At the age of 20, the strange girl looks like Andy.

Tan said Andy is a strange girl who doesn't depend on anyone from life to psychology.

Indeed, Andy is a strange girl.

In order to find my younger brother, I can quit my job that everyone thinks is good at once and return home from America alone.

You can negotiate directly with a business tycoon like Tan Mingzong.

Driving a limited edition sports car, Qu Xiaoyu mistakenly thought it was a mistress. But not afraid of rumors.

You can refuse the huge inheritance from your biological father Wei Guoqiang without hesitation.

When Wei Guoqiang's wife went to the company to play a prank, Andy said contemptuously, I have enough money, and I don't need to be a fox.

And sigh: women, after so many years of development, still have only two ways to go: forbearance and trouble, as if they can't live without men.

And Andy is obviously not such a woman. She practices her principles of life with her own actions. Never depend on anyone from life to psychology. Including love.

Fan Bingbing once said: I don't want to marry into a giant, I am a giant. Just like Andy. Whether it's Wei Wei or Bao Yifan, Andy will always be on his high horse when he gets along with them. Without attachment, we have no feeling of climbing high. Instead, what we see is that these two suitors are following in Andy's footsteps. Because in their hearts, Andy is not a princess, but their queen, unique.

And these two people, whether they are Vivian lost by Andy or Bao Yifan who makes Andy happier, are Gao Fushuai in the eyes of ordinary girls. One of their eyes is enough to make girls' hearts thump and girls be elated. Andy is cold and calm. The partner she wants should be like what Shu Ting said in To the Oak Tree:

If I love you,

Unlike climbing Campbell,

Show off with your tall branches:

It is not just like a dangerous peak, it increases your height and sets off your dignity.

I must be a kapok beside you,

Standing with you as the image of a tree.

Independent and confident, not attached to your partner.

Although Andy is in her early thirties, no one will label her as a leftover woman. There are so many high-quality men who fall at her feet. These men are the dreams of many women. For example, Fan in the play has always wanted to meet such a man. But her blind date is always unsatisfactory. Finally, I found one, whether it is appearance or career, but Fan asked to buy a house in Shanghai before getting married, and used a car and a house to stimulate the post-90 s. This house has become a haven for fans, and I hope I can handle my own mess. If it is not true love, it is estimated that men will be defeated and flee under such circumstances. So when Mei Sheng, a fan, envied Andy, we despised her. I despise her indecision in dealing with housework, and I despise her as a senior HR who has been wandering in the magic capital for many years, and she is as short-sighted as ordinary women. When it comes to houses, she has no mind for financial investment.

It is also beautiful and beautiful, and it is also outstanding at work. Although Andy has a rich father, Andy now earns everything by himself. It can be said that the same two people have no background, but why is Andy free to pursue what he wants and reject people and things he doesn't like? Fan, on the other hand, always trapped himself in the mire of his family. He always felt that he didn't have the capital to talk about the love he wanted to talk about and change jobs.

I think money plays a great role in life choices. A person's wealth and freedom largely determine his courage and confidence in life.

I remember I had a cousin. Get married in a hurry On the wedding day, my cousin had a quarrel with her cousin. Marriage is also a variety of contradictions. Soon after the baby was born, she wanted a divorce. Her friend advised her not to leave. The reason is not for the sake of children, as we usually say, but not to talk about divorce when you are not strong enough. I think being strong here means not only being mentally prepared, but also being mentally strong enough, and more importantly being physically strong enough. Now that the cost of living is so high, you have to raise your own children after divorce. Later, when the child was 3 years old, my cousin divorced. Buy a house, a car, travel everywhere, and live a very chic life. Just like Xiao Qu Kong in the play, although she broke up with Dr. Zhao, she didn't cry her eyes out as she imagined, and she was still free and easy. More like Andy who broke up with Weiwei, although sad, but also let go. When everyone was reunited for the New Year, she was on holiday alone in Puji Island and met her boss. Write a new chapter in life.

But this kind of free and easy life attitude and casual life should have material guarantee! Without money, everything is empty talk. It is estimated that when you are sad, you can only chase dramas at home or stroll around the community.

Take Fan Meisheng for example! Why do you care so much about your life, why do you make yourself so humble, and why do you pin the happiness of your life on a man? To put it bluntly, she has no money. Maybe we will feel sorry for her, because her family has exhausted what little savings she has. But what I want to say is, why can't she control her life? A senior HR, with a monthly salary of 1W, gives parents basic living expenses in addition to the necessary expenses such as monthly rent, water, electricity and communication. The plight of her brother and sister-in-law is none of her business. Compromise again and again will only make you fall into the dark quagmire of your sister-in-law. So we should deal with housework decisively.

Apart from these expenses, you should take good care of the rest of the money. Don't spend money you shouldn't spend, buy all vipshop, Taobao, mask and bags in a planned way. If you indulge your consumption desire like this again, even without the drag of your family, you can only worry about all kinds of expenses for a lifetime. The second is to save and invest in financial management in a planned way. Qu Xiaoyu once said: "The car and house are eggs, and the company at home is the golden hen." Therefore, each of us should strive to raise and fatten our golden hens. Our daughter, Fan Damei, besides saving, investing and managing money, what is more important is not to have worries, to boldly pursue the life she wants, to do the work she likes, to open up sources and reduce expenditure, and to fatten her golden hen. I don't think I'm afraid of not getting married because I'm missing a Wang Baichuan, and I'm not afraid of changing jobs because of family expenses.

So, at the age of 20, set yourself a goal, and live like a strange girl like Andy in this life, with both internal and external training and rich materials. Although we are not as talented as Andy in IQ, we can open up new sources and reduce expenditure, at least let ourselves not be in debt, not be attached to anyone materially and spiritually, and not build our happiness and security on others. Being an independent, confident, free and easy girl like Andy, whether at the age of 20, 30, 40, 50, or even like Bridget, can get the love of her 24-year-old husband. Love the person you want to love, pursue the love you want, and make yourself a legend at any time.