My husband spends money uncontrollably and likes to hide private money. What should I do?

A survey report by the All-China Women's Federation showed that 74.3% of married men have private money. The survey shows that as many as 53.40% of men save private money for a sense of security, because with money, they don't have to worry about the embarrassment of not having money. 34.01% of men save private money because they want to have more freedom and do whatever they want with the money in their pockets. A small number of people hope to use the money to surprise their wives or children on a specific day and do some romantic things.

In fact, there is no need to make a fuss about men hiding private money. Who doesn’t hide some private money? The difference is that hiding more and hiding less is different from hiding it for what purpose. So as a wife, how should you correctly deal with your man hiding his private room? In fact, most men do not hide private money to cheat, but it is a male fashion. Don't be surprised, why has it become fashionable for men to hide their private money? That's it, sometimes a man is just a child. If others have private money and he doesn't, then he is out of date, so wives don't need to make a fuss about men having private money. The majority of men hiding their private money is entirely caused by us women. Every month's salary is paid in full, and every time I go out, I am embarrassed to touch my pocket for fear of taking out a roll of toilet paper. Of course, the wife does this entirely for the maintenance of the family, and the husband must understand the wife's hard work, but the wife must also put a ticket in her husband's pocket appropriately, even if it is just to show off her face.

And there is no restraint on spending money. First, clarify the definition of spending money indiscriminately. First, if the money is spent, will it bring benefits in the future, or is it a pure squandering? If you are already financially free, you can still accept it by spending some money to replenish your spiritual world. If Ordinary families need to make a good family financial plan. Whether the money is used where it should be used. If it is worth collecting or improving the family living environment, it should not be considered a waste of money. If it is used to buy something useless, Bringing back the things and putting them together is a waste and takes up space. It has no big effect. If you can't make money, then you can just spend money indiscriminately! If this is the case, you can sit down and negotiate. After all, we are a family and still have living expenses. Keep good records of income and expenses, save unnecessary money, and reduce unnecessary expenses.