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Did you ever live in someone else's house when you were a child?

I live at my uncle's house. When I was 0/6 years old, an embarrassing thing happened.

My uncle's home is in Zhengzhou, the provincial capital, and my home is in the suburbs of Zhengzhou.

199 1 During the summer vacation, I was 16 years old. Before that, I have only been to Zhengzhou once, so prosperous, so lively and so developed. Now that I have graduated from junior high school, I want to visit Zhengzhou.

After a long ride, I finally found my uncle's house. My uncle was very excited when my aunt came back from a business trip in the evening. It is estimated that menstruation missed her very much for three days on business trip.

At that time, my cousin was 1 1 years old. My uncle's house has only two rooms and no living room. I think my uncle will let me share a room with my aunt and he will share a room with his cousin.

Maybe my uncle misses my aunt too much. After all, he just came back from a business trip and arranged for me to share a bed with my cousin.

God, I 16 years old, that is, when I am shy. My cousin 1 1 is not young. It's so awkward to arrange this kind of sleep! I-I'm very dependent. what can I say?

So I slept with my cousin. Although it was summer and it was very hot, I didn't take off my clothes and slept in the clothes I wore during the day. So is my cousin.

I stayed at my uncle's house for two nights and was embarrassed for two nights. During the day, my cousin took me for a stroll on Zhengzhou Street. Zhengzhou is really good and the traffic is very busy. Young girls ride bicycles and wear elegant moon skirts.

Now, I have my own house in Zhengzhou, but the embarrassment of staying at my uncle's house for two nights remains in my memory.

When I lived in menstruation's house, I was a boy of 13 years old, and an embarrassing thing happened.

My aunt lives in the capital Nanjing, and my family lives in the suburbs of Nanjing.

1998 summer vacation, menstruation just got married for one year. I was a boy of 13 years old that year.

I have never been to Nanjing before. Everything in the city is so fresh and prosperous to me. For a long time, I have been eager to visit Nanjing.

After a long bus ride, I finally found my aunt's house. My phone call surprised my uncle.

Is that the welfare room of her home or work unit? The house has a room and a living room.

On the same day, my uncle just came back from a business trip. I was very happy to see my aunt, and my arrival surprised me. I was a little unhappy in my eyes. At that time, I was still young and didn't know what it meant.

As there is no spare room, I can only sleep in the same bed with them. After dinner, my uncle told me to go to bed quickly, but I wanted to go shopping and watch TV before going to bed.

My uncle said that you must be tired after such a long ride. Go to sleep quickly, or I won't take you out to play tomorrow.

I have no choice but to lie in bed and sleep.

Because this is my first time in Nanjing, my brain is very excited. I can't sleep when I lie down, and my mind is full of thinking about where to play tomorrow.

About an hour later, I heard my uncle say to my aunt, hurry up, he must be asleep because he is tired.

And called my name gently, for fear that they would find me awake and not take me out to play the next day, I immediately closed my eyes and didn't answer.

Maybe they thought I was really asleep. I was young and didn't know what they were doing.

I can only watch them secretly and dare not make any noise.

I don't know how long it lasted, and then I fell asleep in my sleep.

To my surprise, when I got up the next day, Uncle menstruation made up again, and there was no sign of quarreling at all.

Later I asked menstruation if my uncle didn't like you and bullied you.

My sister-in-law looked at me with a surprised face. I said I saw everything and described what happened last night to my sister-in-law.

To my surprise, my aunt's face changed after listening.

I thought my aunt was afraid and told her not to be afraid. I went home and told my parents to teach my uncle a lesson.

My aunt asked me not to tell anyone about it in the future and promised to buy me ice cream.

I didn't know what was going on until later.

Now I have my own house in Nanjing, but what happened at menstruation's house that night has been deeply in my memory and cannot be erased.

When I was in the second day of junior high school, that is, when I was fifteen or sixteen years old, I remember that my father put me at my aunt's house.

At that time, because my hometown was in Shandong, as early as 2002, my father took my sister and me to Ningxia to live and make a living. My sister is two years older than me. She is a girl who belongs to the sheep from the novel and her life is not good. I think my sister is really bad. When I was in primary school, I remember that my sister got schizophrenia the year she graduated from junior high school. Since my sister was diagnosed with schizophrenia, I found that my family was never quiet again. What impressed me the most was that my sister had hallucinations at night, treating people as animals, scaring her all night, shouting and jumping. This is a very sad thing that lingers in my mind. It seems to be rooted in my heart. My father also sent her to Ningxia Psychiatric Hospital for a while. After leaving the hospital, she was very weak, and at first glance she was abnormal.

My mother never went to Ningxia to reunite with us because she took care of her paralyzed grandmother in her hometown in Shandong. My father is a lout who can only make money and never cares about our life, so we lack great care in life. I think this is the biggest factor for my sister's illness. He used to study very well. I think he should be the best and most capable child in the family. But unfortunately, he still suffered from schizophrenia that has been haunting him all his life. I feel sad every time I regret it.

After many years, my sister's condition has not improved. Because of helplessness, my father tried his best and finally decided to take my sister back to her hometown in Shandong and go back to Daizhuang Hospital in Jining, Shandong. It might be better to be famous there. I am still in junior high school, but I am helpless. My father will board me at my aunt's house. Father was helpless, but the child's illness had to be cured, so he had to wronged me to live with her aunt.

There should be some grievances here, because I am a thin-skinned child and I was reluctant to take other people's things since I was a child. I don't want to go to menstruation's house this time, because I am a stranger and menstruation's house is not particularly close to me. In this way, my father didn't come back from his hometown in Shandong. At this time, my uncle was very anxious, because I lived in their house, so I called my father to say that you should come back more. I'm very unhappy, and it's really painful. When I was in junior high school, I went out to work with my classmates on Saturday and Sunday, and tried not to stay at my aunt's house when I was free. I felt embarrassed and uncomfortable eating and drinking, so I persisted. I decided to go back to my hometown in Shandong just to find my parents. After slowly returning to Shandong, I found that I was no longer from Shandong, and I spoke Ningxia dialect. Slowly, I also encountered many problems here. I feel a little sorry and sad, because I grew up in Ningxia and all my friends are in Ningxia, so I have no choice but to accept the reality, live a good life and work hard, and don't let my parents worry about what happened to me!

I live in my uncle's house in the next semester of grade three. Eat at school and sleep there at night. The reason is that the school conditions are too poor, and the school dormitory is actually a big classroom. There are 50,60 students in a dormitory. There were two classes of girls in our dormitory at that time. Too many people talk, go to the toilet at night, etc. I can't sleep well all night anyway. And there is no toilet in the school dormitory. It's so far to go to the toilet at night that I'm scared. There is a grave outside the toilet. The schools are not all closed. At night, bad guys go to the girls' dormitory to molest girls. Living in my uncle's house is actually my uncle's dormitory. He always has three single rooms. Living in his home is really much more convenient than at school. At least you can read at will under the light every night. You don't have to run that far to the bathroom. I share a room and a bed with my cousin Cousin goes to primary school. I have to help her with her homework. What impressed me the most was that my cousin stole more than 30 pieces of living expenses from me one night. I just told her to take it out. She finally quietly threw the money under the bed and pretended to look for it with me. She pretended to pay cash. My cousin was very cute when she was young. I didn't expose her in the end. My cousin is 33 this year. Appreciate the days of living in their home. I worked in that school when she was in high school. She doesn't want to live in a student dormitory. Just live in the teacher's dormitory with me. So far, we have a good relationship. So people are mutual.

When I was in high school, I lived at my father's classmate's house. Uncle Zhang and my aunt are very kind to me. They have five children, but they still regard me as their own. They say classmates are as close as brothers and sisters. Although they are over 80 years old, 40 years later, I still remember their voices and smiles every day, and they will never be forgotten.

I graduated in July 2008 and went to menstruation's home in another city in May. My aunt was training primary and secondary school students. She repeatedly invited me to play (in fact, she wanted me to help her in the summer vacation), just in time for the local teacher to recruit students, so I signed up and passed.

After I recruited myself, I stayed in the local area to help my aunt go to summer school, run enrollment, take students to summer camp, and run hundreds of kilometers back and forth with the driver to pick up students in one night. In short, I have been running with my aunt, and of course I have been living in her house. I plan to go to work in September. My parents asked me to find a house to live in first, and I agreed to share it with my colleagues, but my aunt insisted that I live in her house. She was divorced and single at that time, and planned to work in other places for a period of time, saying that the house was empty and no one lived, so let me live first. I didn't think much at that time. That's the relationship. I stayed.

I have lived there since I went to work in September for the New Year. At that time, my plan was to find my own house in the spring after the New Year. In the second half of the year, my aunt came back occasionally and worked in other places. Even so, I felt uneasy and started looking for a house. Near the Spring Festival, my aunt came back and told me formally: There is still a loan for this house. You can have your own room and rent the rest. The rent can still cover the loan. Does your colleague have a house? Actually, I started looking for a house to live in at that time, so I refused. I said to my aunt, no, I have been here for half a year. You should rent out the house as soon as possible. I will move out before I go to work next year. At the beginning of the following year, my parents accompanied me to move home, and found that my aunt had packed my luggage for me, and my bedroll was rolled up for me, because the house was to be rented, leaving something behind. My aunt gave the refrigerator, TV, microwave oven and induction cooker to her neighbors downstairs. No need, new tenants definitely don't want bowls, chopsticks, pots and the like. My parents and I didn't stop for a moment, so we took our things and left. As for what she gave us, we also threw it in the trash can.

Later, she rented out her house and went to work in other places. When I come back occasionally, I go to my rental house. I dislike the cold house I rented and remind me to install air conditioning and network cable. I pretended not to hear. I just went to work and had no spare money.

Later, I got married and had children and bought two houses. Last year, the old house was rented out and the new house was not finished. I need to rent a house. When my aunt learned the news, she was embarrassed and said to me, I can stay at her house first, but it's empty. I firmly refused. I don't want to owe anyone. I rent my own house, and I can solve things with money. Why do I owe them?

Based on this experience, no matter where I go, I will not spend the night at my relatives' house. The hotel is so convenient that everyone has their own living space without too much interference, don't you think?

My cousin came to live in my house, because her family is in the country, and she came to live in the city for a year for senior three.

We get along well, but we don't communicate much, because senior three is under great pressure. After all, we are not a family. Living together is definitely impossible to get along with a family.

As a boarding child, I suggest to be normal, help with the work when living together, and move out as soon as possible if possible.

When I was a child, I went to the city to study in junior high school for three years and lived in my uncle's house. After all, my family's living habits are different. From then on, as long as I have a choice, I will not go to other people's homes for the night, even for one night, let alone live in other people's homes, not a family, not a house! Other people's living habits can't be influenced by you. I don't want to cause trouble to others!

I haven't stayed with my relatives, but my cousin lived in my house when I was a child. Nothing, right? My cousin was in high school at that time, and rural children were sensible and nothing happened.