You must know common sense at the wedding.

Wedding knowledge:

1, cheers

It is one of the important ceremonies for the bride and groom to drink a toast at the wedding. This custom has existed since ancient times and originated from the Qin Dynasty. According to historical records, at that time, the bride and groom each held a ladle that was split in two, which meant that the two became one and the husband and wife had the same status. After marriage, they love each other and live in harmony. It was not until the Tang Dynasty that the container was replaced by a wine glass. Nowadays, the ceremony of toasting has changed a lot from the beginning, but no matter how different the expression of this custom is, its meaning is the same, that is, it symbolizes that the knot will always be good, and it also has the profound meaning of letting the bride and groom share joys and sorrows.

Step 2 wear a ring

Many young people don't know which finger the ring is on and what it means. Jokes or gossips caused by wearing rings indiscriminately abound. Therefore, when you decide to wear a ring to the street, you must make up the ring research. Even if it is decorative, it can avoid misunderstanding. Why not? The hint of the ring: worn on the index finger, it means unmarried and wants to get married; Wear it on the middle finger to show love; Wear it on the ring finger to indicate engagement or marriage; Wearing it on the little finger means being single. In foreign countries, wedding rings cannot be made of alloy, but must be made of pure gold, platinum or sterling silver, indicating that love is pure. The names of both parties must be engraved on the ring, because this is a permanent commemoration, which means to grow old together.

Step 3 witness

"Witness" generally refers to the elders, unit leaders or people with high prestige in the whole wedding as witnesses. Witnesses usually read the marriage certificate and make a marriage statement at the beginning of the wedding.

4. Moderator

The host generally refers to the parents, the father of the groom or the father of the bride. In some cases, it may be the mother of the bride or groom or her grandparents.

2. What do you know about weddings?

Wedding knowledge: 1. Drinking a glass of wine at the wedding is one of the important ceremonies at the wedding.

This custom has existed since ancient times and originated from the Qin Dynasty. According to historical records, at that time, the bride and groom each held a ladle that was split in two, which meant that the two became one and the husband and wife had the same status. After marriage, they love each other and live in harmony.

It was not until the Tang Dynasty that the container was replaced by a wine glass. Nowadays, the ceremony of toasting has changed a lot from the beginning, but no matter how different the expression of this custom is, its meaning is the same, that is, it symbolizes that the knot will always be good, and it also has the profound meaning of letting the bride and groom share joys and sorrows.

2, wearing a ring Many young people don't know which finger the ring is worn on and what it means. Jokes or gossips caused by wearing rings indiscriminately abound.

Therefore, when you decide to wear a ring to the street, you must make up the ring research. Even if it is decorative, it can avoid misunderstanding. Why not? The hint of the ring: worn on the index finger, it means unmarried and wants to get married; Wear it on the middle finger to show love; Wear it on the ring finger to indicate engagement or marriage; Wearing it on the little finger means being single.

In foreign countries, wedding rings cannot be made of alloy, but must be made of pure gold, platinum or sterling silver, indicating that love is pure. The names of both parties must be engraved on the ring, because this is a permanent commemoration, which means to grow old together.

3. Witness "Witness" generally invites the elders, unit leaders or people with high prestige at the whole wedding to be witnesses. Witnesses usually read the marriage certificate and make a marriage statement at the beginning of the wedding.

4. Married people usually refer to parents, the father of the groom or the father of the bride. In some cases, it may be the mother of the bride or groom or her grandparents.

3. What are the necessary common sense for marriage?

The essential elements of marriage refer to the conditions that the parties must have when they get married.

China's current marriage law stipulates that there are two conditions, that is, both men and women reach the legal age of marriage completely voluntarily. 1. Article 4 of the Marriage Law stipulates: "Marriage must be entirely voluntary, and neither party may force the other, and no third party may interfere."

This provision is the concrete embodiment of the principle of freedom of marriage in the marriage system, and the decision-making power of marriage is completely given to the parties themselves through law. (1) Both men and women should have the ability to express their willingness to get married.

(2) The consent of both men and women to get married must be true. (3) The consent of both men and women to get married must conform to the legal form.

2. Must reach the legal age of marriage. The legal age for marriage is the minimum age for marriage stipulated by law. In other words, people can't get married until they are of legal age, and it is illegal to get married before they are of legal age.

Whether to get married at the legal age of marriage is up to the parties themselves.

4. Do the newlyweds know the six common sense of wedding?

1, western-style wedding, why does the bride always stand on the groom's left? Different from traditional weddings in China, western-style weddings don't stand in the direction of "male left and female right".

That's because in ancient times, the groom in Anglo-Saxon often stepped forward to protect the bride from being taken away by others. At the wedding, the groom asked the bride to stand on his left. Once the rival in love appeared, he could immediately draw his sword to defeat the enemy.

2. Why does the bride wear a white dress? Since Roman times, white symbolizes happiness, just as in China, red symbolizes happiness. During the period of 1850- 1990, white was also a symbol of wealth.

By the beginning of the 20th century, the meaning of white representing innocence far exceeded others. Therefore, white is generally the first choice of dress color, and it also marks the beauty and innocence of the bride.

3. Why does the bride wear a veil? At first, the bride's veil symbolized youth and innocence. It is said that a beautiful aristocratic girl inadvertently stood behind a white scarf, and her fiance was amazed at it, so she came up with the idea of wearing white gauze at the wedding. Her behavior immediately set off an atmosphere, which is the origin of the custom that brides wear white gauze today.

4. Why do you want to drink a toast? It is one of the important ceremonies for the bride and groom to drink a toast at the wedding. This custom originated from the Qin Dynasty. According to historical records, the bride and groom each drink half a ladle, which means that they are one and love each other.

It was not until the Tang Dynasty that the container was replaced with a wine glass, but whether it was a ladle or a wine glass, its meaning was the same, that is, it marked the profound meaning of friendship, suffering and * * *. 5. Why do you want to cut the wedding cake? According to traditional European customs, the bride and groom should kiss across the cake.

A clever pastry chef had a brainwave, mixed all kinds of cakes together and wrapped them with a layer of sugar, which became a modern wedding cake. When cutting the cake, the bride and groom cut the first cake together with a knife. You can't cut it alone, and don't ask others to replace it.

Bread crumbs represent luck. If a single girls takes the crumbs of cake home and puts them under the pillow, she can see what her future Prince Charming looks like in her dream. 6. Why do you want a honeymoon trip? Honeymoon is a sweet time for newlyweds to be alone after the wedding.

The word "honeymoon" originated in Europe. In the past, weddings were held under the conditions of prisoners, and were generally rejected by the bride, so the groom would take the bride to a place where others could not find it. In ancient times, honey was a symbol of life, well-being and fertility, so they drank drinks made of honey every day within 33 days after marriage or when the full moon came, and the word "honeymoon" came into being, and this custom has been handed down all the time. Now all newlyweds will go to a place together to celebrate the beginning of a new life after the wedding.

In Chengdu, almost all new couples do this when they get married, but there are also many new couples who don't know why. Knowing this common sense will help us better understand the meaning of wedding and plan a unique wedding for Chengdu people.

5. What common sense should I know when I get married?

If the marriage registration requires the original ID cards of both parties and the original household registration books of both parties, it cannot be a copy; The joint property of husband and wife includes wages and bonuses, inherited or donated property, etc.

1. Marriage age: male over 22 years old, female over 20 years old. 2. Information required for marriage registration: original ID cards of both parties and original household registration books of both parties.

3. Husband and wife have the same property: salary and bonus; Income from production and operation; Intellectual property income; Inheriting or donating property, unless it is expressly given to one party; Other property that should be owned by * * *. 4. The handling organ of divorce by agreement: the civil affairs department or the original marriage registration organ where both parties have their household registration.

5. Information required for divorce by agreement: original ID cards of both parties, original household registration books of both parties, original marriage certificates of both parties, and several one-inch bareheaded photos. 6. The legal reason for divorce decided by the court (litigation divorce): (1) Bigamy or cohabitation of a spouse with others; (2) committing domestic violence or abusing or abandoning family members; (three) gambling, drug abuse and other bad habits; (4) separated for two years due to emotional disharmony; (5) Other circumstances that lead to the breakdown of marriage relationship.

7. Reasons for claiming compensation for mental damage: (1) Bigamy; (2) the spouse cohabits with others; (3) committing domestic violence; (4) maltreating or abandoning family members. 8. Legal reasons for one party to divide or not divide the joint property of husband and wife: concealing, transferring, selling, destroying the joint property of husband and wife, or forging debts in an attempt to occupy the other party's property.

9. Custody of children: For children under two years old, custody generally belongs to the woman; For children between the ages of two and 10, the right of custody is generally determined according to the factors conducive to the growth of the child, and it is necessary to weigh the education, economy, work, personality and other factors of both parties; For children over the age of 10, custody is generally determined according to the wishes of the children. 10, child support: it can be determined according to the actual needs of children, the affordability of both parents and the actual living standards in the local area.

If you have a fixed income, you can generally pay the child care fee according to the proportion of 20% to 30% of the total monthly income. Bear the one-child health care costs of more than two children, the proportion can be appropriately increased, but generally not more than 50% of the total monthly income.

No fixed income, can refer to the above ratio, according to the total income of the year or the average income of the same industry to determine the amount of conservation fees. Under special circumstances, the above ratio can be appropriately increased or decreased.

Generally, alimony is paid monthly until the child 18 is one year old. 1 1. prenuptial agreement: the original agreement in the woman's hand should be properly kept, as should the property documents that prove the existence of the property, such as real estate license, vehicle driving license and passbook.

At the same time, it is suggested that the agreement be notarized or witnessed to further confirm the authenticity and validity of the agreement.

6. I want to know all kinds of knowledge about wedding etiquette

One week before the ceremony, you should pay attention to your diet, eat less fattening food and eat less, so that you can look good in a dress! Eat more fruits and drink more water, and your skin will look good! Be a beautiful bride! Etiquette in a wedding is different in different places, depending on local customs.

Etiquette and appearance of the bride and groom at the wedding: The bride and groom should pay special attention to their appearance, make up properly, do their hair well and keep radiant. The groom usually wears a suit and tie, and the bride usually wears a wedding dress. Wear necklaces, earrings and other accessories appropriately, but not too much, so as not to be tacky.

Welcome: the bride and groom should stand at the door with flowers in their hands to greet the guests, and should not walk back and forth; When the guests arrive, they should be warmly welcomed and thanked, introduced to the elders or other guests at home in time, and then offered their seats in turn according to their elders or generations. For the red envelopes given by the guests at this time, the bride and groom should express their gratitude equally, regardless of the ceremony. Offer cigarettes and tea in both hands and light a fire for the elders or peers who smoke.

Talking and laughing: be sincere and humble when talking to your elders, and don't talk nonsense; Speak warmly and politely with peers, and pay attention to humility; Don't stop laughing and don't be silent; Be warm and friendly to the younger generation. Sit up straight and walk: don't sit on the sofa askew, let alone cross your legs. When standing and talking, keep your back straight, and don't shake or move around frequently. Don't walk slowly, like walking, but don't run around.

You can run at a brisk pace, but you should pay attention to your walking posture and rhythm. Cooperate with each other: at the wedding, the bride and groom go out in pairs, so it is best not to act separately. In terms of mutual cooperation, we should pay attention to etiquette, such as introducing elders or equal relatives and friends to each other; When walking together, the two sides should not be too far away, but they should not be too close; If guests make trouble, they should help each other. When seated, the bride should be seated first.

The wedding reception begins: the bride and groom should go to the guest table in order to propose a toast to the guests. When making a toast, you should fill it with your own hands and hold it for the guests with both hands, but don't force the guests to drink it all at once. After the guest puts down the glass, the bride and groom should say "thank you", fill the glass for the guest again, and then propose a toast to the next guest. The bride and groom should take good care of the guests at the wedding reception, let relatives and friends eat, drink and leave happily.

Don't eat and drink by yourself, or even get drunk on the spot. This is impolite. When making a toast to a guest, even if you can't drink enough, you should show a little, at least raise your glass to thank you and explain the reason why you can't drink too much. After the wedding reception: when the guests leave, the bride and groom should stand at the door, shake hands with the guests and say "thank you for coming" and "please walk slowly".

Wedding: (arrange the bride and groom, sound engineer, photographer, cameraman, firecrackers, flower sender, marriage certificate, keepsake and drinking utensils; Officiating ceremony, witnesses, leaders of the bride and groom, relatives and friends, guests' representatives, wearing wedding flowers, sitting on the wedding podium) (1), the wedding celebration begins, music is played and firecrackers are set off; (2) present flowers to the bride and groom; (3) The witness issues a marriage certificate to the bride and groom and delivers a marriage certificate speech; The bride and groom bow to the witness, and the witness issues the marriage certificate to the bride and groom. Hold a ceremony to worship the church: (1) worship the high hall; Second, worship guests; Three couples worship) (5), exchange tokens; (6) Raise a glass and drink; (7), congratulations, thanks: wedding ceremony (bride's parents) make a wedding speech; Congratulations: speeches by leaders of the bride and groom, representatives of relatives and friends, and guests; The officiating person (the groom's parents) gives the officiating speech and a thank-you speech; The bride and groom talk; (8) Have a drawing room. The wedding is over and the festive banquet begins.

The new parents have their own new seats, and the new seats are in the right position. At this time, the bride will open an account.

During the dinner, the band played music, the guests sang and entertained, the chef added vegetables to the new relatives, and the new relatives rewarded the chef. At the wedding reception, the bride and groom, accompanied by the host and the groomsman and bridesmaid, propose a toast and light cigarettes to the guests.

When toasting, the bride and groom propose a toast to the bride and light a cigarette in order of seniority. When toasting other guests, if there are many guests, the host requires one or two representatives from each table to be lit by the bride and groom.

After the couple broke up with the guests, the man's family saw them off at the gate of the hotel. After the guests leave, they have a reunion dinner, the groom's house is surrounded, the bride toasts her in-laws, and the man's house has a reunion dinner.

In the evening, you should light the wedding wax brought back from your mother's house and put the green onions in the new house. The bride and groom want to eat jiaozi and noodles.

Jiaozi is called Descendants jiaozi, and noodles are called Longevity Noodles (some are also called Comfort Noodles). Then I started to make trouble in the bridal chamber.

The traditional custom of making trouble in the bridal chamber is that the bride and groom's sister-in-law and aunt make bedding for the couple, and at the same time throw dates, chestnuts (meaning that your son has a baby early), peanuts (meaning that the girl's son arranges flowers), soybeans (meaning that there are many children and likes golden beans) and wooden piers (meaning that the children grow strong) on the bride and groom's bed. Now, on the wedding night, there are many programs for young people and the bride and groom to play together. They are very creative and interesting.

Often stay up late into the night until the bride and groom repeatedly beg for mercy. Family wedding Family wedding refers to a small wedding held by newlyweds in their own homes or other places, inviting relatives and friends from both sides to participate. Its main procedures include six items.

One is to announce marriage. If possible, you can play or play the Wedding March and set off firecrackers.

At the same time, in the applause and cheers of the guests, the bride and groom stepped into the scene. Second, bow and salute.

Under the auspices of the master of ceremonies, newlyweds should bow to their parents or other elders first, then to all the guests and finally to each other. Third, the witness speaks.

Its main content is to briefly introduce the love process between couples and wish each other happiness after marriage. Sometimes it can be replaced by reading the marriage certificate and declaring the marriage of the newlyweds legal.

Fourth, the elders speak. Couples of parents or other elders may be invited to make impromptu speeches to congratulate the bride and groom.

Fifth, it is a newcomer to speak. The bride and groom should be invited to speak in turn.

Thank you to all the guests.

7. wedding tips

25 things to know before marriage

Before I got married, my father solemnly gave me a set of wedding knowledge books, the thickness of which was similar to that of Cihai. I thought it was funny at the time. After all, in this era of comprehensive coverage of knowledge and information, what psychological preparations should be made for what may happen before and after marriage, just use the search engine of PC.

Half a year's love affair soon ended because of hasty preparations for the wedding. I thought I could cross the river smoothly before marriage, but when the wedding day approached, many unexpected "accidents" occurred. I haven't turned a page of those precious books my father gave me. I firmly believe that these "accidents" must have something to do with not reading. These are all things that we newcomers who believe in "love" need to understand and seriously think about.

As the wedding approaches, Dorothy always feels exhausted. I can't help feeling sorry for her. Recently, she has really spent all her free time managing the wedding scene and decorating her new home. She is seriously short of sleep and extremely tired. Sometimes, when she has tea with her, she feels like a dream.

Wedding is a big event for two people, so we should go hand in hand. But the groom is always very busy, and he is not in China most of the time before marriage. All packages, large and small, are borne by the bride-to-be. From her point of view, it is considerate and understanding of her lover, but onlookers really feel sorry for her. You know, most brides are just busy dressing up before the wedding. It's a world of difference!

If it is not necessary, she will leave her sleeves with her own personality. However, all her friends came to take the initiative to take the job, so she had to become the chief planner and on-site executive. Trivial things are closely listed on the schedule, and it takes three days and three nights just to make a phone call. To make matters worse, her work is still quite busy, and she bears important responsibilities.

Sometimes Dorothy has tears in her eyes, but she always yawns to cover them up. "Bride" magazine and the wedding fair gave her some references. She said that she could barely cope mentally, and the rest were manual labor.

I admire her courage to hold hands with the groom-to-be within half a year, and also admire her atmosphere of taking the initiative to undertake the wedding and do housework. However, from what I know about her, I know that she has unspeakable complaints and I understand her occasional flinch.

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