Engagement is really not complicated, an article that understands engagement.

Engagement is really not complicated, one can understand engagement.

1. What is engagement? Why are you engaged?

1, engagement is an ancient three-media six engagement. Telling friends and relatives that you are getting married is a beautiful form.

2. Engagement has no legal effect, but more of a sense of ceremony, a romantic ceremony, which adds good memories and meets psychological needs.

3, engagement has a meaning of declaring sovereignty, telling the world that the other party will be your person in the future! Let the other person feel sincere.

4. Engagement helps them to face up to this relationship and gradually change their roles to adapt to each other's everything.

After the engagement, the two families have frequent contact and close relationship, so you can feel the future family atmosphere at close range and judge whether this is the marriage life you want.

6. If you are engaged, you are an unmarried couple. You can continue the running-in between them. The period from engagement to marriage is also called the cooling-off period of marriage, which also gives both parties a chance to run in and re-choose.

Second, when and where to choose?

Time: I met the parents of both parties, and both parties and their parents have negotiated the RV, three gold, bride price, dowry and other matters. And the approximate wedding date, so that they can find an auspicious day to get engaged, usually about 6- 12 months before the wedding!

Location: The location is not limited, either in the hotel or at home. Determine the time, place and number of people. Usually it is the woman's house, and some places are the man's house!

Tips: If there are many people, try to book the hotel in advance and try to ensure that everyone is in the same hall. If you make a layout in the hotel, communicate with the hotel in advance to confirm that you can provide location and space. Observe the surrounding environment, and the bad shooting background will affect the shooting effect.

3. Who will be invited? How much is the gift?

Inviter:

1, mainly parents, brothers and sisters, close relatives and friends of both parties. The engagement party is generally held by the woman (sometimes there are men, which varies from person to person), and the number of guests is preferably even.

2. Invite witnesses.

3. the matchmaker.

4. Photographer.

5. Master of ceremonies.

Engagement gift money: Many places pay more attention to gift money, and there is no absolute regulation on the appropriate amount of Geely, which can be given according to the economic situation of the man's family or the woman's request. Common gift numbers and meanings: one in a million is10001; Send 31800 together; Has been issued18888; Violet dry red 15000.

4. What should I prepare for engagement?

The man's dowry:

1. Engagement fee: both parties shall negotiate in advance. (Usually, half of the bride price will be given when engaged, which is slightly different according to local customs)

2, color gift box: generally put in a box, but also easy to carry.

3. Sanjin hardware: gold bracelets, gold bracelets, gold rings, gold necklaces, gold earrings, etc.

4. Diamond ring: Prepare a romantic proposal in advance.

5. Banquet money and matchmaker money: both parties shall negotiate.

6. Gifts: According to local customs, some places pay attention to "six kinds of gifts", which means that the new couple will live a rich life after marriage.

The return of the woman: prepare according to local customs!

Clothing:

1, men's wear: mainly suits. (The woman bought it for the man)

2, the woman's clothing: dress or cheongsam can be.

3. The clothing of the parents of the man and the woman.

Ceremony items:

1. Wedding layout: kt board (name of engagement date), balloon decoration, pump, welcome sign at the door, plate flowers, small happy characters, red tablecloth and other ornaments. (vases, custom photo frames, etc. Are acceptable)

2, engagement book: cloth or photo frame will do.

3, bouquet: usually prepare a large bouquet of roses.

4, cake: you can refer to the little red book style customization.

5. Tea set: Prepare tea cups according to local customs.

6, custom cola: choose according to your preferences, taking pictures is very nice.

7, early birth of the fruit bowl: the mirror artifact.

Entertainment:

1, dessert table: all kinds of lovely desserts and cakes.

2, wedding candy, wedding candy box: prepared according to the number of people.

3, like cigarettes, like wine: prepared according to customs and number of people.

4. Red envelopes.

5, guest return: according to custom. (sugar and cigarettes)

5. What is the engagement process?

On the day of engagement, the man, parents and close relatives go to the woman's house together with dowry, jewelry and other items required by customs (1 1, please pay attention to control the time before). After the man enters the door, he gives the bride price to the woman's mother. Sit at the woman's house for a while before going to the hotel. The engagement party will be filmed in advance, and the couple and their parents will meet the guests at the door.

The ceremony began, and the engagement letter was read and signed. The parents of both sides gave a brief speech, expressing their blessings, thanking the guests for the banquet, the newlyweds toasted, relatives sent red envelopes to meet, the banquet was over, and the newlyweds and their parents saw them off. The man, his parents and close relatives go back to the woman's house for a while and leave with gifts before sunset.

Six, some tips from people who have been there.

1. communicate well with the cameraman. The two protagonists try to arrive at the hotel one hour in advance and reserve shooting time, otherwise it will be equally divided.

It would be awkward to shoot in the presence of family.

2. Remind the relatives and friends of the organizer to arrive early.

Don't forget your boyfriend while dressing up for yourself.

The engagement ceremony is arranged after serving. After the ceremony, everyone clinked cups and moved chopsticks in one go to avoid touching the empty table behind the cups. The scene is a little awkward.

Say hello to the elders at home in advance and ask them to enliven the atmosphere appropriately to avoid embarrassment.

6. Put the diamonds and gold ornaments on the table away quickly after taking pictures, or simply simulate them to avoid losing them!