Every straight man has a Brokeback Mountain in his heart.

Have you ever thought that straight men around you might have sex with men?

In 2003, Dr. PreetiPatheia from the Ministry of Health and Mental Health of new york conducted a telephone interview with nearly 4,200 men in new york.

The interview report shows that 70% of straight men married to women have had sex with men, and 10% of these married straight men admitted to having same-sex sex sex in the past year. (Every country's sexual culture is different, but it is not excluded that there is a similar situation in China. )

According to the number of experiments, I will give you a calculation in proportion:

Sexual relations between self-proclaimed straight men and men: nearly 420 people

More than 400 people have married the opposite sex: nearly 294 people.

Married and still having sex with men in the past year: nearly 30 people.

In addition, the interview results show that the proportion of straight men having sex with men is significantly higher than that of homosexuals.

Seeing this, I think everyone has a question: isn't it gay to have sex between the same sex?

Who told you that heterosexuals can't have sex with the same sex? ?

Sexual orientation and sexual behavior cannot be equated!

Human sexual behavior, to a certain extent, is based on the innate sexual orientation. But no one stipulates that straight men can't have sex with men. In some special cases, they just come whenever they want!

1962, an American photographer secretly took some real shots of men having sex in the toilet through a two-way mirror in a small room in the underground public toilet of the local city square.

More than 40 years later, a director came across these original videos and later edited them into a 56-minute silent film Fish Pond.

(book of the same name)

In response to these same-sex behaviors, some sociologists put forward a theory: because some men and their wives are Catholics, they can't use condoms and they don't want to have more children, so they can only have sex with other men in secret bases.

Everyone has to ask again: Will straight men become Bai Wan in the long run?

The answer is of course: no!

What is "Bai Wan" and sex?

Not sexual orientation.

In the history of mankind, almost no attempt has been made to "Bai Wan" as a typical heterosexual, and none of the cases of "breaking straight men" for decades are worthy of scrutiny.

Therefore, it is impossible to change sexual orientation, and it is impossible for straight men to become Bai Wan. What we usually call "Bai Wan" for straight men is not to turn heterosexuals into homosexuals from sexual orientation, but to "seduce" a straight man in sexual behavior and have sex with him.

A straight man who can be a "Bai Wan" doesn't need to break off at all, because he is a "hidden bend".

So he is neither gay nor Bai Wan, so what kind of mentality is it for straight men to have sex with men?

The world of straight men, do you really understand?

Sexologist Nicky? Dr. Goldstein analyzed the following reasons for this problem:

1. Purely pursue sexual pleasure, release pressure and seek excitement.

During the discussion, Dr. Goldstein found that a man dug a hole in his own wall so that anyone could have fun. As for who the other party is, it doesn't matter at all, as long as it can reach gc.

It's better to find a man you don't know than to please a woman, so that men can understand men better!

2. Try different xing experiences

Many men will be curious and even doubt themselves: am I gay? So they will try to answer their inner doubts with personal experiments, but it is difficult for them to admit that they have had sex with the same sex.

Through the sharing of respondents, the conclusion is that many men just want to try different xing experiences, such as between the same sex, so they put them into practice.

Seek comfort for your psychological trauma.

Some men suffered psychological trauma in their childhood. In order to get rid of the pain, they may have revenge, and in the process, they "hurt" other people of the same sex to satisfy their sense of rights.

Even some men take sex workers as their profession and earn some tickets by the way. Why not?

Of course, the reasons are far more than these! The world is far more complicated than we thought!

Homosexual orientation

How to judge?

1. Can he satisfy himself through the opposite sex?

In some special circumstances, such as men who have been isolated in prisons, military, monasteries, male boarding schools or other same-sex groups for a long time, they cannot satisfy themselves through the opposite sex. In addition to self-sufficiency, they are likely to have sex with the same sex around them.

2. Is he addicted to sex?

For straight men who are addicted to sex, gnome male-"gnome male-"is a good medicine for treatment, so they don't care who the other person is. If your partner can't satisfy himself, it's normal to find another opposite sex or same sex to "gnome male-".

Therefore, in marriage, whether the husband and wife are "sexually blessed" is really important.

Does he often stay out at night?

The research paper published in the Journal of Social Psychology points out that the attraction of same sex to ta may increase after straight men drink alcohol.

Later experimental results also proved that straight men, whether of the same sex or of the opposite sex, have almost the same desire to have sex with them as long as they consume a certain amount of alcohol.

If you want to know the person who often attends wine fairs and often goes out at night, you might as well pay attention to it (not only women are dangerous).

4. Is he full of charm

If people look like RMB, everyone loves them, and flowers bloom and fall, will Gay circle let him go?

Straight men exude pure yang, but most gays are eager. Once he becomes the prey of homosexuality, the probability of homosexual sex is much higher than that of straight men in all aspects.

Direct inquiry

In some cases, psychological characteristics, behavior, etc. It can only be used as a reference. The only way to make sure is for him to tell you himself.

Sometimes it's much more decent to come straight to the point than to speculate secretly.

Remember one thing, never judge right or wrong.

Whether it is homosexuality or pure homosexual sex, this society is imprisoned by some traditional labels.

We always think that in order to carry on the family line, we should naturally become heterosexual and only have sex with the opposite sex, but everyone has the right to choose their own life.

So, please don't label at will. Sometimes we don't even recognize ourselves, so why should we regulate others?

But what would you do if your boyfriend/husband had sex with a man?

Is it respect and forgiveness?

Or spit and leave?