What is love? I don't know each other through SMS.

The rule of what is love may be difficult to guarantee, because people are actually telling you that you need to take a passive attitude in the difficult problem of tryst, and you are tough in many other industries in your life. You may have a graduate degree and an expense account. You may be the current president of the Beauty Student Party. You may have your own blog and thousands of Twitter followers. You may be the executive director of the apartment management research association. You may often fly business class to Europe to sign up for marketing meetings. So what does love feel like? Let's follow Bian Xiao to see what love is.

However, what everyone wants to tell you here is that you can't even suggest having a cup of coffee with a man. Remember, the premise is that men and women are different when it comes to romance. Men like to pick _, like that kind of pursuit. Women are likely to be as smart as men, even smarter than men; She is likely to earn as much money as men, even more than men; She is likely to find a job where you can do whatever you want-but she can't be an attacker who won't regret it in the end when it comes to tryst. Just like sending a message to a man or chatting up a man first, actively inviting a man out undermines the standard of pursuit, and it is difficult to succeed, because men know exactly what kind of women they like and how to pursue perfection. If you ask a man out of politeness, sexual need or boredom, he may agree, but in order to treat the little girl he really likes better, he will undoubtedly leave you in the end.

Most women feel that asking men out on the announced Saturday date night is not in line with women's true identity, and may even be embarrassing, but they also feel that they can ask men out on other nights, perhaps not at that prominent time. A little girl may send a message to a man and some other basin friends: "Hey, why can't everyone come to my house to watch the game?" She probably thought she wasn't inviting him to a tryst. She may quietly prepare for watching this grand event, or she may hold a party for her best friend to celebrate her 30th birthday, just for love, and invite the man who makes her miss her so much to sign up. She may send an email to the handsome guy in English literature class, "Hey, do you want to prepare your text together?" Or after knowing that he likes a football team very much, she might say, "You must go to the Maggie Hotel to watch the Giants game later-do you want to go out for a walk?" "Naturally, this is not an announced invitation, it has realistic reasons, and it is in a group place, but this key point cannot change the objective fact that you invited him out.

Women will find all kinds of excuses to meet the man they like. They will hold a carnival party in the Beijing Photo Contest, although they have never seen a football match. They will hold an Oscar party in their own residence, or a donation party for some rare diseases = obviously lack of energy and fear in their hearts. Will he come back? Their computer has a common problem, so it is not easy for them to install their own copier. Can he come back soon? These are all very suitable ways to get a man to stand on their side; It may not be easy for them to suggest drinking or eating together, but it is still not easy for them to get an idealized result. Some women will call their girlfriends for hours, just to better stand up for themselves and wave a man's unimpeachable reason!

For a long time, it has become a habit for women to invite men out in the name of coolness and leisure. Ambre, 30, and Jeremy, 33, met at a carnival party. Jeremy came out to chat with her first, asked for her contact number, and sent her a text message a few days later to have a drink together. He still friended her on Facebook. After a few drinks together, Ambre Arithmetic never heard from him again. Ambre really likes him and tries her best to get in touch with him again, but it can't be too obvious. She knows she can't meet him voluntarily, but she thinks it should be okay to send them a message on Facebook. Her best friend is having a Christmas party. But this party program was planned by her and her best friend, and the only purpose was to let Ambre Computing see Jeremy again. She wrote, "Thank you for the wine. I don't know if you are free this Friday night, but my friend will hold a carnival party with a big game. Please tell me if you want to go with me-don't insist! " Ambre Arithmetic and her best friend spent half an hour working hard on the wording of this message and sent it to Facebook. She doesn't want others to think that she is sending him an invitation to a tryst! Two minutes later, Jeremy replied to the message: "Good news, I want to register." He did register, and they had a good time, but she still received all his information.

Operation Ambre sent us an email asking for help. Everyone told her that their relationship had long since ended, and when he had a few drinks together, there was no news of her. It is against the rules to send him an invitation to sign up for the carnival party on Facebook, so I took the initiative to meet him. Her invitation was based on internet technology, and it wasn't a dinner date on Saturday, but that doesn't mean it's appropriate. If going out with you is not his idea, then you are inviting him. More importantly, you try to force the relationship between people to last longer.

What is love? Let's be honest with ourselves! If we have to find ways to keep a man around, this connection will not be maintained for a long time. After Ambre's calculation-according to Farehook-Jeremy and his ex-girlfriend came together again, which is why he has stopped going out to see her. There is always a reason for the emergence and development trend of things, which is why it is not easy for little girls to try to make everything happen!

In a short time, there is no doubt that a man will accept your invitation, and he will accompany you to sign up for rave parties, movies or seminars. But he didn't do it for you! Men may finally expose this kind of intentional invitation before they begin to understand whether you are "desperate" or "proactive". What they have to do is that they have been busy asking them out, or they seem to have basically noticed their little daughter!

Don't play games.

What does love feel like? If you have learned anything from junior high school romantic TV series, it is that most men hate girls who play games. There may be a lot of mobile games now, but the same rules still exist. You may think it's not easy to play the guessing mobile phone game you drew with a handsome boy studying organic chemistry, and there are some disadvantages. Maybe you are just curious about his English vocabulary, and think that playing a few crossword puzzles may be the best test. But you already know that girls shouldn't be the first to act-even if this line only involves some kind of simulated letter game. Just like teasing and sending messages, it is best to wait for him to tell you that he is interested in hobbies. Of course, you don't have to take the initiative to suggest playing certain games. In fact, the best advice everyone can do here is to prevent playing games together-that is, games. It is stipulated that a little girl should not spend time on guessing games-she should be busy with her daily life, stay away from her mobile phone, and go out with a man who really invites her! If a man expects to get your attention, he will ask you to call, send you a message, or let you spread an invitation to a tryst.