What do you think of Zunyi’s failure to hold a wedding due to the underwear incident?

The wedding event that took place in Zunyi, Guizhou on January 2 attracted public attention.

According to local rules, on the day the bride gets married, the man has to buy a new set of clothes for the woman from head to toe. As a result, when the bride was trying on clothes that night, she found that the underwear she bought was too small, so she called the groom. When he didn't get through, the groom's mother answered the phone and told the bride to wear something old as it was too late.

As a result, the bride refused to get married during the wedding ceremony, turning the wedding into a dinner party for relatives.

Afterwards, the groom became angry and exposed the incident to the media and became a hot search topic. The bride was also exposed online. An online article condemned the woman, saying that the girl’s family did not want a girl at all. Marriage is all about the high betrothal gift from the man’s family.

In the end, the public said that the public was right and the mother-in-law said that the mother-in-law was right. There were different opinions.

Public opinion is also divided.

First of all, the groom has a problem

Since you don’t know the size of your girlfriend’s underwear, why don’t you ask in advance? After all, getting married is a major event in life, and you shouldn’t be hasty. Try it out as a bride. When you find that your underwear is too small, you will definitely feel unhappy. If the groom can comfort you at this time, the next thing will not happen.

Or, go to some shopping malls that night to see if you can buy it, as a remedy to make your girlfriend and family happy. After all, it’s a big day for everyone to be happy.

No matter how bad it is, it is too late to have a good attitude. I believe that if the groom is sincere, he may be forgiven by the bride. The key is that the groom may be a little impatient because he is busy with the wedding, and in the end neither party can suppress their anger. , the wedding did not take place in the end.

2. The bride’s family also has problems

Marriage is a big deal, not a child’s play. Even if my daughter gets upset because her underwear is too small, it is really not a big deal compared to the wedding. How can she Why cancel the wedding because of such an incident? This parent is too unwise.

Judging from the video, the girl had no plans to get married at all. She didn’t even wear a wedding dress, but was still wearing an ordinary down jacket, which made people doubt the sincerity of the girl’s family.

① Generally, when holding a wedding, they must have obtained a certificate before the wedding can be held, which means that they are already a legal couple. If they regret the marriage at this time, even if they do not hold a wedding, they must go through divorce procedures if they break up, that is to say My daughter got married for the second time before the wedding;

② This incident has such a huge impact across the country. No matter what the inside story is, it will have an impact on the girl’s future. Who dares to marry Such a woman as a wife?

③Because there are different opinions, some people also mistakenly said that the girl's ex-boyfriend came back, and the girl regretted the marriage because of him.

I believe this is spreading rumors. Even if she wants to regret her marriage, she won’t just wait until the wedding day before regretting her marriage, right? It is more likely that the groom failed to pay attention to the local customs and felt depressed, which led to the cancellation of the wedding.

Just as the woman's father said to the outside world, no one wants such a thing to happen, and no parent will make fun of their daughter's happiness.

3. Although marriage is a union of two people, it is actually a union of two families.

If the parents of both parties are involved, it is difficult to ensure that the young couple will not be influenced.

The reason why this matter has become so popular is that it has touched the nerves of many people. It often happens that the groom makes things difficult for him when picking up his bride, demands exorbitant amounts of money, and the groom cancels the wedding out of anger.

Behind this, you can always see the figure of the mother-in-law or father-in-law. These parents, out of their own selfish interests, do not hesitate to destroy their daughter's marriage. Because their greed for money cannot be satisfied, they refuse the marriage of the man. In the end, He angered the groom's family and regretted the marriage on the spot. In the end, it was his own child who was harmed.

Conclusion:

The incident in Zunyi, Guizhou, where the wedding was canceled because the underwear was too small, was so fermented because it triggered people’s anger towards the woman’s excessive demands. root nerve.

In the past few years, parents who have boys at home have been overwhelmed by the increasing betrothal gifts from women. They thought they had already arranged the wedding and could finally breathe a sigh of relief. However, when welcoming the bride, they will still encounter The woman's proposal to increase the price of the bride price became the last straw for the man. Many grooms encountered many financial difficulties when marrying, so the groom walked away regardless. In the end, not only did the two parties not get married, but they also faced The tragedy of divorce proceedings.

This kind of tragedy is not uncommon, and it also makes people afraid of marrying a wife. The bride price has become a shadow in the hearts of families with boys.

In this Zunyi incident, the man had already given the woman’s family a large gift, and also gave the girl 20,000 yuan to buy clothes. Unexpectedly, in the end, he ended up buying a piece of underwear that was too small. In the end, he did not receive a bride, which was one of the reasons why the man was so angry that he exposed it to the media in anger.