

In their self-righteous world, the world is either black or white. Once others are found to be different from themselves, they will label them as "heretics".

At the beginning of The Great Gatsby, Fitzgerald once said: When you want to criticize someone, you must remember that not everyone in this world has what you have.

The most terrible thing in this world is that people often measure others by the standards of saints and themselves by the standards of bitches.

Labeling others at will just exposes a person's most intuitive thoughts and accomplishments.

Not labeling yourself is recognition of yourself.

Mr. Zhou said: it is lucky to be understood, but it is not necessarily unfortunate not to be understood. A person who places his own value entirely on the understanding of others is often the least valuable.

The actress Cecilia Han is known by many people from the labels of "vase", "hard backstage" and "eating by the face". However, in the variety show "Sound Come", she proved that she is by no means a "vase" with amazing performances and excellent basic skills. She won high attention and a lot of applause for herself with her strength. On the stage of audio drama, Cecilia Han is full of aura. She vividly interprets Yumo's strength and gentleness, and her victory is well deserved. With her persistence and hard work, she tore off the label of "vase" and let people know the girl more comprehensively.

She said in a reality show: When people look at you, don't expect to see the real you. The only thing you can do is be yourself. Being yourself is the best recognition, and being yourself is the best label to prove your strength.

Labels can only define the past, not the future.

From birth to study, we are surrounded by the whole world, with the label of satisfaction and dissatisfaction. Some people even pursue a life labeled as success all their lives, as Mr. Jiang Yang said: "Teenagers are playful, young people are obsessed with love, and they are eager to become famous and have a family in their prime, and they are content to deceive themselves in their twilight years."

If positive labels still have some inspiring effects on people, then negative labels are stereotypes full of prejudice and negative energy, and even leave a lifelong shadow on people.