What do you think about the phenomenon of "collaboration"?

Recently, #达子 has become a new type of social relationship topic and has been on Weibo hot searches. "Meal partners", "travel partners", "concert partners", "game partners", "sports partners" and "photography partners", all kinds of " date" relationships have come into people's field of vision and are becoming more and more popular in the world. Increasingly popular among young people.

What is a "tie"? The Internet explains it as "a relationship in which people regularly engage in activities together. Friendships like partnering are ubiquitous in life. After all, everything can be partnered with. From the perspective of the post-00s generation, "partnering" is , if you are unable or unwilling to do something alone, find a stranger to do it with you as a "partner". After the cooperation is over, you can go back to your own life and partner up again next time for something.

Some people also say. , "Tiezi" is a kind of "fast-food friendship" with low nutritional value, reflecting the potential "degradation" of modern people's emotional abilities. Although this concern is consistent with Xiang Biao's judgment that "modern people pursue instant gratification", it is not. Not necessarily.

Perhaps, "Taizi" is a brave attempt by young people to find the "nearby", to extend their tentacles to explore social relationships suitable for this generation, and to perceive life in another way. Beautiful, isn’t this a kind of social progress?

The picture was copied by a friend, so I looked for a “travel partner” on the Internet

Yanyan｜28-year-old company employee

Because I found a high-quality "travel package" online, I had a high-quality, cost-effective travel experience.

I submitted my resignation application before the Spring Festival. I just took my annual leave and took a relaxing trip before joining a new company. I originally made an appointment with a friend to go to Dali, but the day after I bought the ticket, my friend passed me up.

< p>Considering that refunds and money would be deducted, I decided to go to Dali as originally planned. But after thinking that it would be boring and expensive to go alone, and I couldn’t even order more dishes for a meal, I started posting on a social platform. Looking for a “travel partner”

“I’m looking for a travel partner in Dali. I was born in 1994 as a girl from Guangdong. I don’t care about hygiene. I don’t want to go to internet celebrity check-in spots. I want to relax and enjoy the natural beauty. We can share accommodation together. meal. "In the post, I posted my basic information, travel rhythm and air ticket itinerary. There were nearly 30 comments on the day the post was posted, and many people sent me private messages. After simple screening, I added 4 or 5 of them. WeChat.

Picture/Yanyan posted on a small social platform to collect travel ideas, source/photo courtesy of Yanyan

Our trip was very enjoyable. We went to three places, so she was responsible for accommodation and transportation. I planned the specific itinerary for the day based on the location of the accommodation. We discussed it with each other and tried to choose attractions that both of us were interested in. If we couldn’t agree, we would go separate ways and go back in the evening. We went to the B&B to discuss the arrangements for the next day.

Fortunately, our travel rhythms and consumption concepts are relatively similar, and the week-long trip was easy and comfortable. Soon it was time to say goodbye. After a week of getting along, we have become friends from a "hook-up" relationship. AA's bills are not settled until we return after the trip.

We spent a week in Dali, including round-trip air tickets and accommodation. , transportation and meals, I actually spent less than 3,000 yuan, and we all thought it was a great travel experience.

Looking for the picture, I found it by mistake. "Activity Group"

Fang Fei｜25-year-old student

"It is so difficult to find a friend who can match the schedule and is interested in activities! "While lamenting loudly in my heart, I posted "Looking for a date at the Whole Foods Exhibition" with one click on the Internet.

At this time, I thought that I had seen various "" posts by many people on the Internet. "Looking for a match" post, I decided to "give it a try", "What if I find a 'show match'?" ”

After writing the exhibition time and plan on the social platform and posting it, I put my phone aside. Unexpectedly, when I came back from lunch, there were already ten people under the post. With a few likes and nearly 10 comments, many people sent invitations to watch the exhibition together in the comment area, and I couldn’t even reply.

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Picture/Post to find the source of zhanzizi/provided by Fangfei

I didn’t expect that I could really find “tiezi” by posting online, and the number of “tiezi” quickly “shocked” me. In less than half a day, there were already 5 or 6 friends who matched my schedule. In the end, in order to facilitate contact, I had to temporarily set up a "exhibition-watching contact group"

And I. The "Exhibition Visiting Contact Group" was established by accident. After the exhibition, friends continued to share various exhibition information. Now, we are planning to be a long-term partner and have already made an appointment for the next exhibition. .

Picture: A chance encounter with a “rice partner” actually saved me from being homeless in Guangzhou

Xiao Ran｜27-year-old fitness coach

In March this year, by chance I was on a business trip to Guangzhou. At 5pm, I was still standing at the door of a long-established Cantonese morning tea shop that was crowded with people. I heard that a number 30 digits away had been called, and looked at the number in my hand. I felt nothing but anxious. Nothing else.

While stamping my feet, thinking that it would take at least another hour, I was so greedy that I was drooling over the dazzling array of dishes on the menu. I was lamenting in my heart, "One person can't taste several Cantonese dishes." "Snack", my eyes glanced at the young lady behind me who was obviously alone. After hesitating for a moment, I blurted out, "How about we share a table together?"

At this time, a waiter happened to shout loudly in Cantonese at the front desk, "There is an empty space on the terrace in the smoking area." Does anyone want to sit at the big table?" The young lady and I looked at each other and nodded repeatedly. After a while, we were lucky enough to avoid the "long queue" and have a large terrace table that cannot be arranged for single dining.

As soon as we sat down, the two of us stumbled and imitated the "Lao Guang" at the back table, making cups and bowls of tea. And thanks to my partner, I can also “try” the Cantonese tea snacks I’ve longed for.

In the end, the two of us exchanged "Guangzhou experiences" while searching for popular dishes on the food sharing platform, and ordered 7, including shrimp dumplings, Danish barbecued pork buns, siu mai, fish maw milk, etc. 8 kinds of delicacies filled the table. Thinking that if I ordered food alone, I might only be able to order 2 or 3 items, I felt even more that I was so lucky to meet a "food partner" in Guangzhou!

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Pictures/source of morning tea in Guangzhou with table sharing/provided by Xiaoran

Pictures: I met a "tour guide" at the airport and took me around New York

< p>Chu Chu | 27-year-old freelancer

Two years ago, when I was in college in California, due to the impact of the epidemic, it was inconvenient to return to China during the holidays, so I planned to go to New York for vacation from California.

In the departure lounge from California to New York, the girl sitting opposite me was on the phone in Cantonese. After she hung up the phone, I mustered up the courage to ask, "Hello, who are you?" Chinese?”

After a brief introduction, I learned her name, Salina.

Although Salina has only been in New York for a few months, she is a very smart "human map", which perfectly complements me, a wanderlust. "The north and south of New York are called avenues, and the east and west are called streets, and most of them are named with numbers, so if we get separated, you only need to remember which street our agreed place is, and you can find us. No need to Scared. "Salina told me when she was accidentally separated during the trip.

Unexpectedly, this experience really came in handy.

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Picture/Source of Brooklyn Bridge, New York/Photo provided by Chu Chu

Life is like a journey. Occasionally, you will meet some unexpectedly suitable people and travel together. , even if we go our separate ways in the future, I still feel very comfortable every time I think about it.