Other people's mouths, their own way.

Text | Dulan Photography | Afternoon Sunshine Editor | Baiyi

"Night talk around the stove" said: "What is the basis for doing things? I only hope this heart will get by."

The world is very complicated, everyone has his own principles for dealing with people, and many people have different standards for judging right and wrong;

It's hard to argue, but as long as you don't go against your conscience and do things honestly, you don't have to care too much about other people's mouths and just go your own way.

Gossip, let him say it.

"The Warring States Policy" said: "Nightcrawler will do anything to stop dogs from barking."

People who walk at night can ensure that they don't do bad things, but they can't stop dogs from barking at themselves.

Being a man, even if you try your best, it is impossible to satisfy everyone. A really smart person will not care too much about other people's opinions, but live more freely.

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An old monk went down the mountain with his apprentice and passed by a river. He saw a little daughter-in-law standing on the riverbank, afraid to cross the river, and stamped her feet in anxiety.

Seeing this, the old monk was moved with compassion and crossed the river with his little wife on his back. The young monk was very ashamed to see Master crossing the river with his patroness on his back.

After crossing the river, the old monk walked on casually. The young monk bulging walked more than ten miles, finally asked:

"Teacher, you usually teach me to become a monk and behave. You just casually carried that woman across the river, but why? "

The old monk smiled and said, "I carried a woman across the river and forgot her, but you kept it in mind all the way." Who do you think is the unclear platform? "

Life is like this. Where there are people, there are right and wrong. Everyone has a mouth and there is always discussion about you.

We can't gag others and let them say whatever they like; Go your own way and live your life firmly, but do good deeds and Mo Wen will have a bright future.

Be innocent and do things neatly.

Mencius said, "Yang is worthy of heaven and doesn't care about others."

An upright man is open and poised, raise your head, you have a clear conscience, lower your head, you deserve others.

People should be aboveboard, open and honest, and live up to their conscience and heaven and earth.

Yu Qian of the Ming Dynasty was healthy all his life. At that time, his officialdom was very corrupt. Ministers have to pay a large sum of money and gifts when they go to Beijing, otherwise the consequences will be embarrassing.

However, every time Yu Qian goes to Beijing, he only brings personal belongings. Fearing that he would suffer, the good-hearted man advised, "Don't bring gold and silver to Beijing, but also bring some local products for free!"

He raised his sleeves and said with a smile, "I have two clean hands!" " "

Later, Yu Qian was killed by a fake flatterer, and when his property was seized, "there was not much left at home."

When the property raider saw that the main house was locked, he thought there must be money hidden in it.

When I opened it, I found that all the treasures were gifts given to me by Jingdi at the beginning, and they were clearly recorded. None of them were touched, and all of them were in tears.

Many people regard things as impermanent, and those who do good deeds are not paid and are often misunderstood; People who do evil sometimes get away with it.

But as Hugo said, conscience exists in our hearts, and we should cherish and care for it.

Because everyone has a steelyard in his heart, if he does something wrong, he will live in anxiety and condemnation all day; Don't do anything wrong, don't be afraid to knock, don't say ambiguous words, and don't be afraid of others gossiping.

If you are serious about people and things and stand firm, you will have a clear conscience and feel at ease.

As the old saying goes, "Lan Zhi was born in a deep forest, not without people."

The same is true of being a man. Don't care about the various reputations of the outside world, because none can define you.

Only for me, with a clear conscience, can we live calmly, easily and appropriately. Only by not being influenced by the outside world can we concentrate on living the best of ourselves.

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Du Lanjun, this article was first published in Dulan, the official account of WeChat (ID: Dulantea). Loving yourself is the beginning of a romantic life. In Dulan, let American literature accompany you!

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Xiangnuan, formerly known as Wang Yanxia. He is a member of Henan Recitation Association and Xinyang Recitation Association. Walk into the sound and let the sound become your business card. Personal WeChat: w 15290223 179.

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