Xuzhou photography group

For most of my life, I have been a little ashamed to talk about my love. But wrinkles are just marks of time. Although middle-aged people have no vows of eternal love, they have more mellow and sincere love than young people.

This kind of love is hidden in small things that are easily overlooked.

A few days ago, I was admitted to the hospital because of gynecological diseases and abdominal pain. I have to take intravenous drip every morning and afternoon. I need company most when I am sick, but he is very busy and sometimes he is not with me, which makes me very unhappy. I finally broke out that night. I asked him, "Where have you been? If your mother is ill, will you leave? "

He said, "I took time to get a haircut. When I left, I arranged for the nurse to come as soon as I heard the bell. " I said indignantly, "can't you wait until I finish hanging the water before getting a haircut?" What's the big deal? You're in such a hurry! "

That night, I argued with him for half an hour, said something that hurt him, and then ignored him for a few days. So he called his daughter in the northeast and told her about our quarrel. My daughter knew that I was stubborn, so she wrote WeChat to persuade me. The daughter said that you had a quarrel with your father, and he was particularly uncomfortable. Your words stimulated dad, and he made way for you. Just because he didn't say anything doesn't mean you're okay.

After reading my daughter's WeChat, my eyes were moist. I put down my mobile phone and sat on the sofa, observing my shortcomings and temper, and slowly thinking about his little kindness to me.

Married for more than 20 years, as long as he is at home, he is the first-class chef in the family. Even in the sweaty summer, he is busy in the kitchen, but I watch TV like an idle person.

As long as he is at home, he will cook a hearty lunch, stewed tofu with catfish, fried celery, fried chicken with mushrooms and fried beans. He likes eating meat, and I like being a vegetarian. Every meal has meat and vegetables. Even if he goes out for a meeting, he will cook the mutton, let it cool, cut it into pieces, wrap it in plastic bags and put it in the refrigerator, so that I can take out some mutton and put it in the soup when I eat, which is very convenient. Sometimes he goes out to socialize, prepares lunch and then leaves home.

That day, he chopped lamb chops with a machete, and the kitchen stove and tiles spilled were covered with blood. I looked at it and said, "It bothers me to see these bloody things. I will never go into the kitchen, and I don't want to go. " He took my words: "You think I want to go into the kitchen? I wait on you every day, don't be ignorant! " I smiled and said, "I met a good man in my life and should have the luck to eat."

He is not only my chef, but also thinks of me in various festivals, either giving me money or inviting me to dinner to make me happy.

I remember it was a rainy day and it was our wedding anniversary. He bought a handful of roses and took his six-year-old daughter to a Huajiang dog meat restaurant first. He ordered a catty and a half of dog meat and waited for me to steam it. When I appeared in the dog meat restaurant wearing a gray sportswear and my hair was wet, he laughed loudly and said, "Daughter, send flowers!" " "My daughter was so happy that she handed the rose to me. At that moment, I was too excited to say a word.

I took the rose and smiled like a fool. Cheerful laughter seemed to knock out the smell of dog meat outside the window, and the rain outside seemed vivid and loud.

That summer, I took a fancy to a mulberry silk leisure coat with peony pattern, which cost more than 800 yuan. I'm too expensive to buy it. I asked him to listen, and he immediately gave me 1000 yuan, and said generously, "I'll buy it if I like, and I'll pay." But I hesitated and refused to buy it. The next day, he took me to the store by bike and forced me to buy that dress.

Four years ago, my daughter went to college in the far northeast. He is busy at work and comes home from work. I spend most of my time alone, and my heart is often empty. For almost half a year, I was depressed and upset. I tried to type out a paragraph and find the bright color of life in it. I want to travel alone and see the outside world. However, when a person travels far, he is a little worried about the unknown journey and possible accidents on the road, and he is afraid to take the first step boldly.

That night, when he came back from drinking, I told him that I wanted to travel. I said, I'm so bored, I want to go out for a walk alone and get your support. He sat next to me and put

Put your hand on my shoulder and say, "Go ahead, I support you. If you have any problems outside, I'll drive some brothers to pick you up. " After listening to his words, I felt relieved, which increased my courage to travel.

In February of that year, I went to Suzhou for the first time, which opened the way for me to travel alone. From then on, I was out of control, and I went away again and again to relax myself in the natural landscape and ancient towns and villages. I became firm and happy because of this.

I fell in love with photography again because of traveling. He bought me a Canon 70d SLR camera three years ago, in order to let me take better photos than my mobile phone. This year, I plan to sign up for a photography class. After asking my colleagues in the unit, he came back and told me that he wanted me to sign up. In late July, I joined the Xiapu Photography Group in Fujian and saw so many photographers carrying high-end cameras with long guns and short guns. When I came back, I said to him, "Compared with other people's cameras, my 70d is really inferior." He understood what I meant, looked at me and said, "Don't you just want to change the high-end camera in Quan Huafu?" I smirked and replied, "If you know me, you are an idiot father."

I really can't bear to buy a camera with tens of thousands of dollars. I always hesitate when I spend a lot of money. I need his promotion and decision. The thought of Canon's full-color camera tickles my heart, but the thought of the high price immediately made me feel dejected and gave up the idea of buying it. One day in August, he called and said that he would drive to Xuzhou with his colleague Bin, who knows cameras, and asked me to go with him.

I stopped him and said, "It's too expensive, you're crazy. I'm still distressed that you don't care about tens of thousands of dollars. Let's wait for a while. " He said firmly, "if you want it, I'll buy it for you, sooner or later." It is better to buy it now. " I couldn't beat him and followed the car. I went to Xuzhou with heartache and joy and bought a 5d4 Canon camera.

Back home, holding a heavy camera, my heart is like fifteen buckets to draw water, so anxious. This camera is my salary for one year. I spent all my money. But for my hobby, he is not distressed at all.

He supports almost all my hobbies and actions, and I really want to thank him for that. I have a strong personality and a quick temper, and he has always been very tolerant of me. He told his daughter on the phone that he would not be so tolerant of others except his relatives and lovers. He also told his daughter that he would never do anything wrong to me in his life.

Indeed, over the years, he has always tolerated me and spoiled me. If it is not love, what is it? When I took stock of everything, I finally understood his love for me.

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