How terrible is Phoenix Man? Zhang Yimou, unwilling to live for others, turned the life of people in Xiaohua into a tragedy.

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However, behind these glamorous, his name is also decorated with some words that will never disappear: Phoenix Man, Cheating, Gong Li, Super Life. ...

Thanks to the ancient and profound filter, his criticized emotional experience has not been bombarded as "love rat" shouted by everyone.

He is Xiao Hua's ex-husband, Chen Ting's present, and Gong Li's true love, Zhang Yimou, who will be with him as a mistress.

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Zhang Yimou, 1950, is from Shi Tian Town, Lintong County, Shaanxi Province. His grandfather was a famous local rich man, high flyers of old yenching university, and his father was a Kuomintang quartermaster. His two uncles are students of Huangpu Military Academy in Phase 9 and Phase 15 respectively.

These identities are superimposed. For a long time, the composition of the whole family was spurned by people around, and they were all called capitalist roaders.

Zhang Yimou didn't even have a playmate when he was a child.

"I actually grew up watching under the door, and my psychology and personality were suppressed and distorted from an early age."

It is also because he knows that it is not easy to get ahead as himself. As a Phoenix man without any advantages, he can only devote all his time and energy to his study before he meets a simple "white and rich beauty" for his use, waiting for that "silly and sweet" who has excellent academic performance and a slightly melancholy temperament but can change his fate.

Until 1965, when Zhang Yimou was a sophomore, a girl named Xiao Hua suddenly came from Beijing.

After Zhang Yimou's observation and understanding, this girl named Xiao Hua was born in a wealthy family in Beijing. Her parents are both college students. She graduated from North China People's Revolutionary University and participated in the liberation of Chengdu and Chongqing.

After changing jobs, Xiaohua's parents went to Xi 'an to settle down. At the urging of their parents, Xiaohua didn't live in Beijing with her grandmother until this year.

Xiaohua is cheerful and lively. At first glance, it is a girl raised by rich people. Compared with Zhang Yimou, who is dark and thin and has been unpopular in the class because of composition problems, it is a far cry from it.

In fact, until Zhang Yimou graduated from university, his position and that of Xiao Hua were so far apart. After all, he is a poor boy who wants nothing. The reason why he can "eat hard" all the way is "the art of language".

Although Zhang Yimou is unknown in his class, his success lies in his excellent academic performance and his talent for painting, which attracted Xiao Hua's attention. In the long run, the two became friends who talked about everything, and different feelings gradually emerged in his heart.

1In the autumn of 968, Zhang Yimou, who graduated from high school, caught up with the wave of "going to the countryside". With his family background, he will definitely transform her. As for Xiaohua, a deep-rooted seedling, her parents intend to send her back to her grandmother's house.

When he learned that he was assigned to work in Ganxian County, Shaanxi Province, Zhang Yimou decided to try again.

He wrote a letter to Xiao Hua with gorgeous rhetoric and sincere attitude, which revealed his inferiority complex and years of pain, deeply aroused the love of this simple girl, especially the sentence "How I wish I could get your understanding and friendship, I believe I will make a difference in the future, and I hope you can share the joy of success with me one day in the future!" It hit Xiaohua's heart and completely touched the seeds of love in this girl's heart.

Being carried away by love and self-emotion, Xiao Hua gave up the plan of living a happy life in Beijing, and immediately decided to go to the county town to work in the countryside with Zhang Yimou to receive re-education from poor middle peasants.

To say that Mr. Zhang's methods are out of date now. It is estimated that I chose writing at that time because I was not sure about Xiao Hua's attitude. The best result is that we can go to the countryside with him, and we can write and communicate next time. As long as he keeps in touch, with the literary attainments of "Buddhism", he can also have a vigorous paper romance.

Clearly know that the future is uncertain, clearly know that the future will be very difficult, but also express heartfelt love, it is best to move the beloved girl to the unknown road with him, what a terrible routine.

Faced with her daughter's decision, Xiao Hua's parents naturally strongly opposed it, but no matter how hard their parents tried to persuade them, Xiao Hua insisted on going to the countryside with Zhang Yimou.

As we all know, a woman who is deeply in love will not listen to anyone's advice at all. They are willing to give up everything for love. As long as you can be with the person you love, you can jump into the abyss.

But this girl whose life is too smooth will not understand that a man who grew up in misery, once his career is successful, will definitely be more dangerous than ordinary men.

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Although the life of jumping the queue is extremely hard, it is always "affectionate and full of water." Besides, what are the conditions in Xiaohua's home? If parents are not satisfied with their daughter's decision and what is done is done, they can only try to prepare something for their daughter, at least they can't be wronged.

As for Zhang Yimou, in those three years, he was taken care of by Xiao Hua.

After the task of jumping the queue was completed, the two were assigned to work in different factories. Although the work place is far away, it is only a stone's throw away for people who love each other.

Zhang Yimou's job is to transport cotton, and it's hard to bag every day, so he has no strength to do anything else. Therefore, understanding Xiaohua will take the initiative to see him every time he takes a break. He will never be too far away and will not be too tired. He will also wash his clothes, cook and tidy up his house, which is extremely virtuous.

Because of an accidental opportunity, Zhang Yimou came into contact with the camera, which is a very novel thing. Where can a poor boy like him afford it? Although I have a strong interest in photography, I can only sigh.

At that time, he dreamed of owning a camera of his own. Estimate is too obvious, this dream was captured by Xiao Hua, virtuous "white" where can let beloved boyfriend down?

Naturally, I scrimped and saved tickets, and then entrusted my brother-in-law Wang Dihuan, who works in Beijing and has a wide network of contacts, to make great efforts to buy a camera for Zhang Yimou.

For this gift, Zhang Yimou was naturally moved and said one good word after another. After that, I spent most of my free time studying photography. I took more than a dozen books just taking notes, which is definitely the best use.

When Xiaohua's birthday came, Zhang Yimou specially made an album as a birthday present, which recorded many sweet memories of them together. Xiaohua was also very moved to see such a thoughtful gift.

I give you a camera, and you give me a picture I took of your camera. This wave is not only a loss, but also a loss.

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If all the above can be disguised in the name of love, then Zhang Yimou's "language art" makes people have to doubt his intentions.

From 65438 to 0975, 24-year-old Xiao Hua was recommended to study in Shanghai Jiaotong University because of his good family composition and excellent personal qualities. You know, in the 1970 s, when work and housing were all allocated, going to a university of workers, peasants and soldiers was also the best opportunity to change his fate.

Xiao Hua has a crush. After all, he is still young. Who is not a good young man with ambition?

But at this time, Zhang Yimou spoke: "When your knowledge grows, the gap between us will become bigger and bigger, and communication will become a problem."

Listen, can this not be "the art of language"? There is a feeling that when you go to college, we will be different and I am not worthy of you. Oh, I'm so sorry. But people just don't say it directly. Even if you regret missing this opportunity in the future, people can say, "I didn't stop you then, but you didn't want to go." Who can blame this? "

After reading Zhang Yimou's sad and wronged words, Xiao Hua naturally gave up this chance to change her destiny, so the IQ of a woman in love is zero.

Finding a partner is not about giving love, and women who have no opinions will not end well in the end.

Xiaohua gave up college, but his parents learned that he was still looking for someone with the poor boy who was carrying cotton. Parents made it clear that they disapproved of it and didn't want their daughter to be with Zhang Yimou.

First of all, the family structure in Zhang Yimou is complicated, which may be a drag in the future. Secondly, Zhang Yimou has no advantage on camera. Daughter can find something better.

Xiao Hua certainly thinks that Zhang Yimou is the best. No matter what the family says, in her mind, they all want to break up their "little people."

In order to persuade her daughter to give up, her parents specially arranged for her to have a blind date with young men who are excellent in all aspects. Two boys have a good impression on Xiaohua, hoping to find a revolutionary friendship with her.

I learned from Zhang Yimou that Phoenix Man has a strong sense of crisis. Xiaohua was the best woman he could come into contact with at that time, and her family also had many contacts in Beijing, so she could not leave Xiaohua anyway (perhaps because of love).

So, this "Buddhist" once again wrote a 40-page love letter to Xiao Hua with his excellent cultural attainments, including thoughts and love.

I don't know if this "white" is buying this set or something. Zhang Yimou wrote to her for the first time, and she was willing to abandon her happy life and go to the countryside to jump the queue with him. The second time Zhang Yimou wrote to her, she actually registered her marriage with him regardless of her parents' opposition.

Although parents are a little angry at Xiaohua's presumptuous opinions, they are their own daughters after all. What can they say if they get married? I just hope that the young couple can live a good life.

1978, with the advent of reform and opening up, after the resumption of the college entrance examination, Beijing Film Academy began to recruit students for the whole country. At this moment, Zhang Yimou knew that his good chance had finally come. He was going to the north to go to college and pursue his photography dream.

I just asked if you were a double.

When Xiaohua wanted to study, she said that going to college would affect their communication. When you know more, the gap between us will get bigger and bigger.

Xiao Hua at this time, aren't you worried that the gap between Zhang Yimou and them will get bigger and bigger after he goes to college?

She doesn't seem to be worried, not only not worried, but also very supportive of Zhang Yimou's photography dream.

How can I put it? Why does Zhang Yimou have such a high level? Because he had a camera, it was so rare in that era when he didn't even have enough to eat. I have never heard of "SLR is poor for three generations, and photography destroys life"

Zhang Yimou, who was rejected, was so depressed that she dreamed of being admitted to the Beijing Film Academy.

Hearing Zhang Yimou's dream, Xiao Hua will naturally stand up like Doraemon.

She directly contacted her brother-in-law Wang Dihuan in Beijing, and it was another operation. His brother-in-law directly handed Zhang Yimou's materials and some photos to Huang Zhen, then Minister of Culture.

On the one hand, Huang Zhen cherishes talents and thinks that learning photography is a good prospect. On the other hand, in order to give Wang Dihuan a little meager sensibilities, he was finally admitted to Zhang Yimou.

After getting what she wanted, Zhang Yimou happily stayed in Beijing to study, while Xiaohua returned to Xi 'an to take care of her parents at home and make money, so that Zhang Yimou could earn tuition and living expenses without worries.

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1982, Zhang Yimou, who graduated from Beijing Film Studio, was assigned to Guangxi Film Studio.

Since then, his life has been completely rewritten.

He said: "Looking back now, if there were no college entrance examination, it is hard to say that there would be everything now."

In other words, if there is no Xiao Hua, Zhang Yimou, who is over 6 years old, how could he get a chance to enter school? Without the camera given by Xiao Hua, how can we accumulate first-class photography experience?

If Xiao Hua ignored Zhang Yimou's going to college and directly took him back to Xi 'an to live a good life, there would be no Gong Li and Chen Ting. Although China will lose a famous director, Xiao Hua may get a perfect marriage.

Not only won the photography award, but also became the leading actor for the first time, so he won the titles of three film emperors together with Lao Jing, the winner of the first A-level international film festival in China film history.

At this time, Zhang Yimou, whether photography or performance, was at his fingertips, but he was not satisfied. Seeing Chen Kaige, he also had the idea of becoming a director himself.

1987, Zhang Yimou's first film "Red Sorghum" came out. With its unique style, it won many domestic and international awards such as Golden Bear Award, Hundred Flowers Award Award and Golden Rooster Award. Not only was he revered at the altar, but his first "looking for a woman", Gong Li, was also a God of World War I, and won the prize for being soft.

Also this year, Zhang Yimou and Xiao Hua's daughter Zhang Mo finally turned 4.

Seeing that her daughter is sensible and her husband's career is becoming more and more successful, Xiaohua, who has been busy for more than ten years, seems to see a happy life and waves to her again, but what happened afterwards has brought her a fatal blow.

At that time, Gong Li was 22 years old and a sophomore in Chinese opera, full of youth and aura.

A smile made the 37-year-old Shaanxi man's weather-beaten and vicissitudes of life completely melt.

After filming Red Sorghum, Zhang Yimou returned to his hometown in Shaanxi. Because she didn't tell her in advance, she suddenly came home and looked at her extremely tired husband. Xiaohua was very worried at the same time, for fear that he was too tired to eat.

One day, Xiaohua washed Zhang Yimou's clothes as usual. While tidying up his pockets, Xiao Huaru, the signaling that fell out of his pockets, was struck by lightning.

"I want to get married, I want to get an answer, and I hope God will give me happiness."

"When we are together, you look so cute in my arms ..."

Gong Li's love words, even after many years, are still fresh in Xiao Hua's memory.

She doesn't understand why her husband, who has supported each other for 20 years, has changed as he said. What are himself and his daughter to him? What is the contribution to him over the years?

In the face of Xiao Hua's questioning, Zhang Yimou deliberately put things very insipid, a pair of the appearance of indifference. While eating noodles, he told Xiaohua:

"I don't want to deceive you about this matter. I have been very busy since I came back. I want to tell you when I'm finished ... "

"There is nothing in Shandong between us. It happened several times after we arrived in Ningxia ... that's it. "

In the face of her husband's guilt-free explanation, Xiaohua's heart seemed to be pressed by a heavy stone. She doesn't understand why he can be so cold. Is this a common problem for artists?

Xiaohua doesn't know much about it, but even though she is full of resentment, Xiaohua is still unwilling to give up her marriage at this time. Even if strange bedfellows exists in name only, she still wants to have this husband and give her a complete home.

Unfortunately, Xiaohua's wish is doomed to fail.

Soon, their love affair was known by Gong Li's then boyfriend Yang Jianxun. Compared with Xiao Hua's forbearance, Yang Jianxun is much more radical. First he hit Gong Li, and then he said he would get back at Zhang Yimou, so that everyone knew.

Even Zhang Yimou, whose scenery is infinite, is still scared to death, because he knows that this kind of thing is simply unreasonable, especially as a director who has just started. At that time, he was enough to be regarded as a typical example of moral corruption, and he would never have a bright future.

During that time, Zhang Yimou almost smoked and struggled for his future. He often said to himself, "I feel that I will get seriously ill sooner or later."

He even said to Xiaohua, "She said she never wanted to go to school again. She wants to give birth to a child for me. "

1989, in order to take shelter for the time being, Zhang Yimou took Gong Li to Hongkong and made the film "The Battle of Ancient and Modern Times and Terracotta Warriors".

During the filming, Zhang Yimou was immobilized by an accident. In order to take care of the injured lover, Gong Li tried to stay with Zhang Yimou for 24 hours, and their feelings became sweeter and sweeter.

At this point, in Zhang Yimou's heart, where there is half a place for Xiao Hua, her eyes are full of her own muse-Gong Li.

1990 when Zhang Yimou got home, the first thing he did was to show his cards to Xiao Hua. He will leave everything he said in this marriage: "My feelings can't come back, I want to be with her. Let others say what they like, whether it is Chen Shimei or a bastard, I am not living for others. "

Xiao Hua, who insisted on not getting divorced, finally chose to let go because of a phone call.

The phone call came from Gong Li's ex-boyfriend Yang Jianxun, who said to Xiao Hua, "I met Zhang Yimou and talked to him. I asked him, I heard that your lover is very good. Do you deserve her? Zhang Yimou said: My marriage with my lover was a misunderstanding when I jumped the queue.

In Zhang Yimou's mind, the good times I once thought were just a misunderstanding.

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In marriage, which is the third party, and which one is not in love?

Gong Li, whose career is in full swing and her appearance is varied, has sharpened her head and wants to marry Zhang Yimou and have children for him, even though she is nicknamed "Little Three";

After suffering for half a lifetime, Zhang Yimou, who gained a place in the film and television circle, would rather be ruined than abandon his wife who has been with him for 20 years and stay with Gong Li, regardless of despair.

While criticizing him as an asshole Chen Shimei, we can't help wondering, what is the reason that will prompt two adults to do such things without moral bottom line? Is it true love?

Then why not leave this ship first and then board another one? Maybe love is too strong and time is too late.

I have to say that fame can really cover up some people's mistakes in many cases. Obviously, he is the most ungrateful Phoenix man in the entertainment circle and a female star who interferes in other people's marriage with extremely bad behavior. It is only because of the banner of true love and the blessing of various awards that they have become artists praised by everyone. Of course, this is also directly related to the long history and lack of Internet.

Zhang Yimou keeps saying that he doesn't "live for others", but has it ever occurred to him that Xiaohua would be happier without his various entreaties and letters?

I don't know if she will regret choosing to return to Xi 'an, follow Zhang Yimou to Ganxian, save money to buy him a camera, run for college for him, and give up the opportunity to go to college after listening to his sweet words. ...

Regret that he didn't break his wings and let him have no chance to fly.

She may regret dreaming for ten minutes in the middle of the night, and that she pushed open the door to the world of flowers for her husband and sent him to another woman.

Li Bihua once said:

The biggest difference between Phoenix Man and potential stocks is whether they are grateful or not.

Obviously, Zhang Yimou is the former.

People with rich emotional experience have analyzed why Zhang Yimou, a seemingly smart person, would do something "desperate for love".

Because I suffered too much when I was young, when I succeeded in my career, I would have a strong "psychological compensation" for myself. I want to make good compensation for my sufferings and I can only look at others through the door.

Whether it's money or women, even if it's not Gong Li, there will be Lily and Zhang Li. But he forgot, because of him, who should Xiao Hua look for to compensate for his suffering in vain?

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Zhang Yimou, who is single again, is like a runaway wild horse. Accompanied by Gong Li, he was inspired to shoot one excellent work after another.

In Gong Li's view, Zhang Yimou can accompany her without his wife and daughter, and becoming a full member is just around the corner. Unexpectedly, after waiting for ten years, he parted ways.

This world-renowned champion never imagined that she would be picked by a 18-year-old 18 line.

1995 "Shake, Shake, Shake to Waipo Bridge" by Gong Li and Zhang Yimou. Gong Li urged Zhang Yimou to get married as usual, but Zhang Yimou said to her, "Marriage is just a piece of paper."

This indifferent tone deeply hurt Gong Li's heart, and the things behind it became a matter of course.

This woman, known as the "Palace Emperor", has long been sought after by the whole world and has developed a momentum. How can she compromise for a man?

She decided to end this ten-year relationship that made her bear the stigma of mistress, and quickly married Huang Hexiang, a Singaporean businessman, and started a wealthy family.

As for Zhang Yimou, she fell in love with 18-year-old Chen Ting when she was filming Happy Time on 1999.

Regarding the feelings of these two people, the headline taken by the media is "Zhang Yimou remarried wife 19 gave birth to a child, and her mother-in-law was 9 years younger than her son-in-law".

The 49-year-old husband, 18-year-old wife, looked at this "old boyfriend" who was 3 1 year older than her daughter. Naturally, Chen Ting's parents said nothing, but Xiaohua's warning was close at hand. Is it useful for parents not to agree? It's totally useless

In order to win Zhang Yimou's heart, Chen Ting adopted a completely different strategy from Xiao Hua and Gong Li, that is to continue to have children.

19 years old, their first son, Zhang Yinan, was born. Three years later, their second son Zhang was born. Two years later, their little daughter Zhang Yijiao was born.

Accompanied by three children, Chen Ting, whose mother depends on her children, finally got a piece of paper that made Zhang Yimou dispensable.

1992, Xiao Hua published a memoir called "Long ago", which tells how his marriage with his ex-husband was destroyed by mistress.

At that time, she and Zhang Yimou had been divorced for four years.

After four years of pain, Xiao Hua finally came out and chose to make peace with himself, saying the past one by one as a farewell, which also meant putting it down completely.

Today, 70-year-old Xiao Hua is still single, and she has never been married since she divorced Zhang Yimou. I don't know if it is because I am too disappointed in my feelings, or because I have been bitten by a snake, but I dare not love again.

Without Xiao Hua, Zhang Yimou's life would not be so successful.

But if it is Zhang Yimou, I believe Xiaohua will achieve something in life.