How to catch up with girls?

If you don't understand Stockholm syndrome, you won't realize its power. If you don't know the routine, you will easily be routine and not know it.

Once you encounter a carefully preset trap, it is actually difficult to get away with it, both men and women are the same.

You know, falling in love and getting married these days may be in danger of death.

Your time, attention, emotions, and the resulting distrust of the opposite sex and doubts about the world are all costs.

So I spent a whole day studying the so-called "bubble learning" with the feeling that "if you don't want to go to hell, you must first understand the laws of hell".

PUA, full name, girl. This theory was first put forward by a group of foreign boys who could not find a girlfriend. By studying psychology and practical skills, they summed up and shared their experience of picking up girls every time.

Mysterious man, one of the magicians who dominated Los Angeles, decided to start a class to teach girls skills. His disciple neil strauss systematized the whole theory and wrote the Bible "Girl's Talent" in the bubble circle.

After this book and their ideas were introduced into China, our compatriots who are good at learning from foreigners quickly developed a number of schools suitable for the national conditions in the primary stage of socialism.

The whole industry has fallen into pornography. The business of helping otaku and girls make friends has already evolved into teaching people how to push down the opposite sex in the shortest time, and then get rid of it cleanly, forming a set of industrial chain with the core purpose of achieving physical relationship without causing trouble.

They will package themselves as rich people in Gao Shuai, deliberately show their image on social networks, and at the same time carefully cultivate their own speech skills, and cajole and brainwash the "target" in all directions.

This seemingly confusing and illogical "martial arts cheats" has a surprisingly high success rate.

How amazing is the effect?

After Bao Xue developed the "control technique", it is said that some young women committed suicide for it, and some people became slaves of their boyfriends, working as cows and horses for him and leading the harem.

Out of anger, let's calm down and learn some dry goods

First of all, don't be superstitious about Gao Shuai's wealth, especially when it is called "Gao Shuai's wealth" on some occasions.

Some occasions include dating websites, nightclubs, bars and so on. It's not that Dave won't appear in these places, but the probability that they will seriously choose a spouse in these places is very low.

For the real Dave, beauty and sexual resources are not scarce, and he will never rush to the hospital. On the day when they want to settle down, their classmates, friends and children from their uncles and aunts will be their first choice.

There are enough good choices in the circle, why do you want to engage in crowd tactics?

Modern princes don't have to dance to choose their princesses, which is too inefficient. You might as well follow the map in the circle.

What is the False Gao Shuai Wealth of Bubble Science Packaging?

They put the students in suits first, and they are sure to succeed. Then they asked the photographer to teach them how to pose in front of the camera, and invited four beautiful women with long legs to take photos for the students. On the day of shooting, a big Jinbei car carried everyone straight to various luxurious places: at the racecourse, the students took photos of riding horses in borrowed riding boots and breeches; When I entered the high-end kitchen, I fried veal with an apron and dressed as a warm man. Stepping out of the window is the spacious conference room of Guangzhou landmark "Little Man Waist". They are talking to the prepared English PPT, pretending to be business elites. In the cigar bar, you are holding a cigar and sipping red wine, accompanied by beautiful women. Liu Nian also customized three LOGO walls, and the last link was for students to stand in front of the walls and sign their names, "which made people feel that they were invited to attend the event and walk the red carpet". Although the real scene of the shooting scene is: snapshot snapshot! Hurry up! All right, go, go! Great!

This is the scene described in an article about PUA in Vista Watch the World. In other words, the circle of friends of the pseudo-Gao Shuai rich is completely packaged according to the girls' imagination of the leading actor in Korean dramas.

Second, beware of those who destroy your worldview with words.

Women who grew up in East Asian culture generally lack self-confidence.

"Girls always have to get married", "Women can't compete with men in the workplace" and "Getting married is like doing a good job and being happier"? This traditional concept keeps brainwashing, making girls gentle, humble and thrifty.

However, modesty has never been a virtue in the relationship between men and women. On the contrary, it will make you easy to be seen through and looked down upon.

PUA's witchcraft includes but is not limited to, making you curious about him and expressing his willingness to lead you to a new world; Tell you, the world is bigger than you think. How can you meet heaven without going through hell? Sweet words to you gradually trigger your expectations for him; A couple have been showing weakness to you, tapping your desire for protection and maternal instinct.

Best of all, they have systematically learned how to escape the "waste test".

Waste testing is what women love to do: when she gets along with the opposite sex, she will test each other through various languages or behaviors to see if they are men or waste.

When you start a waste test and ask him "Who did you save when your mother and I fell into the water at the same time", "What do you think of my best friend" and "What is your next career direction", PUA will never be as passive as ordinary men, and they will give you a comfortable and exquisite answer immediately. For example, "If you fall into the water with my mother, of course my mother will save you."

For them, these are all sub-topics.

Boys who do practical things, when asked these questions, are neither clever nor persuasive, and often cannot make girls happy.

Third, you can master the topic just as you can master your own life.

In the final analysis, the popularity of bubble learning is objectively due to girls' high emotional needs and poor self-satisfaction ability.

No money, no ability to work, no hobbies, will especially want the love of a stranger. Looking forward to a person in the vast sea of people, discovering my uniqueness and knocking on my heart.

The way out of the topic trap is the same as the way out of the life trap, that is, you take the initiative. If he takes one step, you break another.

He praised you for being smart and cute, and you praised him for being handsome and stylish.

He asked you if it was not easy for a girl to live alone, so you threw the topic back and said that it was more painful for men to earn money to support their families.

He began to talk about his personal career. Don't just be silly and sweet, just say "you are great" after him. You should ask for details, ask him why he chose this industry, ask him what he thinks about the general direction of this industry, and ask him what advice he will give to newcomers who are ready to join this industry.

On these issues, it is easy for a fake overbearing president to expose the facts.

It is best that you have your own career and spiritual world, and you are no longer sensitive to the attention and companionship of others, so the probability of various drugs will be greatly improved.

Fourth, there is still a close relationship.

Building a self-world is not a one-off event, but intimacy is indeed necessary.

However, whenever Su Maoxiang is around, there is a person with legal knowledge and social logic, and one or two friends who can give him advice. Even if Xinxin invades, she can stop at the last stage.

The earth is so terrible that we can't go back to Mars. Let's practice our survival skills on earth.