Has anyone of the opposite sex ever invited you to travel together? Come share your story?

Thank you! All young and beautiful girls should have been invited by boys who admire them, right? Whether it is "intentional evil" or "worse than animals", I'm afraid everyone has their own different story. Naturally, there are many cool girls who love traveling.

Some people say that travel is the touchstone of love, which is indeed very reasonable.

Kool girls now often have netizens leave messages about traveling together. Many of them are of the opposite sex, which is a normal phenomenon.

When it comes to traveling with the opposite sex, it was back when the cool girls were older and leftover women many years ago. Now of course, they often travel with the opposite sex, not their own husbands.

I clearly remember when I was single, the first time I drove to Ulan Butong Grassland with a handsome guy, and the other time I went to the Baishi Mountain Glass Plank Road.

In the Ulan Butong Grassland, ride horses and gallop with handsome guys, take photos on the carpet-like grassland, run hand in hand on the grassland full of wolfberry flowers, stroll slowly and chat, and sit on the top of the mountain together Watch the sunrise and sunset, take pictures of the silhouette in the dusk, and take pictures of the sun that looks like an egg yolk pinched with your hands.

What a feeling, don’t be too beautiful!

At night, the cool girl had a tent by herself, but in the dead of night, when everyone was quiet, there were footsteps outside the tent, and I didn’t know if they were some handsome guy.

Another time I went to Baishi Mountain. It was already past three in the afternoon when I arrived at the entrance of the scenic spot, so I had to stay first and climb the mountain the next day. It was eight or nine o'clock in the evening. I guess the handsome guy wanted to tell a story and invited me to have a midnight snack together. Ku Meier politely refused and hid in bed alone having fun.

Travel with the opposite sex. If you are not a friend, don’t do this kind of thing. If you are talking about friends, you can really see a person's character after a few days of travel.

His way of doing things and how he conducts himself in the world can be reflected in many aspects, such as values, social outlook, and outlook on life.

This is really different from walking in the park. If you talk about it in detail, you can talk a lot eloquently. If you want to tell a story, it's natural, but as a girl, it's better to respect yourself and love yourself.

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When I was in college, a female classmate asked me to go mountain climbing. Because I had never been in a relationship before and had no experience, I refused several times, and asked me again the third time. , I was really embarrassed to refuse, so I asked who else, and she said she also had her best friend. I thought it wouldn’t be embarrassing for three of us to go, so I agreed. But when we went, she said her best friend had something to do and couldn’t come, so I had no choice but to go there. When I reached the top of the mountain, I was sitting and looking at the scenery. She suddenly asked me if I had kissed me. I blushed and my neck was thick. I said no, and she suddenly came over and snatched my first kiss away from me. At that time, I kissed her. No way, I just got kissed by someone, and then I held their hand until it was almost dark. I said, let’s go down the mountain, otherwise we won’t be able to enter the school, so I slowly walked to the school gate like that. , when it got dark, she went back to her dormitory and I went back to the place where I lived, the house I shared with others outside. One day it rained and it was nice. The guy I shared a room with didn't come because he had something to do. The female classmate was also very kind to me to talk to me about topics. Later I found out that she was better at studying than me. When it got dark, she didn't mean to leave, so I went out to buy something. I ordered food and it was gone that night on New Year's Eve. From then on, I had a different view of women and fell in love with what everyone calls young women.

In most of my life, I have had several experiences of friends of the opposite sex inviting me to travel, but the most unforgettable one was when Amei, a fellow villager, invited me to travel to Sichuan. Second-rate. That was more than twenty years ago.

By some twist of fate, I, who had never even touched a girl’s hand, ended up sleeping in the same bed with two beautiful girls during this trip...

I remember that winter was very cold. It was the winter vacation of my sophomore year. As soon as I returned home, Amei invited me to go hiking in Mount Emei, Sichuan. I was not very willing to go. My family was too poor at the time, and it was such a long journey. , it would cost a lot of money, but after her repeated urging, she agreed to go with her. On the day she left, she even took her best friend Xiaoyue with her. You know, if she took Xiaoyue there, I would not go even to death, because she confessed her love to me when she came home from Shenzhen for the New Year the year before, but I rejected her outright.

The three of us took the train for a day and then transferred to the bus before arriving in Emeishan City. We stayed in a very small hotel for 30 yuan a night. We booked two rooms. 60 yuan. We also agreed with the hotel owner that we would come back and sleep in these two rooms the next night.

After a good night's sleep, the three of us headed towards the Emeishan Scenic Area in high spirits, chatting and laughing along the way, and climbed to the Golden Summit of Mount Emei. The weather was quite good that morning, with clear skies, but when we reached the top of the mountain, it started to snow lightly. This resulted in that it was already after six o'clock when we went down the mountain and left the scenic spot, and there were no cars back to the county seat. Fortunately, there were some rental tricycles nearby, so we spent ten yuan and took a tricycle back to the county town.

When I returned to the county town, there were still small snowflakes floating in the sky. It was very cold. Because it was too cold in the mountains, I put on the cotton-padded clothes for Mei. I only wore a sweater and was freezing all the way. I shivered.

When I arrived at the inn after eight o'clock, I found out that the house where Amei and the others slept yesterday was leaking upstairs and everything in the house was soaked. The only thing left in the inn was the one I slept in yesterday. house. The boss apologized and said that you can sleep in that room tonight, and I will give it to you for free. I want Amei and the others to live here, and I will find a hotel to stay outside.

Amei said: "You can make a bunk on the ground, and we will live here."

Thinking that I can save 60 yuan a night, I agreed. . Unexpectedly, because it was freezing during the day, I developed a fever in the middle of the night. One moment it was burning hot, and the next moment I felt cold all over. It was impossible to go out to look for a house now, so Amei dragged me from the floor to the bed. She slept in the middle, Xiaoyue and I slept on both sides of her.

That night, I didn't close my eyes all night. In addition to feeling uncomfortable, I was also a little excited. In the middle of the night, Amei gently held my hand.

I swear, I did nothing but hold hands.

Of course, all the money for this trip was paid for by Amei. One of my classmates once described Amei’s beauty like this: “She has a face like a peach blossom and a heart like a magnolia.” I basically agree.

Two years later, when I graduated from college, Amei and I received our marriage certificate. Who asked me to hold her hand?

Since then, no friend of the opposite sex has invited me to travel.

When I was in college, I was the class monitor and had a very close relationship with the league secretary. She was a tomboy. At that time, I felt from the bottom of my heart that she was a boy and had no other ideas. One time she was in a bad mood and asked me to go hiking. I lifted my butt and followed her without saying a word. After riding for more than four hours, we climbed at night. When we reached the top of the mountain, we rented a military coat and found a I slept on my stomach in the restaurant without thinking about staying in a hotel. I really had no idea at the time. Went back after watching the sunrise in the morning.

After graduation, she found her boyfriend and opened a hotel in a scenic spot in Inner Mongolia. The two of them were travel companions. The next time I heard the news from her was that two people were driving in Tibet and encountered a mudslide, and both of them were dead. I have been confused for a long time, and I still dream about her often. I will leave messages on her space and send her QQ messages. I hope she can know and tell me a dream, and she will burst into tears unknowingly when she thinks of it.

Regarding the issue of being invited by the opposite sex to travel together, I suddenly remembered a strange trip I took when I was in college

I was a sophomore in college at that time, and it happened to be Qingming Festival. I bought a ticket to go home and was worried about where to go during my four-day vacation. At this time, a female classmate from the Foreign Languages ??Department asked me to accompany her on the trip. I was very confused at the time. Firstly, I didn’t know if she had a partner; It would be a bit awkward to go out alone. Before I could answer her, she called me and asked me to go to the train station.

It was awkward as soon as I arrived at the train station. Besides her, I saw another boy. It was indeed her boyfriend. This made me so embarrassed that I wanted to leave immediately, but I couldn't run away like this, so I had to stay and make a maximum watt light bulb. This time we went to Fenghuang Ancient City.

As soon as we arrived in Jishou, we chartered a private car, and there was a couple in the car with us. Now I was the most embarrassed. I was the only single person in the clan. Hey, I couldn’t help it! Going to the border town was quite fun at first. Of course, I just followed them to take photos for them and enjoy the beautiful scenery! Everything is still OK. I didn't expect that there would be an incident. We went to a temple to worship, and her boyfriend was cheated out of 100 yuan. Now the two of them started to quarrel. I didn't know how to deal with it. They kept in a cold war. I went to persuade her not to be angry. After all, we go out to play for fun, so it is inevitable that she will be cheated! After many attempts on my part, they finally got better again. I have become a peacemaker! I really admire myself.

When it came time to stay for the night, due to financial issues, they suggested staying in a double room, which made me feel ashamed. Sharing a room with the two of them, but no matter how much I struggled, it wouldn't change anything. I can only sleep in the same room with them. That was really a sleepless night! This night is indescribable, but I think it will be fine after tonight.

On the second day of the trip, I followed them all the way, it was pretty smooth! I thought the trip would end quietly like this, but maybe I was overthinking it! When it was time to go back, they quarreled again over some trivial matter! I can't control it now. The three of us awkwardly returned to study along the way! The first time I was invited by the opposite sex to travel, this was the result. Don’t you think it’s weird?

Compared to my opposite sex, I am a woman. There are quite a few women who invited me to travel together. Today I will share the most unforgettable one.

For me, I can go anywhere. If it is for her to consume, then go to Australia, North America, Europe, and Africa. If it is for me to consume, I can just find any country in Southeast Asia, haha.

However, this beauty is also very decent and paid all the expenses for the trip. In the end, we chose to go to Africa to see giraffes. We flew from China to Ethiopia and then transferred to Kenya. It took almost 17 hours. I was not lonely during the flight. We talked about life and everything. Live each other's dreams...

During the 15 days in Africa, time flew by quickly. We saw many savannah safari parks together, watched the dance performances of the indigenous people, watched the sunrise and sunset together, and Savor African red wine and live the color of life.

Every little touch is like giving me a charming smile inadvertently, wiping my sweat during a hot safari, peeling a banana for me to eat after dinner.

The reason why this trip was unforgettable was not only that I was shocked by the wildness of the African savannah, but more importantly, that I had an interesting soul accompanying me all the way.

The opposite sex invites you to travel together. Thinking about it, you will never forget it in this life. Seeing the beautiful scenery of nature during the journey makes people relaxed and happy. They are a couple in love, full of longing for their future life! You must know that when you are in love, there are endless topics to talk about. You can talk about everything and everything. It feels like time is too fast and there is not enough time. I wish that time would go as slow as possible and enjoy the good time! I am really very happy, love gives people warmth and sweet feeling, and endless aftertaste and eternal memories!

It was many years ago that someone of the opposite sex invited me to travel together.

The opposite sex is my husband’s younger brother, that is, my brother-in-law. He is the third eldest child and is nicknamed “Monkey Three”. During the summer vacation of that year, Hou San said he would go on a self-driving trip to Tibet. His family of three invited me to go with him. Since my husband had other things to do, I gladly accepted.

The scenery along the way is endless, so I won’t describe it here. I will just talk about the episode of accommodation.

My brother-in-law’s son was eleven years old and was obsessed with playing games. We all cheered when we arrived at the scenic spot. He did not get out of the car, he just held his tablet and indulged in the games. The brother-in-law was very angry, pulled his son out of the car and kicked him. Now it's good, that night, the son will not sleep in the same room with his father, but his mother. This is hard to do! Along the way, his father and I shared a room, and we, my sisters-in-law, shared a standard room.

Accommodation conditions in Tibet are limited, and it is summer vacation. There are no spare rooms in the hotel. After another day of chaos, everyone wants to lie down in bed immediately. What should we do? Our "Monkey Three" had an idea and said to my sister-in-law that we should make do with each other tonight and let her and her mother sleep in the same room.

Although we are a family, it is still not natural for men and women to be different. After hastily washing up, I said good night to my brother-in-law! "Monkey Three" said jokingly, sister-in-law, you can sleep peacefully! I won't be rude! I also smiled and said, "Don't be so talkative. I've been driving for a day. I'm so tired. Let's take a rest!"

The next day, my brother-in-law tried his best to flatter his son, but the boy just didn't buy it. As a result, my brother-in-law and I stayed in a standard room for the next few days.

Many years later, when my brother-in-law talked about the relationship between uncle and sister-in-law, he even boasted that the relationship between my sister-in-law and I was not so good. We lived together for several days! My younger siblings also added, "That's not ordinary. We live in the same room right under my nose." It made the whole family laugh!

Please share my travel story!

Tell me about what happened to me last year.

Because I am a person who loves to travel, I have traveled almost all over China in the past few years, so I can be considered a travel expert.

So in May, a female classmate from high school whom I seldom contacted found me and said that she wanted to ask me out to play, but she would not arrange it because she was not safe.

I’m used to traveling alone, and having a girl with me would make the trip less monotonous, so I agreed. We decided to go to Chengyang Bazhai in Liuzhou to experience the style of the ethnic minorities.

Then I started planning ahead. However, since men and women are different and her preferences must be taken into consideration, many problems arise.

1. Accommodation.

Girls are different from boys in that they are more particular about where they live. I asked her what her requirements were for a place to live, and she said whatever she wanted. Then I looked for a lot of homes to show her. Either the location was not good, or the soundproofing was not good. There was always a reason. Then I searched for a long time before I found a double room that suited her. PS: I just realized that girls are so casual and want you to choose the one that meets her requirements, which is hard to do.

2. Transportation.

When we met, she brought a big suitcase, a schoolbag on her back, and a bag in her hand. I was shocked. We only went there for five days, and it felt like we were all at home. Brought it. I asked her, "Aren't you tired?" She said: I have you. I have a black question mark on my face. So when you go to play and arrange transportation, you have to take a taxi. Don’t even think about taking the bus. When taking trains and high-speed rails, you become a hard worker. She always has nothing in her hands, so she is responsible for taking pictures. PS: Who knows the suffering of men?

3. Rest time.

Boys generally don’t go to bed that early, but girls are different. They almost go to bed after taking a shower and doing skin care. I remember that when I went to bed at night, I was playing games. After she applied the facial mask, she asked me not to disturb her because she was going to sleep. But it's only eleven o'clock, and I usually sleep after one o'clock.

I muted the sound, but there was inevitably a slight sound, so she muttered that I was a light sleeper and couldn't make any noise. I can only read the news. PS: This also has benefits, it can encourage you to rest early and not hurt your body.

4. Schedule.

I prefer cultural and historical sites, but she prefers literary and artistic ones, which is difficult to arrange. Then when arranging the itinerary, I can only include both types and try to balance the attractions as much as possible. Then, when she saw my arrangement, she said there was something interesting about the ancient ruins and I wanted to take pictures. Then I reduced the number of monuments and increased the number of cultural and artistic attractions to accommodate her. PS: This part of my trip was completely spent playing with her, which was helpless.

But apart from these problems, we still had a lot of fun. After all, we are old classmates, and there are many topics to talk about when traveling together.

Let’s talk about our itinerary.

Since we had six days off, we decided to go to Chengyang Bazhai first and then to Jiabang Rice Terraces.

Chengyang Bazhai

In Sanjiang Dong Autonomous County, Liuzhou City, this place has not been over-developed and is a place with few people and beautiful scenery. When I first arrived, I was deeply attracted by the ethnic customs here. It was also her first time to come to such a place, and she seemed very excited. She patted here and there, and even pulled me to take a group photo. The ethnic customs here are very strong. There are Dong performances in the evening, which is very lively. There is also a hundred family banquets. Tourists can eat their ethnic dishes for a fee, which is a great experience.

Jiabang Rice Terraces

We took a rural bus and traveled through the mountains for two hours to arrive at this place with few people and beautiful scenery. The terrain here is very high, and there is a small village that has not been developed at all. The places to stay are all B&Bs, and the places to eat are also owned by locals. We went deep into the village to explore. The houses here are very old and have many years of history. We met local residents on the road and talked to us. They were very friendly and we had a great time. From time to time, you can meet professional photographers squatting at a certain point, just waiting for that different beam of sunlight to shine. We also learned a little about photography and gained a lot from it.

After she came back, she also invited me to travel together, but I no longer agreed to it. I felt that I did not have the freedom and comfort of traveling by myself. Unless I am traveling with my girlfriend, I will never travel with another girl again.