How do introverts improve their communication skills?

Generally speaking, people who think their eloquence is not good are mostly introverted and taciturn. They listen more and say less. The key is that they dare not say it. Therefore, I think that to practice eloquence, we must first practice the courage to speak. The establishment of personal courage should be based on good self-confidence.

Suggestion:

1。 Get up every day and read the words of success eloquence:

I am the best speaker in the world.

My eloquence is getting better every day.

C I have good communication skills. The more friends I have, the more I have.

D I have incomparable charm and good temperament.

I am free to deal with all kinds of people.

(Read every sentence 10 times) Enter the subconscious!

2。 Talk to three different people every day.

3。 Read some colloquial articles every day and read them out loud, preferably until your mouth is numb.

The most important thing is: insist! Hold on! Hold on!

How to introduce yourself in life and social situations

Self-introduction has been bothering many people. Many people are afraid to introduce themselves, feeling that they don't know what they are introducing, and what else can they say except their names. In fact, self-introduction plays a very important role in our life. Good self-introduction can leave a deep impression on others and play a very good role in accumulating contacts or working life. Many students often ask me how to design my self-introduction. Today, I will sort out my thoughts and write a few simple points for analysis, hoping to help everyone.

Self-introduction is divided into different occasions and different environments. Usually, it is necessary to prepare for the self-introduction needed in different occasions, and it is necessary to spend some time preparing carefully. Generally, your self-introduction can be used for at least a few years, and you will use it when you need it, so you don't have to worry about not knowing how to introduce it.

Self-introduction in life and social occasions should be concise and clear, usually around 10 second, sometimes accompanied by shaking hands.

Example: Hello! My name is Gong, and I am a writer with both civil and military skills. I won the championship in one fell swoop. I was educated by Sixian (nice to meet you).

This self-introduction is divided into three parts: the first part: name; The second part: a simple explanation of the name (convenient for others to remember); Part III: Where did it come from? As a social occasion, this kind of self-introduction is enough. Sometimes, according to the situation, you can delete the second part and just write your name and where you come from.

How to introduce yourself in public?

Self-introduction in public is different from self-introduction in social life. It can't be as simple as introducing yourself in life. After all, you are standing on a stage. Now that you're on, let everyone know more about you, and you should seize the opportunity to promote yourself.

Self-promotion is actually a very important thing, just like Ma Yun will talk about his Alibaba wherever he goes, Niu Gensheng will talk about his Mengniu wherever he goes, and Yu will talk about his New Oriental wherever he goes. We should learn to constantly promote ourselves, let more people know about you and leave a deep impression on you.

Dear friends, good afternoon! My name is Zhang Wenkui. I am a writer with both civil and military skills. I was educated by Sixian. I'm glad to meet so many excellent friends here today. I wish all of you here a happy family and a more successful career. Since you met Wen Kui, you are both civil and military! Thank you (time: about 30 seconds)

The most important thing to introduce yourself is to let others remember your name. I have seen many people say a lot when they introduce themselves on stage. He will step down when he finishes speaking. The people in the audience were anxious and asked, "Friend, you haven't told me your name yet!" " Don't talk too much about hobbies in just 30 seconds in front of the public (if the time is three minutes, you can talk about hobbies). You have only one purpose for 30 seconds, that is, to make others remember your name.

In the above example, I mentioned my name four times in just 30 seconds. These four times, I only expressed one meaning: Please remember, my name is Zhang Wenkui!

How to introduce yourself in a job interview

It usually takes three minutes to introduce yourself in a job interview. This self-introduction is to let the examiner know you better, so in these three minutes, he will try to convey more information.

For example:

Hello! My name is Zhang Wenkui, and I graduated from Wuhan Huazhong University of Science and Technology in 2005. Since 2005, I have been working as a lecturer in the course of speech eloquence in Sixian Education. Large-scale public lecture and two-day and one-night public lecture training class are my main tasks.

During my college years, I began to systematically study the valuable experiences of Carnegie, anthony robbins, a master of world potential, Chen Anzhi, a successful authority in Asia, joe girard, the god of marketing, Ceng Shiqiang, a management expert in China and other successful people.

In 2006, he went to Shanghai to study speech and eloquence, and was guided by many successful people, such as Mr. Lin, the general representative of China, the international training institution, Zhang Bin, the first president of China wedding photography industry, and one of the eight Asian lecturers.

In 2007, invited by a famous training company in Wuhan, as a special lecturer of the company, he gave lectures and eloquence training for college students, and the students were all over Wuhan.

Then I went to Beijing to study charismatic eloquence and public speaking systematically, and discussed with many famous speakers in Beijing how to improve their eloquence and public speaking ability. After returning to Hangzhou, I formed a unique public speaking training system according to my own characteristics.

So far, he has given hundreds of lecture tours in colleges and universities all over the country, which has inspired many college students to exercise and improve their eloquence, and also helped many college students build up their confidence in public speaking.

I am good at public speaking and public speaking training, and I hope I can do my bit for your company. Thank you.

Job interview is generally divided into the following parts: name, where you graduated, what position you have held, which one you have been in charge of, what kind of experience you have and what you are good at.

When we finished these six parts, we actually had a basic understanding of you. Of course, these six paragraphs of self-introduction are just a better way for me. If you have other better ways, you can do it. Please give me more advice.

To practice eloquence, you must first practice listening.

Many people think that a talking population is good, which is incorrect. For example, a bitch scolds the street She can scold and talk in the street for a day, but if she really comes in handy and gives her a scene, she may not be able to say it. People with good eloquence don't talk much, just be incisive. If you can speak incisively, you must first listen well. Only by listening well can you speak well.

When listening, you should especially listen to the implication of others and listen to what others say.

Many people will say I know, but I really don't know how to listen. Can't understand the implication of others. Here, I'll give you some advice.

First, listen attentively. Don't be absent-minded when communicating with others, improve your attention and understand what others say.

Second, think positively. After listening, you should think about why others say so, why he says so, what he wants to express, and so on. You may not think of it at first, but as long as you keep it in mind, after a while, you will gradually understand the implication of others, and then go to the heart to understand and summarize. If you encounter such a situation next time, others are likely to be expressing something, gradually, yours.

Third, communicate with thoughtful people. People who are good at thinking often have a lot of aftertaste in what they say. From these memorable places, you can understand the meaning and learn how to express your thoughts skillfully.

The introduction of this issue is relatively basic, and the next issue will explain how to express yourself better and let yourself communicate well on any occasion.