Uncle Mao photography class

Herminia Hibarra, the author of Career Change, received her doctorate in psychology from Yale University on 1989. Before joining Insead Business School in France as a professor of organizational behavior in 2002, she taught 13 years at Harvard Business School. Isabella is a world-famous psychologist. She has published many academic papers in Harvard Business Review and Social Psychology Quarterly, and was selected as one of the 50 most important management thinkers in 2 1 century by Harvard Business Review. Her transformation strategy tells us that everyone can break through the original boundaries of life through diversified attempts, making our life even more unbreakable.

The research of Stanford University psychologist hazel Markus puts forward a new concept: "possible self". What is a possible self? It is your hope, expectation and fear for yourself. Buddhism has three poisons: greed, anger and delusion. There are three ways for Confucian gentlemen: the benevolent does not worry, the wise does not doubt, and the brave does not fear. In western psychology, according to Marcus' definition, the possible selves are three selves: hope me, expect me and fear me.

Hope me: the self I hope to realize.

Expect me: the self I expect to realize.

Afraid of me: Afraid of who I am or who I am.

I am made up of many egos. These egos are determined not only by your past, but also by your current environment and your hopes and fears for the future. "True self" is rooted in the past; "Possible self" is based on the present and the future. Part of the "possible self" is what you are doing now, which is decided by the company where we are now; Other "possible selves" are still vague and only exist in your personal dreams. People know "possible self" through practice rather than "introspection". Let's see how people around us realize their possible selves through practice.

For example, we are familiar with Ye Bo, from diaosi to international liberals, and then to young people in put in order. 20 1 1 At the beginning of the year, he took a deposit of100000, bid farewell to his job with beautiful income, and devoted himself to leaving a blank for his career in these years. He also concentrates on his hobbies. He didn't expect his new hobby to become something that would make him money, and writing would make money. He published a bestseller and opened a column in a fashion magazine. Photography can make him make money, and his works appear in professional magazines, and there are many. These skills were not available to him before he left his job. In the past few years, he didn't have time to appreciate them every day, but he kept practicing and deliberately practiced in his favorite field. In addition to these money-making skills, he is still doing another job, a job that can make money anytime and anywhere. He globalized his office and life, which is the so-called international free family.

Another example is Peng Xiaoliu, from intern to IT department manager of listed company. He spent his spare time reading and writing, and later became a contracted author and lecturer, and published his own book. Now he earns hundreds of thousands of dollars a month. Uncle Cat, whom we are most familiar with, is also a living example, but I think he is the kind of person who runs fast in small steps and attacks quickly, which is inseparable from his actions.

The people who are most familiar with us are often the people who are most opposed to us, so we should constantly expand our social circle, jump out of our comfort zone and learn from people who are more professional in unknown fields. We all like reading and writing. We came to the jujube group. I love investing and managing money. I joined many investment and financial groups. Ye Bo loves photography. He spent 9000 yuan on a three-day photography training class. Mao Shu's three ways to get an interview opportunity are: 1. Enter some circles and communities, 2. Paid consultation. How can we grow better in the new social circle? Describe yourself.

Uncle cat's knowledge is a system, and his every action is meaningful. When we started to join the small kitchen group, we asked everyone to introduce themselves. Every day's topics and feelings are opportunities for mutual understanding and learning. We should seize this opportunity, take the initiative in other social circles, and let more people know who they used to be, who they are now, and who they may become in the future.

Each of us can create more possibilities for our future through our efforts. May we all meet the unknown ourselves.