What you want to do but can't do is called poetry and distance.

Browsing the overwhelming information on the Internet, will you suddenly clap your thighs and say, "He lives the life I want." I've been in this mood anyway.

There is a saying that "life is not just the present, but also poetry and distance."

Poetry and distance are synonymous with ideal life, which brings together all the people who struggle for life: photographers who travel around the world with cameras, florists who open tea shops, writers who make a living by writing, and big V who advertises for thousands of dollars.

Ordinary people live a mediocre life. Every time I meet such a person, they always sigh, "Hey, he lives the life I want. Just live the life you want. "

They praised them without stint, but they envied them eagerly. They think that those people live an ideal life, live quietly in this world, do what they like, and are probably awakened by their laughter every morning.

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Zhang Ailing once said:

People who are busy with work every day and rush about for their lives will not think of it.

Before becoming a photographer, a photographer should learn a lot about photography, learn aesthetic concepts, wait for the best lighting time by the lake or in the grass, walk a long way with photographic equipment, and transfer to the shooting place by train, plane and subway. Of course, the premise is that you have to spend enough money to buy a good photographic equipment, which is the basis of your photography.

Not all tea shop florists sit in front of the door with a cup of tea and a book, and then pick up the watering can to water the flowers. They also have to consider how to attract customers, attract customers, cope with the above health inspection, and consider the daily profitability.

Before a writer who writes for a living becomes an author, you don't know how many classics he has read and how many famous books he has turned over, so that he can accumulate rich language skills and write movable type.

Big v is easy, right? It's not easy either. The early stage is a bit transparent. When you browse a small video with your mobile phone in the middle of the night, he is scratching his head to attract attention and show off. He tried his best to touch the readers' psychology and write words for them to sing. You don't know how many nights it took him to reach his current attention, and then taking an advertisement casually is enough for your income for one month.

How can you know the hardships unless you experience it yourself? What you see in front of the stage is the bright side, and that side is exactly what they want you to see.

What you can't get is always in turmoil.

Those poems and the distance are exactly what we want. The real things in life, such as daily necessities, the early bus at six o'clock every day, four or five pieces of cakes and vegetables in the street, and tired faces in the cubicle, are called drag.

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I don't know if you still remember 15' s resignation letter from the female psychology teacher, which said, "The world is so big, I want to see it."

This letter, called the most sensational resignation letter in history, instantly detonated the network.

As a result, some people followed suit and resigned.

So I carried a small bag on my back and simple luggage to pursue my ideal life.

Finally, because there was no money, I came back with simple luggage.

The netizen ridiculed: "The first part: The world is so big, I want to see it; Bottom line: the wallet is too small to go anywhere; Horizontal recognition: go to work well. "

I walked around and found that I was back to the original point. A trip didn't dramatically change your life. You are still you, only the money in your wallet is so much less.

Those lucky people have always been lucky and can travel around the world without scruple. Today they will fly there tomorrow, and writing travel notes is full of people's praise and cheers. Even if it fails, there is still an old house at home with a thick deposit as an endorsement.

Those unfortunate people are not so good. They scrimped and saved on air tickets and train tickets. Souvenirs are too expensive to buy. The hotel is not cheap, so we have to find a similar place to live. The worst thing is that there is a little less money in the bank card, and they are still worried about where to go back to find a job.

Some people can say with a clear conscience: if you don't want time, you won't have money, and if you have money, you won't have time.

For those who are middle-aged, married or responsible, these words are just laughing. They know that the baby's milk powder is running out this month, and the family has to give their parents some money. Their wives don't want to buy a dress because it is a little expensive. They look at the glamorous life, then close the page and plunge into the greasy life, and the boss is pushing the task progress again.

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People outside the city want to come in and people in the city want to go out.

People who worry about earning some hard money every day want to save enough money to go out for a good wave, while those who live a romantic life in the eyes of others have to work harder to earn enough money to support their present life.

Discontent keeps us busy with what is in front of us and thinking about the distance.

Always want this and that.

The ancients said that you can't have your cake and eat it. We're going to be bitches and erect archways. It's not that beautiful.

For most people, it is a great thing to live a good life now.

You can get your ideal salary without stealing or robbing for a month, buy what you like regardless of the price, and have money to go to some places you want, just to satisfy your wishes, not the so-called poetry and the temptation from afar. Give your parents a little money every month to show your filial piety, and buy your wife something you like carefully, because it is too expensive. I can stay in a good hotel or homestay for one night. This kind of life can never be seen like this.

As for those feelings, those poems, those distant places, they can also be realized in another way.

I can't afford expensive air tickets, so I take the green leather train and feel the fireworks in the car.

Tickets for scenic spots are too expensive? Then take a walk, look at the places that people don't usually go to, and find that unique beauty. You will find another kind of beauty in life. The quaint hutongs and alleys, the willow trees in front of the door, the children playing, and the kind old people shaking their cattail leaf fans and smiling will all become the scenery in your eyes.

Even a sketch book, a pencil, a copybook and a pen can be your link with poetry and the distance. As long as you are willing, you can live a poetic and close life.

Some people can live a rich life, while others can live a poor life. You have to ask yourself how to live.

As long as you are willing, you can live your own "poetry and distance" in ordinary life.